Dumbing down your language?

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muk no offense meant.

I have had similar problems in conversing with people in the past, however you can do it, with the right attitude and you don't have to make it 'dumbed down' watch this.

[url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=srSbAazoOr8[/url]

it's fascinating to everyone, because he has sooo much passion for what it is he is talking about. I say find your passion, find your muse and maybe learn a little public speaking. Most of all learn self confidence, that is the manner in which we can be truly successful communicators, about any subject matter.

remember 'you' are the only variable that can be changed in this equation.

oh and he was a notorious ladies man

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[QUOTE=Muk;41311]I only mentioned the conversation about antimatter because it was the most recent (happened hours before posting this thread) and the thread isn't really even about that. My frustration is more about the degradation of our culture. I don't care for "reality TV" or dancing competitions, or Lady Gaga. I'm concerned that I might have to conform to a culture that I think is stupid/lame/boring in order to relate.[/QUOTE]

And you wonder why I can't stand the liberal trash you spew sometimes...

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I [B]TOTALLY[/B] understand where the OP is coming from on this. I am guessing you are a somewhat shy person as well. I'm the same way.

You have to reprogram your brain to talk about shit women want to talk about. You will never a seduce a woman talking about molecular science. Isn't going to happen.

The seduction of women is done primarily through conversation (and eye contact). If you can't carry a conversation with her, you aren't gonna seduce her. Period. And she's not gonna have a "normal" conversation with you about molecular science.

I have been divorced for 4.5 years and I am just now getting my game to this point of being able to talk to women about topics they are interested in.

Seriously, you have to fucking reprogram your brain. This is not something that happens over night. It will take you years to do this.

You are obviously interested in women or you wouldn't be here. For starters, I would suggest reading three books, all by the same author. I think these three books should be [I]required[/I] reading for anyone on this site. The first is [B]"Why Women Have Sex"[/B], the second is [B]"Jealousy: The Dangerous Passion"[/B] and the third is [B]"The Evolution of Desire"[/B]. These books are AMAZING and after reading them, you should have LOTS of questions for women, many of them related to sex, which they love to talk about. Women love it when men ask for their opinions or thoughts on a topic like this.

Secondly, I strongly recommend you start listening to Cosmo radio on Sirius. This will help you reprogram your brain to think about things women like to talk about.

Thirdly, you have to be able to carry conversation with anyone about topics OTHER than molecular science and politics. So, go to that dive bar in your neighborhood, or a restaurant bar, [B]BY YOURSELF[/B], grab a seat at the bar and OPEN the other men into conversation. Try to keep them engaged in conversation without talking about shit that women would not want to talk about...in other words, avoid politics and molecular science. This will help as well.

Seriously, this is a multi-year process. Good luck.

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I have been divorced for 4.5 years and I am just now getting my game to this point of being able to talk to women about topics they are interested in.

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90% of what you say doesn't come out of your mouth. I have a few more years on you (i started in ASF)...it's not important what you talk about. it's what you do.