Advice Please....

[Fuzz]

This is an odd situation. Met this girl while out of town. Let's just say she lives about 13 hours away.

I believe she opened me in the back patio of the venue. Later on I was dancing and she re-opens. I ask her for a kiss. She says she wants to, but she has a boyfriend. He is there at the venue. I start making out with her anyway. We make out in other parts of the venue, always making sure her boyfriend or certain friends aren't around to see us kissing.

We are both wasted. I don't feel like there was much comfort phase. We don't know too much about each other. We exchange last names at the end of the night. At that moment, I'm not even really sure if she realized I was an out-of-towner. I figure that's the end of that.

4 days later she finds me on FB (and I am hard to find on FB). No message, no nothing. I haven't checked to see if we have friends in common, but I doubt that we do.

The ball is in my court, so to speak, but I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to drive 13 hours to see her again, but I'd be open to any advice that could help me persuade her to come to me.

[Triumvirate]

General vacation advice: Have fun while you're out of town. Take it as far as you can, keep in contact for when you go back to ths city. She has a boyfriend, and to expect a girl who lives 13 hours away to make a treck for a guy who she MADE OUT with is a tall task.

Question:
How often are you going out here in the metro? If you have a bunch of chicks that you're talking to, you shouldnt be concerned about ONE that lives 13 hours away. My general advice is to get some abundance so that you find yourself asking the "what do I do about this one girl" a lot less often. Cheers.

Triumvirate

[Fuzz]

I wouldn't say I'm terribly "concerned" with this one chick. I only ask for advice about "this one girl" when I feel I'm encountering an out of the ordinary situation.

[KimberlyWest]

a girl who lives 13 hours away to make a treck for a