Sticking point

[Finesse]

Guys, i've got a question. One of my sticking points is DHV'ing. How can I dhv more consistantly? Any ideas?

[Tribulus1000]

Yeah, I'm kinda working on this too, right now. The use of stories or routines that tie into the attraction switches is the best way to do this.

What are the attraction switches?
I believe Sinn had a good post on that on his blog. Its probably google searchable.

The best known ones are:
Pre-selection by women, Leader of Men, Protector of loved ones, and Willingness to Emote.

There are others but those are the four main ones.

You can showcase these in things like the photo routine, DHV stories or through accomplishment intros that your wings tell about you.

DHV stories are one way to do this.

Check out Mystery's Bear Shit Story -

Ever been camping? Well I was up in a forest up north and was hiking with some girlfriends of mine ... and we came along some trail and there was shit on the path. My friends were like, "haaaa someone shit in the woods" and I said, "lets get the fuck out of here like NOW."

They thought I was just scared of shit and I said, "Girls, you dont get it. This shit is still warm and its not human. Its bear shit. This is a big fucking bear. Look at the size of that turd."

Notice it's not sexual? Most hot girls gets get "sex-talk" right away from AFCs. NOT talking sex with them makes them question whether you are interested in them. Leave them guessing until you get indicators of interest from them. If they like your great personality (confident, humorous, etc) they will give you subtle but distinct clues.

That's a good example showcasing two attraction switches. 1. Pre-selection and 2. Protector of Loved Ones.
There's also some leadership in there and its funny.

You can find pleny of info on the Mystery Method forums on this topic of DHV stories.

But just being a fun, cool and entertaining guy is a major DHV. Having friends is a major DHV too. Another great way to DHV is to parade girls in front of other girls.
Just say "Let's go meet my friends." and let her take your arm as you lead her in front of all the other girls.

Tenmagnet had a great post on DHV stories and some done by another PUA named Puzzler on his blog. I'll see if I can find the link.
You can probably google it use "Thoughtmagnet"+"DHV".

Hope this helps.

[Westfall]

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