Ginger syndrome.

[Cru$H]

Aright guys. I appreciate all input on this topic in advance. I have an AFC problem that just sticks on me bad. All is good on a first interaction with a girl usually I don't really care enough to get upset if it goes arie, but sometimes i get some backlash. And what i mean when i say this, is that i don't necessarily do anything to evoke it. The fact is, I have red hair, a trait that made it tough to get away with stuff when i was young but i wouldn't change for the world. You guys know, it is really a characteristic that can draw a lot of attention, a natural peacock. What i find is that it's almost like a fetish. I get certain girls who are crazy about red heads and sometimes crazy, and a lot of women that just plain find it repulsive. That being said, some of these same girls will try to put down the color before they even know what I'm about. I mean, I'm generally a nice guy to girls i'm not trying to game(I dont try to game girls that diss the hair). The weird thing is i get girls who right off the bat, before i even talk to them or make any conversation with them, as soon as they talk have something to say. Ginger, Carrot-top, ugly red head? It just makes me not want to have an intelligent or stimulating conversation with it. Fellow dudes, I am baffeled by it; Plus, it's a major blow to my self assurance. I guess i carry myself in a fairly confident way, ignore girls, seem uninterested and don't make eye contact when i first meet them or check them out, but I don't say an effin word and the girl is already trying to make fun of my hair.I thought good body language is supposed to help. 30 year old women all fucking love my hair, and i get 18 and 19 year old trashy drunk girls for whatever reason saying, umm you have red hair as a diss as her friends all hehehe her because she is the leader of the pack. Sometimes the girl is even downright hideous. now its fine if someone says im not hot, but Im not exactly an ugly kid, I work at Abercrombie & Fitch as a model that stands at the door, I have a body i worked hard for, and there are many HB 8s & 9s who's attention I catch right from the start. Why is it that i attract some negative bitches? Guys do it too, so is there any way i can counterattack their AMOG tactic. Should i take the comments girls give as "negs" and get in the mentality they are actually into the red hair or just have something standard to say? Please be brutally honest. i know you guys always know what to do. Thanks again.

[Tribulus1000]

Redheads are my favorite "type" of girls. If you meet any, please pass them to me. I love them!

[MagicBalls]

I love redheads, and I'm gaming one right now. She has the biggest most beautiful green eyes.

[Woogie]

A classic reply from Mystery if a woman comments negatively on his peacocking:

"You don't hate my goggles. You're just attracted to me."

Don't worry, we all have our own insecurities in life. What usually helps is reframing what you have into something positive, so you won't be mentally beating yourself up for the cards that were dealt to you.

Either that, or dye your hair if it's really that big of a deal to you.

[magnum]

there is no in between with redhead broads. in my opinion they are foxy like lohan prior to her yayo infatuation or they are 4's and they should dye there hair so they can me somewhere in between...but that being said, they are negging you. it situational, so play back and see where it goes. its a change when girls straight up game you. enjoi it.

[Sinatra]

I think that the question should be asking is what if you were gaming a burnette and she dyed her Red? How would you re-act then?

As far as them negging you about your hair, I would take this as a "SHIT" test. I know that it is not fair. And, I do understand how issues can affect us.

Re-frame it with this, just roll with it. Do a David Deangelo on her. Get Cocky and Funny about her comments. If she can get you upset about and flustered about anything, she will have gain control and consider you a wus.

However, if she sees that you are not going to get caught up in her "SHIT" test, it will blow her fragging mind and start to create attraction. Be in control of your own self.

This is were I will conceed about control. The one who can create the feelings, is the one who has control of the situation. That is why it is extremely important that you do not get caught up in a woman "SHIT" test.

[NobodyUKnow]

You left out the option "Redheads are my favorite kind of woman".

I love 'em, and every single one of the them that I've dated had a passion that matched their hair. As a matter of fact, I'd find a way to work this into your opener... something like "Have you heard that redheaded people are most passionate?? Have you noticed that about the redhaired men you've dated?" (Notice how I framed that).

[Scoundrel]

There's just something about a little tuft of orange pubic hair. It looks yummie!