Holy shit I twitched like 27 times in that video.
I have issues.
And my hair is pretty fucking gay looking.
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Grimm's Journal
by Guest » Mon Sep 06, 2010 10:20 am
[QUOTE=playercool;37460]I witnessed a lot of this in person. I felt like the set went extremely well and she was into you.
At some point her friend comes over and does the friend thing where he checks on her. This broke the interaction up and while you were chilling with Prodigy she turned back around 3-4 times hoping to reengage the conversation with you.
My money is on her not flaking and you go out on a day 2 with her.[/QUOTE]
Seconded. That was a solid number close.
At some point her friend comes over and does the friend thing where he checks on her. This broke the interaction up and while you were chilling with Prodigy she turned back around 3-4 times hoping to reengage the conversation with you.
My money is on her not flaking and you go out on a day 2 with her.[/QUOTE]
Seconded. That was a solid number close.
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by Guest » Mon Sep 06, 2010 1:30 pm
[QUOTE=Finesse;37466]Did she ever open up to you with her body language? Like did she ever turn towards you?[/QUOTE]
Yes, although we are both seated facing the bar initially. This is fine w me though, I actually am a big fan of "side by side" body language as it gets you in really close with minimal creepiness. In fact there was kino going on as well which unfortunately the camera misses. (Still looking for good ideas on where to mount the little spy cam, if anyone can think of anything).
Where I ask for the number is the point where she is most engaged and her hand is on my leg.
There is no doubt this is a solid number, luckily. And she was super cute too!
Yes, although we are both seated facing the bar initially. This is fine w me though, I actually am a big fan of "side by side" body language as it gets you in really close with minimal creepiness. In fact there was kino going on as well which unfortunately the camera misses. (Still looking for good ideas on where to mount the little spy cam, if anyone can think of anything).
Where I ask for the number is the point where she is most engaged and her hand is on my leg.
There is no doubt this is a solid number, luckily. And she was super cute too!
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by Guest » Mon Sep 06, 2010 1:49 pm
[QUOTE=Finesse;37466]Did she ever open up to you with her body language? Like did she ever turn towards you?[/QUOTE]
Yes, her legs were crossed towards him.
Her torso was pointed towards him.
I thought her BL was terrific and also why I think the close was strong.
Yes, her legs were crossed towards him.
Her torso was pointed towards him.
I thought her BL was terrific and also why I think the close was strong.
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by Guest » Mon Sep 06, 2010 2:44 pm
[QUOTE=grimm1111;37467]Yes, although we are both seated facing the bar initially. This is fine w me though, I actually am a big fan of "side by side" body language as it gets you in really close with minimal creepiness. In fact there was kino going on as well which unfortunately the camera misses. (Still looking for good ideas on where to mount the little spy cam, if anyone can think of anything).
Where I ask for the number is the point where she is most engaged and her hand is on my leg.
There is no doubt this is a solid number, luckily. And she was super cute too![/QUOTE]
The reason I ask is that, there seemed like there was little reciprocation of this by you. (based solely on the cameras projected body language.) This could be a way to increase your rapport if you ever need to. I noticed in your other video you didn't turn much towards her either.
Where I ask for the number is the point where she is most engaged and her hand is on my leg.
There is no doubt this is a solid number, luckily. And she was super cute too![/QUOTE]
The reason I ask is that, there seemed like there was little reciprocation of this by you. (based solely on the cameras projected body language.) This could be a way to increase your rapport if you ever need to. I noticed in your other video you didn't turn much towards her either.
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by Guest » Mon Sep 06, 2010 5:10 pm
[QUOTE=Finesse;37469]The reason I ask is that, there seemed like there was little reciprocation of this by you. (based solely on the cameras projected body language.) This could be a way to increase your rapport if you ever need to. I noticed in your other video you didn't turn much towards her either.[/QUOTE]
You could have a point, and thanks very much for the feedback. I will have to play with that a bit and see what happens.
You know, it's interesting, I think as PUA's we put such a premium on having the girl chase you, that sometimes we don't walk through the wide open door.
I'll say - I definately seem to use kino and body language to communicate interest or disinterst more than most. I think this might be why I get away with communicating so much interest verbally, it's kind of calibration. That's to say, maybe if I square up my shoulders to her, I will need to play a more standard game with FTC's, negs, etc to balance that off.
