attracting without even knowing it!

[greenboy]

i have recently come to a kinda cool and crazy conclusion.at christmas i found out that one of my long term friends (a girl by the way) likes me and has done for some time.i rarley have close friends that are girls but when i think about the way i treated and acted around her, alot of it is text book PUA techniques.for example, lots of Kino, building a deep trust with her and fitting her around my schedule (so been even more just out of reach).however i never realised what i was doing because i simply wasnt attracted to her.so i was totally relaxed and confident in what i was doing.since then a simular situation has happened with another girl who cant seem to get enough of my company.i really enjoy her company however (although she is pretty), not in a sexual way. now,so much information that i have gathered from this forum and other places makes more sense to me.the hard part now is replecating how i was with these girls with girls that i am sexually attrated to.....any thoughts guys?

[Kraven]

What's up Greenboy,

Back in the day, I would sometimes meet typical sporty tanned blonde girls. Like cheerleader types, long hair, 8s and higher

I couldn't stand these girls (back then I was into "alternative" chicks, short hair, whatever). So it was really easy for me to talk to ditzy hot blondes, bust on them, tell them that they were "typical" this way or that way, poke fun of their intelligence a little, etc. Just because I thought they were silly and couldn't figure out why most of the world seemed to think they were hot

Eventually, it became fun to make them chase for a bit before they realized I really didn't fantasize about them. Like you, I never would have guessed what was going on at the time - they were becoming so attracted to me because I negged them constantly

I fantasize about them now though. Damn

[Scoundrel]

When I first read the Game and later the Mystery Method I was shocked that EVERY sexual relationship I’d ever had followed every step, exactly. Not only that, these books told me where and why I’d screwed up. I’m still amazed.

[greenboy]

What's up Greenboy,

Back in the day, I would sometimes meet typical sporty tanned blonde girls. Like cheerleader types, long hair, 8s and higher

I couldn't stand these girls (back then I was into "alternative" chicks, short hair, whatever). So it was really easy for me to talk to ditzy hot blondes, bust on them, tell them that they were "typical" this way or that way, poke fun of their intelligence a little, etc. Just because I thought they were silly and couldn't figure out why most of the world seemed to think they were hot

Eventually, it became fun to make them chase for a bit before they realized I really didn't fantasize about them. Like you, I never would have guessed what was going on at the time - they were becoming so attracted to me because I negged them constantly

I fantasize about them now though. Damn

lol, yeh its weird but, but definatley positive to realise this.we can learn so much from simply just trying to replecate our own actions at the time.

[Westfall]

Haha,

Back in college, I hit on every girl in the most wbAFC ways possible. But this one girl, I totally ignored. For some reason I hung out with this group called Razorbacks for Christ, and I would constantly ask out all of the girls that were even remotely attracted...except Becca. Becca was pretty cute, but for some reason, I just wasn't attracted to her.

Becca like ended up baking me cookies, and spending a bunch of time with me. She so wanted to date me.

One time I was bitching about how "NO girl will ever date me--ever" (yeah I know, major DLV), and becca said "Zach, that might not be as true as you think"...the way she said it, was obvious. Later my two friends were like "dude, how could you not pick up on that?"

My response was "Well, no hot girl anyway"
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I wonder what would happen if I did that now. Like if I hit on every girl in a group except one of the hottest ones, and just negged the shit out of her constantly. I'm quite certain she would start to think "what's wrong with me", "why doesn't he like me".