Things to Say When a Girl Says 'I Love You'

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The best thing to say is nothing. Just stare off into space.

If she says it over the phone say "Roger that, over and out" and hang up immediately.

Yet another good thing to say is "I like you too".

Post your best responses to the "I love you" scenario.

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"Of course you do..."

"Respect."

"I get that a lot"

"I know."

The best is "I like you too."

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How about, "I love you too"

If you truly love a girl, why not say it?

I mean you don't have to say it after every phone call or every morning, but I think it's appropriate to say it if that's how you truly feel (and she'll welcome the reassurance)...

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[QUOTE=Prodigy;38945]How about, "I love you too"

If you truly love a girl, why not say it?

I mean you don't have to say it after every phone call or every morning, but I think it's appropriate to say it if that's how you truly feel (and she'll welcome the reassurance)...[/QUOTE]

Ask yourself one question..

Has a woman ever said "I love you" and you immediately replied "I love you too" and that woman was completely in love, completely dedicated, willing to do anything for your love?

That's rhetorical. The answer is no.

To have a relationship where you have all the power you have to make the woman chase you. If you give away all your feelings (power) she doesn't have to chase you anymore.

Never be the first to say I love you and never say it back to her the first time she says it. If you really want her to love her then you absolutely have to make her wait to hear it.

Little story...

My first real relationship. My gf and I just had sex and I was still on top of her. She looked right into my eyes and said "I love you" and I was silent and just started looking around the room. 9 months later she finally conned me into saying it and I said "Fine, I love you. Drop it." It is things like that that will make a woman completely, 100% devoted and faithful to you. I never doubted her devotion to me even for a second. It is at that point that you can freely say "I love you" but not before. Not if you want the relationship to last long.

You can't make a woman love you by giving anything away. She has to work for it.

Let's hear some more replies!

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Just because you said "i love you too" does not mean you lose hand.

You can still say it, yet maintain hand by simply conveying that you're willing to walk at any given moment, AND, that you are desired by other women. This can be done many ways. Harmless light flirting, aloofness, mild disinterest, etc. You can say "I love you" as long as you're not super beta, lovey dovey about it all the time.

But to answer your question, this is an excellent post by Roissy.

[url]http://roissy.wordpress.com/2009/03/16/relationship-game-i-love-you-too/[/url]

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Good article. He essentially agrees with what I said above.

If you say "I love you too" right away that is the start of the downward spiral. It's anti-climactic for her. It's a let-down even though she won't consciously understand that. You need to give women an emotional roller coaster, not an emotional tea-cup ride. The relationship will fizzle if you don't give her something to work for.

Think back to all the girls whom you have said "I love you too" right after they said it the first time. How did those relationships turn out?

P.S. Now, yes, you can say "I love you". I am specifically talking about the first time she says it to you.

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Just fart. That'll teach her.

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[QUOTE=Lion;38948]Good article. He essentially agrees with what I said above.

If you say "I love you too" right away that is the start of the downward spiral. It's anti-climactic for her. It's a let-down even though she won't consciously understand that. You need to give women an emotional roller coaster, not an emotional tea-cup ride. The relationship will fizzle if you don't give her something to work for.

Think back to all the girls whom you have said "I love you too" right after they said it the first time. How did those relationships turn out?

P.S. Now, yes, you can say "I love you". I am specifically talking about the first time she says it to you.[/QUOTE]

you did not specify that it was the first time she's saying it--in that case, then I would mostly agree with what you've said. However, I believe how long you've dated (but more importantly, how serious the relationship is) will ultimately decide in how you should respond.

I do believe that one should not say it too often, as it loses it's effect...

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[QUOTE=Rhody;38949]Just fart. That'll teach her.[/QUOTE]

hahaha! Good one.

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I remember my homeboy growing up had this psycho chic he was dating way back in the day. He used to always say "Uv you too" just to get off the phone with her. We would rag him for about 20 minutes everytime. We knew he just didn't want to say the words of doom.