People give what they want to receive

[Guest]

I think I've noticed in relationships and human relations in general is that people often do things for others that they would like done for themselves. I also think people often give gifts they would like to recieve instead what the recipient would like.

When I was a kid my mom would bug the crap outa me about what i wanted for my birthday or christmas and then she would always get me something different from what I wanted because the things I was interested in didn't seem interesting to her.

Ihad a gf that used to cook for me a lot. When she broke up with me she said you know it was really neat the one time you cooked for me in a very sarcastic tone. It was then that I realized her cooking for me was her way of showing me that she cared for me and since I didn't ever do it for her she interepreted that as me not caring about her. I'm not saying I should have cooked for her all the time, but I should have realized that that is how she showed love to me and that I should have done it more often for her.

and yes Grimm I know this a gay post

[Guest]

thanks :)

[Guest]

I have noticed that when i was in a relationship, i did take alot of things for granted. Then when i didn't have it any more, i missed it. I think it goes both ways though, i bet there are thinks you did for your ex that she misses now. Or i could be wrong, and you're totally selfish :)

[Guest]

Also watch what she does in bed.

For example watch how she kisses your neck or your body. If you just mirror that she will love it. She is doing to you what she wants done to her.

Have a nice Day

[Guest]

nice tip pc... i actually did this w/ the girl i recently was dating but didn't really think of it in that way :)

[Guest]

the worst thing you can do is give someone exactly what they want.