[QUOTE=grimm1111;37222]Thursday 8-19: text messages with girl from ft worth
The reason I am showing so much interest (and not negging etc) is because I waited all the way till now to text her - and never called her. So this needed to be balanced out.
Grimm: "Hey Ashli with an 'I,' what's up?"
Ashli: "I'm well, how are you?". (One hour later)
Grimm: "Working in Chicago, I love coming here in the summer it's amazing. We should do coffee this wknd if that works for you, I'd like that." (One hour later)
Ashli: "Chicago sounds fun and so does coffee but I'm actaully busy all weekend. :(". (30 min later)
Note* a lesser man would quit here, or chase, or something. Ahem...
Grimm: "It's cool :) I fly to Milwaukee monday to friday but I'll txt you again next week". (5 min later)
Ashli: "That's good, the next Friday night I'm busy but I'm free next Saturday during the day...we can plan for then!". (Immediate answer)
I didn't reply. I will text her next wk as promised.
Very pedestrian stuff. But I figure, if I did everything right at the bar, I already have her interest and attraction. I just want to get her out at this juncture.[/QUOTE]
Update - I forgot to text her "next week as promised." God, I suck. What a bonehead move. Now I have to try to dig myself out of this.
TXT 8/30:
Grimm (8:47pm): Howdy ;) How's it going?
Ashli (9:55pm): Hey there! I'm well, how are you?
zzzzzz boring exchange, but at least I know I'm not blown out for forgetting about her last week. I should be blown out but I'm not. Nice. I am too tired to answer, and besides it's too late at night now. I will re-open tomorrow or something.
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Grimm's Journal
by Guest » Tue Aug 31, 2010 5:20 pm
Here's a text exchange I had today with a girl I met on Saturday night in Chicago. Video of that pickup will be posted tonight. Incidentally, the texting will make more sense when you see the video, as there are a lot of inside jokes and things. All responses were instant, no wait time.
Grimm: Hey Sonya Blade, what's up?
Sonya: Sorry who is this? :(
Grimm: Hmm let's see if you get it... :) In Spanish, I'd be "el situation"
Sonya: Lol I have no clue
Grimm: And I'm unforgettable :)
Sonya: Omg Now I feel bad. I have no idea
Grimm: You tried to make out with me, and then you said my name was biblical.
Sonya: Lol was this recent?
Sonya: Wait are u my good friend?
Sonya: Obviously I suck at guessing.
Sonya: Are u a girl or guy?
Grimm: Lol I'll text you again tomorrow, you can try to remember, you player ;)
Sonya: I'm guessing I just met u...so can u just tell me...and I'm not a player. :( or give me more clues...
(no answer from me. 5 min later...)
Sonya: Hahahahahahaha omg. Sorry. The situation. And a little bird.
Grimm: Good job! :)
Grimm: What was the little bird?
Sonya: Idk a bird.
Sonya: That was hungry.
(no answer from me. 5 min later...)
Sonya: So what's up...
Grimm: Just sitting in my hot tub with some aromatic candles, listening to Mozart.
Grimm: Nah I'm in minnesota working. We should get together after labor day.
Sonya: Minnesota has some hot guys.
Grimm: It does now.
Sonya: Lol What are u doing out there?
(no answer from me. 5 min later...)
Sonya: U need to see the expendibles. Soooo good
Grimm: My friends say that too. We're doing something after labor day :)
Sonya: Remember my friend? She said she text u and u were married? She had my phone the whole weekend cuz she lost hers and I used my blackberry. So she said she text u from this number? I'm confused. I have no texts on here unless she deleted?
Grimm: Huh?
Grimm: I'm confused too, she must have been thinking of the married guy you told me about
Sonya: Alright. No idea. But don't be mad cuz I don't remeber ur name what is it? :)
Grimm: Fine I'll tell you if you agree to meeting up after labor day for not coffee, and then I have to go run an errand :).
(this is true. I was getting sick of texting.)
Sonya: Ok.
Grimm: OK I'm Peter.
Sonya: Oh and for the record I did not try to make out with u. Other way around
Sonya: And I thought you were just visiting Chicago??
(no answer from me.)
Grimm: Hey Sonya Blade, what's up?
Sonya: Sorry who is this? :(
Grimm: Hmm let's see if you get it... :) In Spanish, I'd be "el situation"
Sonya: Lol I have no clue
Grimm: And I'm unforgettable :)
Sonya: Omg Now I feel bad. I have no idea
Grimm: You tried to make out with me, and then you said my name was biblical.
Sonya: Lol was this recent?
Sonya: Wait are u my good friend?
Sonya: Obviously I suck at guessing.
Sonya: Are u a girl or guy?
Grimm: Lol I'll text you again tomorrow, you can try to remember, you player ;)
Sonya: I'm guessing I just met u...so can u just tell me...and I'm not a player. :( or give me more clues...
(no answer from me. 5 min later...)
Sonya: Hahahahahahaha omg. Sorry. The situation. And a little bird.
Grimm: Good job! :)
Grimm: What was the little bird?
Sonya: Idk a bird.
Sonya: That was hungry.
