by Guest » Sun Sep 12, 2010 8:52 pm
[QUOTE=grimm1111;37610]Now you're twisting this around. Not emotional like a girl. Not cry baby emotional, like "I'm going to write a song about the dolphins."
You can be emotional in a strong way, and you can be emotional in a weak way. Obviously you want to be passionate about things. Don't get out of control, but obviously show emotion.
Read a romance novel. Look at rock stars, movie stars. All the men that women fantasize about are passionate.
Oh, and since Gunslinger brought up PUA gurus, look no further than Mystery and one of his main attraction switches - the willingness to emote. AND he talks about putting a girl thru an emotional roller coaster (not just good ones). AND he lays out the fact that you can't reason your way in to a girl's pants.
But you shouldn't need that to understand that women are emotional creatures who respond to emotion and passion. That's why I'm so dumbfounded that this isn't registering with you guys.[/QUOTE]
Oh my god. You are twisting two concepts into one.
Being passionate about something and being an emotional wussy is not even remotely the same thing. NO! Passion is loving to spend your free time on a hobby, say painting.
Being emotional is crying when a girl walks out on a day two, or saying that you love her after talking to her for two min. Not the same thing at all. It's like comparing apples and oranges.
Putting a girl through an emotional roller coaster with your words is not *acting* in an emotional way. Again, these are two totally different things. So yes, Mister E is correct.
Yes, woman are emotional and ruled by their emotions. We all know that, but they are not attracted to a man who IS emotional. Especially attractive women, you can't act like an emotional little girl and expect them to be attracted to you. Being needy is a good example of being emotional. We can agree that women don't like needy men, yes?