Dude just go out have a good time. Most of all keep and open mind and stopping caring as much..
Spend your money on something else.
Best advice is just stay on the board and try to get out as much as possible with us. OH and definitely, do not try to learn all the material at once.. Its impossible.
Finesse, Smirks, Bullrun, and PicturePerfect (me) we all go out often and we are pretty welcoming to all people... For the most part