NEW TO THIS PU COMMUNITY! Hi everyone!

[elitetran54]

Hey guys. I'm 22 year old. And i just got out of a relationship with my "first love." We where together for a year and half. During the relationship i did all the PW stuff. Bought her stuff, food, hang out with her constantly. I basically took care of her so she really had nothing to worry about. (she is 20). stupid think a guy does when he thinks he in love. Well how does a great relationship like that go bad? (sarcasm)

i had caught her talking to some guys online, i knew of 3 occasions where she went out with her "guy friend" (3 different guys) , and lied to me about it. which i stopped her from being friends with them afterwards. And what cause me to just end it, She went to Houston and lied to me about it. She told me she was spending the weekend at her aunts house. Never found out what she did in Houston. Shortly after she ran away from home and bought a plan ticket to Indianapolis. Don't know what she did there also. But she got stranded with no way to get home. So i bought her a plan ticket back. (I still really loved her OK) But afterward i could feel she had no remorse for what she had done to me so i have since stopped talking to her. Last text i got from her "im leaving tomorrow and i want to see you, cause i don't know if i'll ever see you again." which i told her to just go, forget about me. I suspect she had found another guy on the internet, cuz when i asked her if she had found someone else. She reluctantly answered no.

So i was left in a very sad and depressed state. I was finding hard to get back into the game. That when i picked up the book "The Game" and have since found this entire community. I have had better luck so far. I would have done better last week, but i got too drunk, and messed up the game i had with like 3 girls. Oh well. I really look forward to meeting some of you, and hopefully see some of you in the field.

just to let you guys know, im still kinda trying to get over the relationship. I don't think its that i miss her. Its just that i got no one to replace her with. (Yet im not looking for another gf) And the fact that it was my "first love" SO! Constructive criticism please

[NobodyUKnow]

First, welcome!

Second, never lie to yourself about something so obvious. Of course you miss her; I've just read your first post and it's as obvious to me as my dick at my knee. If you truly loved her, you'll love her forever. That doesn't mean you'll be together again, but you'll always carry her with you. We carry scars of love the same as we carry scars on our body.

So go ahead and miss her... just don't forget that she can't be trusted. Learn from your mistake in how you managed the relationship, but don't blame yourself -- we're all responsible for our own decisions. Just learn from it.

Finally, go FTOW and you'll experience ten other special women and that will help you remember your first love with a whole lot less intensity.

[Rhody]

Don't game to help you forget or to replace her. Game because women are great and experimenting socially is fun. Become a new, exciting, interesting person. Look back fondly at the person you used to be, and feel great about the person you are today. But one doesn't have to cause the other. Doors close and doors open. Walk through this door and open a new chapter in your life.

[Aztec Warrior]

Hey bro! Come out to fort worth much?