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by Guest » Fri Sep 03, 2010 3:32 pm
[QUOTE=grimm1111;37437]Cowboys on Thursdays ain't what it used to be. I think they must have got rid of the Thursday night Ladies Night that once made it so popular. All they had were couples out dancing. We left fairly early.[/QUOTE]
My guess is the timing. School just started back up. I bet if you give it another few weeks it will be better.
My guess is the timing. School just started back up. I bet if you give it another few weeks it will be better.
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by Guest » Sun Sep 05, 2010 1:53 am
Excellent video guys... Wish I was there with you guys.
Grimm... I know that this is your thread but I had a quick question for BR.
BR...when you had your back towards us were you kissing her or were you just whispering something? Mystery says that you go for the kiss after 3 IOIs. She stopped short of 21. To me your body language was fine except that kiss was missing about 15-17 mins into the conversation. Then a few more fluffs and then the bounce. She was a cutie.
Grimm... I know that this is your thread but I had a quick question for BR.
BR...when you had your back towards us were you kissing her or were you just whispering something? Mystery says that you go for the kiss after 3 IOIs. She stopped short of 21. To me your body language was fine except that kiss was missing about 15-17 mins into the conversation. Then a few more fluffs and then the bounce. She was a cutie.
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by Guest » Sun Sep 05, 2010 11:37 am
[QUOTE=knight rose;37440]Excellent video guys... Wish I was there with you guys.
Grimm... I know that this is your thread but I had a quick question for BR.
BR...when you had your back towards us were you kissing her or were you just whispering something? Mystery says that you go for the kiss after 3 IOIs. She stopped short of 21. To me your body language was fine except that kiss was missing about 15-17 mins into the conversation. Then a few more fluffs and then the bounce. She was a cutie.[/QUOTE]
No kiss, just a whisper. I whisper to women all of the time because it's just such an intimate thing. I use it as a reward. My lips on/near her ear, I put my hand on the small of her back, etc. Very good kino move.
This was the problem with that set. I was a pussy. I went through this minute by minute with Welsh, thanks for that by the way. And, after going through it again and again, it became clear to me that I simply didn't escalate. That's what she wanted. She wanted me to escalate and show her my interest. I simply did not. This is why she constantly looked disappointed but still re-engaged me. I spiked things. I got her thinking that I was going to flip the switch, I did not, she got let down a little bit. Eventually she came to the conclusion that I was just there to distract her from her friend while Grimm number closed her friend. This is why she became so concerned about her friend. Once she came to the conclusion that I was not interested, she shifted her focus to her friend.
Eventually, she got fed up and left.
As for the whole kissing thing, I think that's pretty creepy to do when you've first met someone. It's just a personal preference.
Grimm... I know that this is your thread but I had a quick question for BR.
BR...when you had your back towards us were you kissing her or were you just whispering something? Mystery says that you go for the kiss after 3 IOIs. She stopped short of 21. To me your body language was fine except that kiss was missing about 15-17 mins into the conversation. Then a few more fluffs and then the bounce. She was a cutie.[/QUOTE]
No kiss, just a whisper. I whisper to women all of the time because it's just such an intimate thing. I use it as a reward. My lips on/near her ear, I put my hand on the small of her back, etc. Very good kino move.
This was the problem with that set. I was a pussy. I went through this minute by minute with Welsh, thanks for that by the way. And, after going through it again and again, it became clear to me that I simply didn't escalate. That's what she wanted. She wanted me to escalate and show her my interest. I simply did not. This is why she constantly looked disappointed but still re-engaged me. I spiked things. I got her thinking that I was going to flip the switch, I did not, she got let down a little bit. Eventually she came to the conclusion that I was just there to distract her from her friend while Grimm number closed her friend. This is why she became so concerned about her friend. Once she came to the conclusion that I was not interested, she shifted her focus to her friend.
Eventually, she got fed up and left.
As for the whole kissing thing, I think that's pretty creepy to do when you've first met someone. It's just a personal preference.
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Ft Worth - Sat September 4th
by Guest » Sun Sep 05, 2010 8:07 pm
Gentlemen.
It's that time again... and here's another video, this one from this past weekend in Ft Worth. It was my only set this weekend, in fact. Again. Incidentally, this "not opening sets thing" is becoming a problem, but I digress.
To begin to break down the evening, I should note that there was some "friend drama," of which there is no need to get in. ;) Two of my friends were having some differences. So I spent the first part of the night mixed up in that and not gaming, and not in the mindset to game anyway. Well, a little, but of course friends come first. Then, PC and Prodigy show up, and everyone talks it out, and everything is fine, dandy, and peachy.
This pickup occurs immediately after the "friend drama" is taken care of and behind us, and I can divert my attention to girls, which I do.
A mixed three set was sitting next to where we were standing at the bar. I want to open now, but I don't want to just jump in head-first because we had been positioned next to them all night while hashing out our issues, and I feel like jumping in randomly will not work well. I can just tell in my gut.