(no answer from me. 5 min later...)
Sonya: So what's up...
Grimm: Just sitting in my hot tub with some aromatic candles, listening to Mozart.
Grimm: Nah I'm in minnesota working. We should get together after labor day.
Sonya: Minnesota has some hot guys.
Grimm: It does now.
Sonya: Lol What are u doing out there?
(no answer from me. 5 min later...)
Sonya: U need to see the expendibles. Soooo good
Grimm: My friends say that too. We're doing something after labor day :)
Sonya: Remember my friend? She said she text u and u were married? She had my phone the whole weekend cuz she lost hers and I used my blackberry. So she said she text u from this number? I'm confused. I have no texts on here unless she deleted?
Grimm: Huh?
Grimm: I'm confused too, she must have been thinking of the married guy you told me about
Sonya: Alright. No idea. But don't be mad cuz I don't remeber ur name what is it? :)
Grimm: Fine I'll tell you if you agree to meeting up after labor day for not coffee, and then I have to go run an errand :).
(this is true. I was getting sick of texting.)
Sonya: Ok.
Grimm: OK I'm Peter.
Sonya: Oh and for the record I did not try to make out with u. Other way around
Sonya: And I thought you were just visiting Chicago??
(no answer from me.)
- Guest
Chicago - 8/27 and 8/28
by Guest » Tue Aug 31, 2010 9:08 pm
So I decided to stick around the Midwest this past weekend, and last Saturday BR decided it would be fun to come up and visit and bought a last minute flight.
We go out. We get REALLY hammered the first night. BR nearly pulls a hired gun (he gets invited to what we think is an afterparty), but I blow him out by being drunk on the street and convincing him that they are after his money.
(Sorry Bull Run!) Her name was Marinera Sauce, and she was cute.
All there was was hired guns, no sets. We went to the wrong places. I have a lot to learn about Chicago still. Oh well, we still had a blast.
We got so drunk we passed out in the truck. The next day (Saturday), we decided it was too much work to drive all the way back to Milwaukee, and then BACK to Chicago, so we just stayed there and had Taco Bell.
Saturday night we went out. My problem is that I don't open shit. The only actual set I ran will be posted. That's my weakness I need to work on.
Sunday is kind of a blur. I think I sent BR back in a slightly retarded state. I know I was, Monday was about the least productive day of work ever. My memory was shot.
We go out. We get REALLY hammered the first night. BR nearly pulls a hired gun (he gets invited to what we think is an afterparty), but I blow him out by being drunk on the street and convincing him that they are after his money.
(Sorry Bull Run!) Her name was Marinera Sauce, and she was cute.
All there was was hired guns, no sets. We went to the wrong places. I have a lot to learn about Chicago still. Oh well, we still had a blast.
We got so drunk we passed out in the truck. The next day (Saturday), we decided it was too much work to drive all the way back to Milwaukee, and then BACK to Chicago, so we just stayed there and had Taco Bell.
Saturday night we went out. My problem is that I don't open shit. The only actual set I ran will be posted. That's my weakness I need to work on.
Sunday is kind of a blur. I think I sent BR back in a slightly retarded state. I know I was, Monday was about the least productive day of work ever. My memory was shot.
- Guest
by Guest » Tue Aug 31, 2010 9:44 pm
Here's the pickup in all its video-rific glory. The password is "grimm1111"
Before you look at the video, know that the camera was mounted on my body, so you are not seeing what I saw. It's pointed in the direction my shoulders were facing, which most of the time is away from my girl. However, you do get to see Bull Run (with his prior permission) do the wingman thing for a while. You also get to see some of the kino, especially when I start facing her a bit more.
The talking is me and the girl Sonya. The audio is what it is for a loud bar, but at least it's audible.
So what are you looking at here?
At first, BR and I walk up to a bouncer to try to get up to some room that's an extra $5 to get in to. You can see BR's girl there looking at us, but I didn't catch this in person, only saw it later on the video. We were talking, and then BR opened her with the gay dancing move.
The rest is there for you to see. It takes about 10 minutes to start getting good. A lot of the beginning sucks and is AFC (I suck when I'm not the one who opened. Can never get the wheels going).
If I ever ask a girl where a fun place to go or what there is to do again is, and I mean ever in history ever... please shoot me. It's the merciful thing to do. Good God it makes me cringe. And apparently, when I get drunk I repeat myself A LOT.
After a while, I get warmed up, dance in to qualification, and there is some good material there. I try to make out with her at some point, like right away. I qualify her for not being slutty and letting me make out with her since it didn't work. Obviously, since you've seen the texts, I ended up with a number. The girl is a shit test machine.
My favorite parts....
"I have a chin that can cut butter."
"You should feel honored you're talking to me. I'm amazing. No, I'm Captain Amazing. Actually, you gotta call me 'the situation'..."
Girl - "I already told you way back at the beginning that I live in Chicago."
Grimm - "I didn't think you were that cool then, so I wasn't paying attention. But now I know." - @ 18:25
I forgot her name, but I got it in a pretty slick way. "What's MY name?" She didn't remember, so we re-introduced each other.
