Explanation of PUAism

[Atlas]

The topic of PUAs has sort of become a discussed topic among guys at my school. They have absolutely no game, nor do they know anything about game besides the fact that PUA tactics exist and the PUA is code for pick up artist. Being a practicer of game myself, I try to stay out of the topic, as I want the PUA community to remain small for higher unification. However, they all complain its manipulation, which is totally bullshit. I tried to explain that its just creative problem solving, strategy, or just plain common sense. If any of you have experienced conversations like this with AFCs, what do you tell them about PUA, if you even mention it at all?

[quipster]

you can easily say something like ... PUA's are learning how to better communicate with women, move their emotions and how to connect with them on a deeper level. Going for the lay is more of a individual thing. But all in all it is a self improvement phase in your life which directly interacts in with many other aspects. (self esteem ,confidence,speaking,socializing etc.etc.)

-quip

[Check_Mate]

PUA's are learning how to better communicate with women, move their emotions and how to connect with them on a deeper level. Going for the lay is more of a individual thing. But all in all it is a self improvement phase in your life which directly interacts in with many other aspects. (self esteem ,confidence,speaking,socializing etc.etc.)

-quip

dammm that was deep.
right on the money man.

[Bull Run]

you can easily say something like ... PUA's are learning how to better communicate with women, move their emotions and how to connect with them on a deeper level. Going for the lay is more of a individual thing. But all in all it is a self improvement phase in your life which directly interacts in with many other aspects. (self esteem ,confidence,speaking,socializing etc.etc.)

-quip

Yeah, that's how I explain it to my AFC friends that give me shit about my lifestyle. It's just about learning to be more than you are: more of a man, more social, more confident. Our society does a shitty job of teaching men to socialize, this is our 'class' to learn how to be more dynamic socially.

And, if you do it right you get to bang a lot of chicks. But, I leave out that part.

[Atlas]

exactly what you guys are saying a great points. I'm not mad at the AFCs though. They're the ones that make our game that much greater by comparison haha.

[waijai]

The ones that complain and critique it the most are the ones that are most ignorant about it. You shouldn't even feel a need to respond or "defend" the PUA lifestyle. Just do your own thing, surround yourself with women, and watch the big group of guys continue to complain...lonely on the weekends...sausagefest.