I think you want to find a happy medium as an aspiring PUA. If you are not getting laid regularly/withhold masterbating, it may lower your standards or make you more inclined to approach, but, if you have big googly eyes and drooling like a sex starved teenager, you aren't going to get very far if you reek of desperation.
If you decide to punch the clown right before you head out for the night, and then stand in the corner in post-masturbatory bliss and have no urge to open, that won't get you very far either.
also want to keep in mind you don't want to have held back too long or else when you actually do get to step up to bat for the real thing, you may have a less than stellar performance.
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Masturbation/withholding masturbation and it's effect
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by Guest » Wed Oct 14, 2009 10:36 pm
psychologically, i dont think this is good for you as a PUA.
orgasm releases chemicals in your brain that leaves you with a feeling of euhporia, as such, making you a happy person. women find that attractive.
i believe that if you do not jack off, you would be so sexually frustrated that when talking with women, they can sense it, or see it in your eyes (not the good eyegazing kind, the needy kind).
physically, this will impair your ability to last longer. because you have so much sexual tension built up, youd cum quicker than if you had orgasmed that day. is that a sexual experience you would like the woman to have? if so, you better be damn good with your tongue...
orgasm releases chemicals in your brain that leaves you with a feeling of euhporia, as such, making you a happy person. women find that attractive.
i believe that if you do not jack off, you would be so sexually frustrated that when talking with women, they can sense it, or see it in your eyes (not the good eyegazing kind, the needy kind).
physically, this will impair your ability to last longer. because you have so much sexual tension built up, youd cum quicker than if you had orgasmed that day. is that a sexual experience you would like the woman to have? if so, you better be damn good with your tongue...
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by Guest » Wed Oct 14, 2009 10:56 pm
Dude i'll tell you this shit right now chronic masturbation results in desensitization of the nerves in the penis which i can tell you this is a double edge sword. On the one hand you'll have better stamina especially when wearing a rubber, making you a god in the bed(so long as you got some idea of what your doing) but it's going to take you a while to come, if at all. Bummer, I've been their, it really fucking sucks when your girl has cum 3 times in a row and you have'nt busted one at all. Its equivalent exchange, you get some you lose some.
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by Guest » Thu Oct 15, 2009 12:46 am
Keep in mind that i am a virgin. I don't expect my first time to be some sex marathon. I also don't expect to be good in bed, but i hope i will be even though the odds are against that. It seems everywhere i look for answers on this question i find some people that say "good idea do It " and others that say the opposite. I'm confused lol
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by Guest » Thu Oct 15, 2009 8:54 am
[QUOTE=TheFlyingHungarian;33353]Dude i'll tell you this shit right now chronic masturbation results in desensitization of the nerves in the penis which i can tell you this is a double edge sword. On the one hand you'll have better stamina especially when wearing a rubber, making you a god in the bed(so long as you got some idea of what your doing) but it's going to take you a while to come, if at all. Bummer, I've been their, it really fucking sucks when your girl has cum 3 times in a row and you have'nt busted one at all. Its equivalent exchange, you get some you lose some.[/QUOTE]
I don't think there's any at all wrong with not cumming. As a matter of fact, the first time I fuck a girl I virtually NEVER cum. I've found that not cumming the first time kind of freaks girls out and makes them very eager and open to doing things that they may not be otherwise inclined to do...
Obviously, I'll let you use your imagination on what those things are...
I don't think there's any at all wrong with not cumming. As a matter of fact, the first time I fuck a girl I virtually NEVER cum. I've found that not cumming the first time kind of freaks girls out and makes them very eager and open to doing things that they may not be otherwise inclined to do...
Obviously, I'll let you use your imagination on what those things are...
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by Guest » Sun Oct 25, 2009 3:47 pm
[QUOTE=Prodigy;33352]psychologically, i dont think this is good for you as a PUA.
orgasm releases chemicals in your brain that leaves you with a feeling of euhporia, as such, making you a happy person. women find that attractive.
i believe that if you do not jack off, you would be so sexually frustrated that when talking with women, they can sense it, or see it in your eyes (not the good eyegazing kind, the needy kind).
physically, this will impair your ability to last longer. because you have so much sexual tension built up, youd cum quicker than if you had orgasmed that day. is that a sexual experience you would like the woman to have? if so, you better be damn good with your tongue...[/QUOTE]
Agreed I also want to add that jacking off causes your body to produce testosterone. Testerone is how your body is able to replace the semen you have released from jacking off. If you are worried about training yourself to cum quick then just masterbate longer "duh..." All that said we all know that chicks are way better then a hand.
orgasm releases chemicals in your brain that leaves you with a feeling of euhporia, as such, making you a happy person. women find that attractive.
i believe that if you do not jack off, you would be so sexually frustrated that when talking with women, they can sense it, or see it in your eyes (not the good eyegazing kind, the needy kind).
physically, this will impair your ability to last longer. because you have so much sexual tension built up, youd cum quicker than if you had orgasmed that day. is that a sexual experience you would like the woman to have? if so, you better be damn good with your tongue...[/QUOTE]
Agreed I also want to add that jacking off causes your body to produce testosterone. Testerone is how your body is able to replace the semen you have released from jacking off. If you are worried about training yourself to cum quick then just masterbate longer "duh..." All that said we all know that chicks are way better then a hand.
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by Guest » Mon Oct 26, 2009 12:05 pm
[QUOTE=zine;33457]Agreed I also want to add that jacking off causes your body to produce testosterone. Testerone is how your body is able to replace the semen you have released from jacking off. If you are worried about training yourself to cum quick then just masterbate longer "duh..." All that said we all know that chicks are way better then a hand.[/QUOTE]
Ok, so I hate to admit this, but the first night I was with a girl in years, I came after like one thrust before condom (I know, no lecture needed. I pulled out first though), then put on a condom and went to town. Last night, I put on the condom first, and couldn't cum. :( would this be caused by masterbation or is it anxeity (it was my first ever "booty call" and I was a bit nervous about it)?
Ok, so I hate to admit this, but the first night I was with a girl in years, I came after like one thrust before condom (I know, no lecture needed. I pulled out first though), then put on a condom and went to town. Last night, I put on the condom first, and couldn't cum. :( would this be caused by masterbation or is it anxeity (it was my first ever "booty call" and I was a bit nervous about it)?
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by Guest » Mon Oct 26, 2009 2:57 pm
[QUOTE=Dead Poet;33466]Ok, so I hate to admit this, but the first night I was with a girl in years, I came after like one thrust before condom (I know, no lecture needed. I pulled out first though), then put on a condom and went to town. Last night, I put on the condom first, and couldn't cum. :( would this be caused by masterbation or is it anxeity (it was my first ever "booty call" and I was a bit nervous about it)?[/QUOTE]
It could be anxiety. But, it could also be the condom. They are essentially plastic sacks that cover your junk. You certainly loose some sensation.
It could be anxiety. But, it could also be the condom. They are essentially plastic sacks that cover your junk. You certainly loose some sensation.
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