I need some help with Facebook game.

[Finesse]

also rhody, i just noticed this, but it seems like at the end of that myspace convo you fell into her frame a little more.

[Rhody]

El topo's blog entry is fine. A lot of people are talking about it right now. But I don't think it works with strangers. I bet el topo either already slept with that girl or he was very close. If the girl doesn't want to give you her number, then I'm pretty sure she doesn't want to hear about how you're going to fist her in the ass. Plus, it works with text messages or IM, because they're immediate. But if there's a day or two or three between emails, then the effectiveness of talking about stroking your cock gets completely lost.

[Finesse]

You're right.

[TheRussian]

Thanks for a good answer.

I know one of her female friends really well. I was wondering how I can use that to my advantage. I could have one put in a good word to the other.. A sort of DHV.

[Finesse]

invite them both out that way it'll give her a more logical reason to join you.

[TheRussian]

Can we all get facebook and myspace, and DHV eachother on the walls there? I mean.. Having a few people post "wow man, awesome party this weekend" goes a long way to show higher value.

My name on Facebook is Alex Sasha Lubenski. Add me on, and give me your names on there so that we can do a lot of DHV's.

Also, Finesse, thanks for the comment you left on the blog. I agree that skill level matters a lot. That is a valid point.

[Rhody]

I'm thinking jealousy plotline. Invite the one girl out, but not Mimi. Then tell Mimi that you're getting together with the other girl. See if she fishes for an invitation.

[TheRussian]

Her friend isn't too excited about doing it. I'm not gonna push it. Also, I recieved no response in 2 days, so i'm assuming that she lost attraction because I didn't message her in 2 days myself due to my LSAT. I doubt that this is going anywhere at this point, but lesson learned..

Let me make sure I get it..

When I message her - Don't ask her out, just bust sexual jokes at her, though not to the point where we are talking about ass fisting and cock stroking.

After a few messages, tell her to get her ass out to a bar, or other place where I can continue gaming in person.

Is that correct?

[Finesse]

Basically.

That is what I have had the most luck with. Also, on my fake female profile, every guy messages something about meeting, calling, or generally talking in person, or some other form of talking, such as AIM, MSN or what not, within the first 3 messages.

One of the things I have had the most luck with, with meeting them in person is

Me:"Are you one of those types of people that are a homebody and doesnt get out much?
Her: blah blah
Me: (If she says she isn't) "Well good, 2 parties, take your pick, (select 2 days to go out and tell her to pick a day) "Pick a day you would be free.

(if she says she is, first, that is awesome! that means that should be an easy close since homebodies are generally lonely and second, say this) "Get your ass out of the house and join me and my party at _______" (again have 2 days)

All of this after you have built the attraction and some comfort. If she says she is weary about meeting people off the internet, tell her to bring a friend.

I have met girls offline about 7 times. 4 of them ended up as girlfriends. 5 of them I ended up f-closing. Unfortantely, 1 now hates me because I considered her an FB and she didn't think of me that way.

Just a few more observations ive had. Also, take into account that all of the interent game I had I was doing when I was an AFC. Thats how I got my girlfriends back then.

Are you sure she hasnt responded because she just hasnt checked facebook?

[TheRussian]

Well there has been no response in 3 days. So its a done deal. However I got another girl that agreed to a date, but she is odd, I may only go out to practice game, not because of any interest.

Why have you not gamed online since AFC days? Is there a disadvantage to this? This is the first time I'm trying it, but I already like the ability to use search categories and so on.

Also, something gives me a feeling that 9 and 10's willl probably not go out with someone online. It has too much stigma associated with it. They will be shamed to tell their friends where they met. They like to have those "he sweped me off of my feet at a bar" stories.

As always, thanks for all the input.