So here's what I did.
I noticed my target's friend (the friend is there with her bf), get up to use the bathroom, but alas, there's a small line outside the girl's room, I notice, and she is stuck in it. So I "conveniently" get up to use the bathroom too.
In line, I say to her nonchalantly..."hey, your friend is pretty cute, is she single?"
"yeah she is!" and I chat with the target's friend (her name is Jamie) for a second by the bathroom.
I take a leak, head back to my group, and sit next to my target and start talking.
I go in just introducing myself. My new friend Jamie comes up and makes the opening very nice and warm.
For this reason, I did not need any banter or attraction or C&F shit. I didn't do any, because there was no need to take any risks at all. Logistically, an SNL was impossible anyway, so the smart play was to get the number, make the number solid, and get out.
This is probably the boring-est pickup video in history. Yet, its very existence is instructional. She doesn't shit test me or resist even one time. I just go in, qualify, build rapport, number close, and leave. And, it true Peter Grimm style, this simple act takes about 30 minutes. Who knows. (Actually the reason for that is I am making sure this number is not a flake)
But it goes to show... win over the friends, and life is much much easier. And that goes for many things in life.
It's that time again... and here's another video, this one from this past weekend in Ft Worth. It was my only set this weekend, in fact. Again. Incidentally, this "not opening sets thing" is becoming a problem, but I digress.
To begin to break down the evening, I should note that there was some "friend drama," of which there is no need to get in. ;) Two of my friends were having some differences. So I spent the first part of the night mixed up in that and not gaming, and not in the mindset to game anyway. Well, a little, but of course friends come first. Then, PC and Prodigy show up, and everyone talks it out, and everything is fine, dandy, and peachy.
This pickup occurs immediately after the "friend drama" is taken care of and behind us, and I can divert my attention to girls, which I do.
A mixed three set was sitting next to where we were standing at the bar. I want to open now, but I don't want to just jump in head-first because we had been positioned next to them all night while hashing out our issues, and I feel like jumping in randomly will not work well. I can just tell in my gut.
So here's what I did.
I noticed my target's friend (the friend is there with her bf), get up to use the bathroom, but alas, there's a small line outside the girl's room, I notice, and she is stuck in it. So I "conveniently" get up to use the bathroom too.
In line, I say to her nonchalantly..."hey, your friend is pretty cute, is she single?"
"yeah she is!" and I chat with the target's friend (her name is Jamie) for a second by the bathroom.
I take a leak, head back to my group, and sit next to my target and start talking.
I go in just introducing myself. My new friend Jamie comes up and makes the opening very nice and warm.
For this reason, I did not need any banter or attraction or C&F shit. I didn't do any, because there was no need to take any risks at all. Logistically, an SNL was impossible anyway, so the smart play was to get the number, make the number solid, and get out.
This is probably the boring-est pickup video in history. Yet, its very existence is instructional. She doesn't shit test me or resist even one time. I just go in, qualify, build rapport, number close, and leave. And, it true Peter Grimm style, this simple act takes about 30 minutes. Who knows. (Actually the reason for that is I am making sure this number is not a flake)
But it goes to show... win over the friends, and life is much much easier. And that goes for many things in life.
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by Guest » Sun Sep 05, 2010 9:32 pm
[url]http://player.vimeo.com/video/14725713[/url]
It helps to remember to post the link to the video.
Oh, I still haven't figured out how to point the camera in the right direction. My shoulders weren't facing her, so much for my crappy cameraman skills. Oh well, I have till Friday to get it right, eh?
It helps to remember to post the link to the video.
Oh, I still haven't figured out how to point the camera in the right direction. My shoulders weren't facing her, so much for my crappy cameraman skills. Oh well, I have till Friday to get it right, eh?
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by Guest » Mon Sep 06, 2010 3:42 am
[QUOTE=grimm1111;37456][URL]http://player.vimeo.com/video/14725713[/URL]
It helps to remember to post the link to the video.
Oh, I still haven't figured out how to point the camera in the right direction. My shoulders weren't facing her, so much for my crappy cameraman skills. Oh well, I have till Friday to get it right, eh?[/QUOTE]
I witnessed a lot of this in person. I felt like the set went extremely well and she was into you.
At some point her friend comes over and does the friend thing where he checks on her. This broke the interaction up and while you were chilling with Prodigy she turned back around 3-4 times hoping to reengage the conversation with you.
My money is on her not flaking and you go out on a day 2 with her.
It helps to remember to post the link to the video.
Oh, I still haven't figured out how to point the camera in the right direction. My shoulders weren't facing her, so much for my crappy cameraman skills. Oh well, I have till Friday to get it right, eh?[/QUOTE]
I witnessed a lot of this in person. I felt like the set went extremely well and she was into you.
At some point her friend comes over and does the friend thing where he checks on her. This broke the interaction up and while you were chilling with Prodigy she turned back around 3-4 times hoping to reengage the conversation with you.
My money is on her not flaking and you go out on a day 2 with her.
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