You could have a point, and thanks very much for the feedback. I will have to play with that a bit and see what happens.
You know, it's interesting, I think as PUA's we put such a premium on having the girl chase you, that sometimes we don't walk through the wide open door.
I'll say - I definately seem to use kino and body language to communicate interest or disinterst more than most. I think this might be why I get away with communicating so much interest verbally, it's kind of calibration. That's to say, maybe if I square up my shoulders to her, I will need to play a more standard game with FTC's, negs, etc to balance that off.
- Guest
by Guest » Thu Sep 09, 2010 12:10 am
I am so pissed off right now, I want to throw my computer out this fucking hotel window, I want to move to Alaska and become a hermit. Bah to all women, women are terrible, terrible, evil creatures and I never want to see another one as long as I live ever again.
I want to become the guy who lives with gorillas out in the jungle.
Fuck this shit. So I try to text message my three "active" number closes to set up some day two's.
#1: I text Ashli, the girl from earlier in my journal.
Grimm: "Hi Ashli, what's up?"
NO ANSWER. Strike one.
#2: I text Sonya, the girl from Chicago and the text messages above.
Grimm: "What's my name? :)" (Hey, I thought it was clever.)
NO ANSWER. Strike two.
#3: I text Shantelle, the girl from last weekend and the last video
Grimm: Hey Shantelle, what's up?
Shantelle: Hey im at a dinner in austin
Grimm: Sweet! Will you be back by Sunday?
NO ANSWER. Strike fucking three.
Oh fucking well. Here's to another worthless fucking entry in a gay, worthless fucking journal. Hopefully this will be funny to me one day.
I want to become the guy who lives with gorillas out in the jungle.
Fuck this shit. So I try to text message my three "active" number closes to set up some day two's.
#1: I text Ashli, the girl from earlier in my journal.
Grimm: "Hi Ashli, what's up?"
NO ANSWER. Strike one.
#2: I text Sonya, the girl from Chicago and the text messages above.
Grimm: "What's my name? :)" (Hey, I thought it was clever.)
NO ANSWER. Strike two.
#3: I text Shantelle, the girl from last weekend and the last video
Grimm: Hey Shantelle, what's up?
Shantelle: Hey im at a dinner in austin
Grimm: Sweet! Will you be back by Sunday?
NO ANSWER. Strike fucking three.
Oh fucking well. Here's to another worthless fucking entry in a gay, worthless fucking journal. Hopefully this will be funny to me one day.
- Guest
by Guest » Thu Sep 09, 2010 12:46 am
[QUOTE=grimm1111;37528]I am so pissed off right now, I want to throw my computer out this fucking hotel window, I want to move to Alaska and become a hermit. Bah to all women, women are terrible, terrible, evil creatures and I never want to see another one as long as I live ever again.
I want to become the guy who lives with gorillas out in the jungle.
Fuck this shit. So I try to text message my three "active" number closes to set up some day two's.
#1: I text Ashli, the girl from earlier in my journal.
Grimm: "Hi Ashli, what's up?"
NO ANSWER. Strike one.
#2: I text Sonya, the girl from Chicago and the text messages above.
Grimm: "What's my name? :)" (Hey, I thought it was clever.)
NO ANSWER. Strike two.
#3: I text Shantelle, the girl from last weekend and the last video
Grimm: Hey Shantelle, what's up?
Shantelle: Hey im at a dinner in austin
Grimm: Sweet! Will you be back by Sunday?
NO ANSWER. Strike fucking three.
Oh fucking well. Here's to another worthless fucking entry in a gay, worthless fucking journal. Hopefully this will be funny to me one day.[/QUOTE]
Rule number 1 of pickup: keep a positive attitude.
If it was easy, then you, me, or anyone else on this forum wouldn't be here. You texted 3 numbers, that's barely any. Plenty more girls out there. Did you learn anything at all from those 3 approaches, number closes, and text interactions? Even the smallest thing? I bet you learned something about something, and if that's the case, then you are further than you were before and it was a success, regardless if you got them out on a day 2 or not.
You are looking at this as a failure, when in reality, there is no such thing as failure, only doing. You gained experience with these 3 interactions, so in the end you succeed in some way.
Post all of your interactions and conversations here, you will get advice and feedback from others. Then take that information and your knowledge from your sets and learn what you could have done differently. Sure, you lose a bunch of girls along the way, but you get information and lessons out of it, you get another step closer to your goal.
