A unique problem - Oversarging???

[Temple]

Ok, A week ago I had a very unique problem that came up while sarging that I havent experienced before. I was out with Woogie and Dave. I was sarging at Cowboys on Thursday night and doing pretty well. I opened alot of sets #closed 4 and then right after I got done talking to another HB. One of my previous HB8 came up to me and asked straight up,

"So tell me the truth, how many numbers have you gotten tonight."

I responded pretty well, but want to know what you guys would have said. ANNND how to 1)Avoid this type of attention from previous sarges, 2)Respond to this

Is it possible to over sarge a bar?

[Archaeopteryx]

"So tell me the truth, how many numbers have you gotten tonight."

I responded pretty well, but want to know what you guys would have said. ANNND how to 1)Avoid this type of attention from previous sarges,

I wouldn't avoid this attenion from previous sarges. It is DHV that you have many selections and are a sociable guy. The only negative I can see is you'd likely experinces more LMR if you were going for a ONS.

2)Respond to this

I would go one of two ways. Respond in such a way that it is obviousy you're not trying to impress her. Don't even take her question seriously.

--None of these girls will talk to me. One girl gave me her number, but it turned out to be the rejection hotline. *puppy dog face* Or just ignore the question and cut the thread with a new topic.

--Tell her there's a lot of competition, but you liked (insert some non-physical unique thing about her), so you have a reasonable shot...

Is it possible to over sarge a bar?

If you're having fun, you're not oversarging.

[JohnnyBravo]

To me, it would depend on her attitude when she asked that. If she was pissed about it or had some kind of attitude I'd tell her it's none of her fucking business or I'd just smile and then ignore it. You could always just ask her why she wants to know...Is she jealous or something? Hmmm...her question shows that she is aware that you have options. If she wasn't pissed or didn't have an attitude I might her a smart ass type of reply. Hell, it would also depend on how much I've had to drink.

Don't worry about it. She'll get over it.

[Thaddeus]

Thats honestly going to happen a lot, i'm sure less around here but in the town I grew up in there were lots of times you would run into girls while in another set. Mostly just have the internals to deal with that this is going to happen.

--if she's pissed and you wanna save with deep game--
"honestly I have gotten a few, I love meeting new people and dont feel like I'll ever have enough friends...."

--playful bitch checking response--
"Hmm a couple, how many guys have you given your number to tonight?"

[NobodyUKnow]

"I work for the phone company. I'm responsible for re-writing the phone book, but just the girls. Gay Tony over there has to do the guys."

[Smile]

All of these are good replies. Remember, she would not have confronted you if she wasn't interested and you can play that to your advantage. I like Thaddeus' response.

NobodyUKnow wrote:

"I work for the phone company. I'm responsible for re-writing the phone book, but just the girls. Gay Tony over there has to do the guys."

Fucking great!

[Rhody]

I think the best response is to ignore what she said and re-engage her with something else.

[Shine]

I agree with everyone. over sarge? this isn't a problem. Your social value can never be too high. Use it to your advantage.

[Dr_W]

I think in a situation like you are seeing, where she is asking, it is a hardcore IOI. You DHV and she is jealous of the other girls. This would be a great time to consider bouncing the girl to a new location or home to start the S phase if you like her.

Now if for some reason you don't like her... you can totally use this to DHV to the girls you do like. Use her as a pawn, take her over to the girls you do like, and run game with the pawn. Open a set, explain you have a "friend" who gets jealous when you make new "friends" and ask if getting the number of new friend is against the rules. Neg the target girl and don't let her answer. When you feel ready, drop the pawn off and isolate the target girl by asking her point of view.

Otherwise, sounds like you have solid game.

[Suave]

"I work for the phone company. I'm responsible for re-writing the phone book, but just the girls. Gay Tony over there has to do the guys."

HAHA. That shit is too funny man! Gay Tony over there... Ill have to use that one sometime.