That moment when the Game is ON

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Explain your experiences on how you've engaged that moment where you realize "its on" By that I mean that pivotal moment you have escalated from regular conversation you might have with a friend to flirting or otherwise.

Example: So I slept over at a friends house and her roommate text's me the next day I had left in the middle of the night. I leave out the emoticons

HB: Where did you go? I was hoping we could all get breakfast.
ME: You were snoring like a troll so I couldn't sleep so i just went home.
HB: OMG thats so embarrassing I'm sorry its probably because i drank so much.
ME: Yea I was like is that really a girl in there or Trek.
HB: Your mean! it couldn't have been all that bad
ME: ha ha your so full of fail I love it! From now on I'm going to call you Stephzilla.

In this example I got it going by making fun of her in regards to a particular situation. What have you got? Or what has worked for you?

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[QUOTE=ahealthyguy;40129]Explain your experiences on how you've engaged that moment where you realize "its on" By that I mean that pivotal moment you have escalated from regular conversation you might have with a friend to flirting or otherwise.

Example: So I slept over at a friends house and her roommate text's me the next day I had left in the middle of the night. I leave out the emoticons

HB: Where did you go? I was hoping we could all get breakfast.
ME: You were snoring like a troll so I couldn't sleep so i just went home.
HB: OMG thats so embarrassing I'm sorry its probably because i drank so much.
ME: Yea I was like is that really a girl in there or Trek.
HB: Your mean! it couldn't have been all that bad
ME: ha ha your so full of fail I love it! From now on I'm going to call you Stephzilla.

In this example I got it going by making fun of her in regards to a particular situation. What have you got? Or what has worked for you?[/QUOTE]

honestly, its always "on." if the girl is a potential sexual partner / gf, i am always gaming, thought the intensity may be dialed down to calibrate for the situation.

what you'll soon realize is that once you get pretty good at game and internalize it, you're always gaming. it becomes the way you speak, live and act. you wont realize it, but you'll be gaming women 24/7.

however, if the girl is a platonic friend with no potential for more (ie: shes ugly, fat), a friend's gf / girl he's dating, or she's off limits for whatever reason, then i dont game her at all (conciously).

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[QUOTE=Prodigy;40131]honestly, its always "on." [/QUOTE]

I meant the pivotal moment when your both on the same wavelength where you've captivated their attention and they are pining for yours. I'm taken back to the Britney Spears story in "the game" by strauss where he describes its on as he pulls out his PU routine during a standard interview. The escalating if you will.

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[QUOTE=ahealthyguy;40134][B][U]I meant the pivotal moment when your both on the same wavelength where you've captivated their attention and they are pining for yours.[/U][/B] I'm taken back to the Britney Spears story in "the game" by strauss where he describes its on as he pulls out his PU routine during a standard interview. The escalating if you will.[/QUOTE]

ok, so i think what you're asking for is how to identify the hook point, but on a deeper level, genuine interest.

i hate to give you a generalized answer because its not much help to you, but unfortunately, the "on" moment (or hook point) varies from girl to girl. the hook point generally occurs early on in the pickup when you have said something that captures their attention, usually in your opener.

genuine interest can occur anytime, but usually happens when you've displayed enough value to attract the girl.

a few things that indicates shes interested:

-her body language: is she smiling? touching her hair? her body facing yours? mirroring? etc. if you say yes to all the above, then she's into you.
-teasing: is she teasing you? teasing is usually a good thing. think about when you were in elementary school; guys/girls tease each other when they like each other.
-compliments: self explanatory. girls will typically compliment you when they like you.
-comfort: is she comfortable around you? with you touching her? if yes, then she probably likes you.

im hungover right now, so i'll write something up on escalation after my nap. its tough to articulate your thoughts when you've got a pounding headache.

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When she starts to touch you. That's when it's game on.

[Guest]

I have no idea what you're asking. When do you know you're doing well?

Like you said, "...you've captivated their attention and they are pining for yours."

That's pretty much it, isn't it. When they start chasing you.

How do you know? IDK you just know. You need to develop that intuitive sense of when a girl is in to you. If you're going thru a "checklist" of "IOI's" to find out if a girl "likes you" then your head is in the wrong place. Your mind is not focused on what it should be, which is enjoying the interaction.

Also, every girl shows interest differently. It can be:

Touching you
Giving you the "eyes"
Primping their hair
Getting upset if you walk away for a second
Talking about sex
Getting jealous of other girls, calling them sluts
etc

There's a million things.