by Welsh_Dragon » Wed Mar 14, 2007 7:03 pm
Right on the money Vec. I know you've seen me do this sort of thing before and the girls absolutely eat it up.
I always pick the better looking guys and say "What about him? Or him. He looks like a typical down home Texas country boy sorta chap, etc..." (doesn't work in Fort Worth lol). These comments are said with a rye smile - basically you are building a frame. I noticed early on that Alpha girls (read: hot women) often try and use their looks to attract guys for their "less beautiful" friends. You will hear them say stuff like "Do you like him? I'll get his friend's attention so you can talk to him". You are setting the frame that YOU are the group Alpha and SHE is being "pawned" off, basically you are trying to hook her up. BECAUSE you are Alpha (in her eyes) she lets you get away with it and BOOM. Now you ARE Alpha.
Here is the funniest part of all. To shit test you they will occasionally try to open a hot guy (moving set usually) but because she is already into me it comes off stupid as she is not really trying. The guy determines it is a joke plus she is with me already so the guy blows her out (keeps walking right along into the crowd). Now she is totally in Beta frame and you have control (which is where she was hoping it would lead anyway). Even if the guy doesn't get the hint he is an easy AMOG. By not getting the "in joke" and reading BL he is Beta. Bringing people in and out of your set under your terms and conditions is golden.
This kind of shit is fucking central to my game. The cool thing about it is there is so much out there to use. Literally the possibilities are endless. This is where openers, canned material, etc... are no longer required.
One last thing. For the newbie this is best done in 1on1 play (I prefer that but you can get away with it in a group if done right). Don't try to embarrass her in a mean way, especially in front of the group. I know that point is belaboured and obvious but I see guys do it all the time. Also if you don't work this on the Alpha girl you are immediately screened out by any girl higher in the pecking order. Enough!
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Welsh_Dragon on Wed Mar 14, 2007 11:09 pm, edited 1 time in total.