Question on picking up women on airplane

[etohminer]

Hi guys, I'm fairly new at this picking up gig, but I have a few questions on closing in general.

So I was flying to New York last week, and I saw a HB~6 sitting to my right. I figured, heck, I read the stuff by Style, so why not try it, it can't hurt. Note I've read it months back, but never applied them. I guess I'm still too shy.

Anyway I digress. So I saw her, and I did the smile, but didn't really move forward with anything. She ended up sitting next to me, watching her tv screen in front of her. I started talking to her about school, asked her questions about where she goes, and I think she became more comfortable with me when i start (intentionally) misinterpreting what she said, and that made her laugh. I would nudge her on the shoulder firmly, but not too hard when I tried to make it seem like she was the one being unclear. I thought "cool she's laughing", so then I lightly held her wrist when she was looking at her watch and said, "hey that's a very pretty watch, my cousin has one just like it" and she told me where she got it.

After we got off the plane, she was heading to the baggage claim, and I only had a carryon so I didn't really wanna make it seem like I'm following her. I was about to walk away, but gave her a look to see if she'll look back, and she did! she came back and was about to give me a hug, but being the dork i am i stuck out my hand instead of reciprocating the hug, thinking "why would a girl who meets a guy for the first time give him a hug?" So after shakign her hand I said, "hey how about you enter your number here, and please put down your real number, Jamie is your real name right?" and she laughed as she typed it in.

Now, here's where the AFC like myself is kinda stuck. I'm seeing her in a few days, and would like to have some concrete advice. what should i do to party in her pants?

[Sinatra]

1). You need to relax and don't focus on the outcome. Understand that this is not about pass or fail, and this is where most guys get hung up. Understand this one very important point. There is no such thing as failure!!!!!!! Practice makes perfect and there are more women out in this world to practice on.

2). STOP seeing yourself as an AFC and start seeing yourself as being successful with women!!!! (VIP info)Women Can Smell Confidence (VIP info)!!!! Rule of thumb!!! The more confidence you show the Higher the Value women perceive you as being (DHV).

3). Allow yourself to make mistakes. This is what I call being real, and for some strange reason women eat that up. This is how we learn. We are all in this together.

[Rainman]

if you haven't already--start text game IMMEDIATELY. you MUST treat t his like a number close from any where else and establish comfort with her again. clearly you had the attraction spike. but what makes the difference between a guy who closes a thousand numbers and a guy that fucks 1000 women? the comfort that he establishes via phone and text game. without it you will get frustrated and experience a greater degree of flakes. congratulations on your close sounds like your doing well for yourself and have a fair deal of comfort in yourself and in using the techniques you've been given. keep it up and above all else PUSH YOURSELF, if you aren't comfortable doing it--DO IT that is the only way to get better and to really understand your boundaries. with 3.4 billion women on this planet pushing an interaction too far once and fucking it up is a small price to pay for a valuable lesson learned in that scenario and its too valuable of a lesson to not try and learn it because you have 3.999billion women left to go before you "strike out".

[Archaeopteryx]

but what makes the difference between a guy who closes a thousand numbers and a guy that fucks 1000 women? the comfort that he establishes via phone and text game. without it you will get frustrated and experience a greater degree of flakes.

Rain, I enjoy your posts. I frequently have the problem of getting numbers but having insufficent phone/text game to follow though. In some cases, I do well in set, but my txt game is so awful, I destroy any chances I had with the girl. Any tips on text game?

I think my phone game is beyond help.

[etohminer]

Thankfully I DID follow up with the text game. I continue teasing her over the text, calling her a dork, nerd, etc. and she replies "you're so mean! I'm not going to talk to you anymore!" and stuff like that. She continues to return my texts, which indicates she's still open for convo and meeting up.

Alright, listening to you guys, I have another scenario I've been experiencing, but it seems trickier.

This girl at work I've been trying to game today. I'd tease her at work and she'd hit me or poke me in the stomach. I'd tell her her striped shirt stands out. She says, that's a good right? I said yeah, like a zebra that stands out, so a lion would roar and jump at it. i'd also walk with her down a block with other coworkers, and then nudge her so she almost hits a street pole sign. She'd blush and start hitting me. Everyone would laugh. She lives like 10 blocks away from me. I have her number. Now here's the question. How do I find out how to get her to be alone with me without allowing her to assume from the get go i'm asking her out (or allowing her to know i'm interested)? One more thing, she seems to hit other guys at work, which makes the baseline a little harder for me to calibrate. how do i know she's interested in me? please help.

Oh yeah, thanks for the help so far guys. I'm trying to break out of my shy shell.

[etohminer]

I called the girl I number closed and she woke up and said, "i'm sleeping already (it was 10:15), I have a class at 6 tomorrow morning, I'll call you tomorrow, okay?"

All I could say was "oh, i'm sorry, go back to bed, we'll chat tomorrow"

Shiet, I think i mighta fucked this one up. Hahaha.

[Welsh_Dragon]

I am well practiced at airplane pickups. I travel with my job and have Platinum AA so I take my fair share of flights, International included.

First question ... Where is this girl from? Dallas? NYC? I am going to assume Dallas.

Your odds are massively increased on flights because comfort is practically skipped altogether. Kino needs to be lighter and in subtly different ways. From the sound of your post you did well enough and she was attracted. Was she? Typical stuff would be hair touches, pupil dilation, holds gaze, smiles, touches you, positive response to kino, qualifying, etc..

I tend not to #close until forced if you are going to definitely #close earlier. 8 times out of 10 a girl will give me the number first but some girls (younger especially) seem to have a thing about not doing that in non bar game. If you have to ask the best time is when they announce the initial descent. Get it over with while everyone else is shuffling around and distracted. Hand her your phone and say "put your number in" or whatever you like to do.

The #close should not be necessary. What was she doing in NYC? Where was she staying? How long for? Who with? I assume you had all this information. You had your instadate so next stop should be day1 later that night or day2. You can #close after you fuck her if that makes you feel better.

This girl is likely to flake on you if you don't game her soon. When you talk tell her she is going out with you one night. Tell he to pick the night and you'll pick the place. Either she agrees or you are done. Simple. Oh and when you go out don't be a pussy.

[etohminer]

bitch flaked on me, dammit!!! i'm gonna drink a refreshing alcoholic beverage and move on.

this sucks guys. i feel like i have no game.