Is that trade off worth it? Definitely.
I want to become the guy who lives with gorillas out in the jungle.
Fuck this shit. So I try to text message my three "active" number closes to set up some day two's.
#1: I text Ashli, the girl from earlier in my journal.
Grimm: "Hi Ashli, what's up?"
NO ANSWER. Strike one.
#2: I text Sonya, the girl from Chicago and the text messages above.
Grimm: "What's my name? :)" (Hey, I thought it was clever.)
NO ANSWER. Strike two.
#3: I text Shantelle, the girl from last weekend and the last video
Grimm: Hey Shantelle, what's up?
Shantelle: Hey im at a dinner in austin
Grimm: Sweet! Will you be back by Sunday?
NO ANSWER. Strike fucking three.
Oh fucking well. Here's to another worthless fucking entry in a gay, worthless fucking journal. Hopefully this will be funny to me one day.[/QUOTE]
Rule number 1 of pickup: keep a positive attitude.
If it was easy, then you, me, or anyone else on this forum wouldn't be here. You texted 3 numbers, that's barely any. Plenty more girls out there. Did you learn anything at all from those 3 approaches, number closes, and text interactions? Even the smallest thing? I bet you learned something about something, and if that's the case, then you are further than you were before and it was a success, regardless if you got them out on a day 2 or not.
You are looking at this as a failure, when in reality, there is no such thing as failure, only doing. You gained experience with these 3 interactions, so in the end you succeed in some way.
Post all of your interactions and conversations here, you will get advice and feedback from others. Then take that information and your knowledge from your sets and learn what you could have done differently. Sure, you lose a bunch of girls along the way, but you get information and lessons out of it, you get another step closer to your goal.
Is that trade off worth it? Definitely.
- Guest
by Guest » Thu Sep 09, 2010 12:55 am
[QUOTE=grimm1111;37528]I am so pissed off right now, I want to throw my computer out this fucking hotel window, I want to move to Alaska and become a hermit. Bah to all women, women are terrible, terrible, evil creatures and I never want to see another one as long as I live ever again.
I want to become the guy who lives with gorillas out in the jungle.
Fuck this shit. So I try to text message my three "active" number closes to set up some day two's.
#1: I text Ashli, the girl from earlier in my journal.
Grimm: "Hi Ashli, what's up?"
NO ANSWER. Strike one.
#2: I text Sonya, the girl from Chicago and the text messages above.
Grimm: "What's my name? :)" (Hey, I thought it was clever.)
NO ANSWER. Strike two.
#3: I text Shantelle, the girl from last weekend and the last video
Grimm: Hey Shantelle, what's up?
Shantelle: Hey im at a dinner in austin
Grimm: Sweet! Will you be back by Sunday?
NO ANSWER. Strike fucking three.
Oh fucking well. Here's to another worthless fucking entry in a gay, worthless fucking journal. Hopefully this will be funny to me one day.[/QUOTE]
I estimate that in my gaming days I number closed about 300 women. I would also estimate I got about 10% of those girls out. That is a very small amount of them actually coming out with me.
Sooooo....before you get mad go out and close a few more girls than 3. Close 7 more girls and then maybe get made if 0 respond well.
I want to become the guy who lives with gorillas out in the jungle.
Fuck this shit. So I try to text message my three "active" number closes to set up some day two's.
#1: I text Ashli, the girl from earlier in my journal.
Grimm: "Hi Ashli, what's up?"
NO ANSWER. Strike one.
#2: I text Sonya, the girl from Chicago and the text messages above.
Grimm: "What's my name? :)" (Hey, I thought it was clever.)
NO ANSWER. Strike two.
#3: I text Shantelle, the girl from last weekend and the last video
Grimm: Hey Shantelle, what's up?
Shantelle: Hey im at a dinner in austin
Grimm: Sweet! Will you be back by Sunday?
NO ANSWER. Strike fucking three.
Oh fucking well. Here's to another worthless fucking entry in a gay, worthless fucking journal. Hopefully this will be funny to me one day.[/QUOTE]
I estimate that in my gaming days I number closed about 300 women. I would also estimate I got about 10% of those girls out. That is a very small amount of them actually coming out with me.
Sooooo....before you get mad go out and close a few more girls than 3. Close 7 more girls and then maybe get made if 0 respond well.
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