I suppose I will start at the beginning. I'm 33 now, recently divorced, own a house, have a degree, and a decent job that allows me alot of flexibility. I was married for 12 years, she split, and for the longest time I had a serious case of oneitis. I've never been a player, always had horrible approach anxiety and just just got lucky most of the time. I've been with 7 women in my life. I am the definition of AFC.
About 3 months ago, I was reading an article about Neil Strauss and bought the book, yeah, you know the one. I devoured it in 2 days. I then picked up "The Rules of the Game" and have successfully completed the Stylelife challenge. I'm still using alot of scripted openners, and I'm still struggling with approach anxiety, but I'm getting past it. I love the pickup-labs pdf's and I do use the ones that are approved.
I live north of Dallas, in Wichita Falls, so this was the closest lair I could find. I went over to dallasPUA website first, but that place is dead. I hope this one isn't. I wish that I would have found out about the community back in 96-97, but better late than never. I'm registering here because I want to continue to learn, and I want to converse with and get advice from people who have been down this road.
I was an AFC before I got married, and it's part of the reason for the divorce. I've been down that road, and I'm done with it. It's time to try something different. I'm searching for the true path.