Recent holes in my game.

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[QUOTE=traxxus;40935]Yes, In October Im going to go to Austin. Never been to any type of structured learning on this and I want to have that experience. I want to see if it's all a scam, or if it's legit. I'll also be the first to admit that my night game blows and that it's my fault that it blows.

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Cool, i would say that coming off of boot camp with him you learn a Lot of stuff thats useless and stuff thats useful. To me there was a lot of stuff that was common sense such as teasing/compliments that I was already doing. FYI his method is similar to other methods because he saw the similarities in other methods such as C&F and mystery method. He will tell you this. If you end box me, I can further explain to you what your going to learn and you can trial and error it and work out the kinks to the method so that you get your monies worth and work out your kinks.

P.S. If you have trouble with Push-pulls then adams method is going to be hard as hell to learn and you'll easily piss off a lot of girls because his method is focused on breaks in rapport, which tends to aggravate girls if done wrong. Think of fucking up negging and you'll get a mental picture of what i'm talking about. Beyond that hes a good teacher but it takes A LOT of effort to properly pull of his method efficiently. I'm still learning his method because its very hard to pull off.

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hey,
going out solo can be a good thing. A large part of success is built upon failing successfully. If you are not comfortable or good at going out solo, then do it more often. the more you practice, the easier things become. this is no different. I have moved around the country numerous times for work, often ending up in a city where I know zero people. It is either go out alone, or not go out. I used to feel uneasy about it, but now it is no big deal. I can actually do better with no wing. Think about it... with no wing you are completely in control of the situation.

Just get out there and practice....

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[QUOTE=maenad;40906]Ok, so now Ive gotten efficient at getting numbers. Except some of the time girls flake on me.[/QUOTE]

One thing I do that helps me minimize flakes is not ask for numbers. Just wait for the girl to give it to you. You'd be surprised how often this happens. This last Friday two women voluntarily gave me their numbers, while a third took down mine but I forgot to save hers. If a girl asks you for your number, she's a lot less likely to flake. Seriously, try it for like a month. Run your regular routines, see where the evening takes you, do everything you normally would do with a girl, but just don't ask for her number.

Conversely, if you do have to ask for a number, make sure you have a good reason to ask for it.

[QUOTE=maenad;40906]Plus I live far away from downtown and it makes getting SNLs not possible at all. If anyone knows how to fix this it would be helpful.[/QUOTE]

Hotel?

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[QUOTE=Fuzz;41003]One thing I do that helps me minimize flakes is not ask for numbers. Just wait for the girl to give it to you. You'd be surprised how often this happens. This last Friday two women voluntarily gave me their numbers, while a third took down mine but I forgot to save hers. If a girl asks you for your number, she's a lot less likely to flake. Seriously, try it for like a month. Run your regular routines, see where the evening takes you, do everything you normally would do with a girl, but just don't ask for her number.

Conversely, if you do have to ask for a number, make sure you have a good reason to ask for it.



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I like your preemptive flake technique. The hotel thing would be great. Just thinking into my future when I actually get really good at this thats gonna be like 55 a night at some cheap place and hypothetically speaking if I pulled every other week that would be 55*2=110 a month.