13:57 "I think you could do playboy"
15:30 "What's your number. We won't show them." - got it
20:21 I try to make out with her, she pulls away.
21:02 "If you're gonna go out with me, we're gonna take it up another notch. So you better not answer the phone when I call if you don't want it to be."
Actually - just watch from 9:25 to 11:20 for the fun banter stuff. After that, I flip in to qualification, and try to build some rapport.
Cool. I'll leave you with that. Here's the link:
[url]http://player.vimeo.com/video/14596488[/url]
Before you look at the video, know that the camera was mounted on my body, so you are not seeing what I saw. It's pointed in the direction my shoulders were facing, which most of the time is away from my girl. However, you do get to see Bull Run (with his prior permission) do the wingman thing for a while. You also get to see some of the kino, especially when I start facing her a bit more.
The talking is me and the girl Sonya. The audio is what it is for a loud bar, but at least it's audible.
So what are you looking at here?
At first, BR and I walk up to a bouncer to try to get up to some room that's an extra $5 to get in to. You can see BR's girl there looking at us, but I didn't catch this in person, only saw it later on the video. We were talking, and then BR opened her with the gay dancing move.
The rest is there for you to see. It takes about 10 minutes to start getting good. A lot of the beginning sucks and is AFC (I suck when I'm not the one who opened. Can never get the wheels going).
If I ever ask a girl where a fun place to go or what there is to do again is, and I mean ever in history ever... please shoot me. It's the merciful thing to do. Good God it makes me cringe. And apparently, when I get drunk I repeat myself A LOT.
After a while, I get warmed up, dance in to qualification, and there is some good material there. I try to make out with her at some point, like right away. I qualify her for not being slutty and letting me make out with her since it didn't work. Obviously, since you've seen the texts, I ended up with a number. The girl is a shit test machine.
My favorite parts....
"I have a chin that can cut butter."
"You should feel honored you're talking to me. I'm amazing. No, I'm Captain Amazing. Actually, you gotta call me 'the situation'..."
Girl - "I already told you way back at the beginning that I live in Chicago."
Grimm - "I didn't think you were that cool then, so I wasn't paying attention. But now I know." - @ 18:25
I forgot her name, but I got it in a pretty slick way. "What's MY name?" She didn't remember, so we re-introduced each other.
13:57 "I think you could do playboy"
15:30 "What's your number. We won't show them." - got it
20:21 I try to make out with her, she pulls away.
21:02 "If you're gonna go out with me, we're gonna take it up another notch. So you better not answer the phone when I call if you don't want it to be."
Actually - just watch from 9:25 to 11:20 for the fun banter stuff. After that, I flip in to qualification, and try to build some rapport.
Cool. I'll leave you with that. Here's the link:
[url]http://player.vimeo.com/video/14596488[/url]
- Guest
by Guest » Tue Aug 31, 2010 9:45 pm
[QUOTE=grimm1111;37400]Here's the pickup in all its video-rific glory. The password is "grimm1111"
Before you look at the video, know that the camera was mounted on my body, so you are not seeing what I saw. It's pointed in the direction my shoulders were facing, which most of the time is away from my girl. However, you do get to see Bull Run (with his prior permission) do the wingman thing for a while. You also get to see some of the kino, especially when I start facing her a bit more.
The talking is me and the girl Sonya. The audio is what it is for a loud bar, but at least it's audible.
So what are you looking at here?
At first, BR and I walk up to a bouncer to try to get up to some room that's an extra $5 to get in to. You can see BR's girl there looking at us, but I didn't catch this in person, only saw it later on the video. We were talking, and then BR opened her with the gay dancing move.
The rest is there for you to see. It takes about 10 minutes to start getting good. A lot of the beginning sucks and is AFC (I suck when I'm not the one who opened. Can never get the wheels going).
If I ever ask a girl where a fun place to go or what there is to do again is, and I mean ever in history ever... please shoot me. It's the merciful thing to do. Good God it makes me cringe. And apparently, when I get drunk I repeat myself A LOT.
After a while, I get warmed up, dance in to qualification, and there is some good material there. I try to make out with her at some point, like right away. I qualify her for not being slutty and letting me make out with her since it didn't work. Obviously, since you've seen the texts, I ended up with a number. The girl is a shit test machine.
My favorite parts....
"I have a chin that can cut butter."
"You should feel honored you're talking to me. I'm amazing. No, I'm Captain Amazing. Actually, you gotta call me 'the situation'..."
Girl - "I already told you way back at the beginning that I live in Chicago."
Grimm - "I didn't think you were that cool then, so I wasn't paying attention. But now I know." - @ 18:25
I forgot her name, but I got it in a pretty slick way. "What's MY name?" She didn't remember, so we re-introduced each other.
13:57 "I think you could do playboy"
15:30 "What's your number. We won't show them." - got it
21:02 "If you're gonna go out with me, we're gonna take it up another notch. So you better not answer the phone when I call if you don't want it to be."
Actually - just watch from 9:25 to 11:20 for the fun banter stuff. After that, I flip in to qualification, and try to build some rapport.
Cool. I'll leave you with that. Here's the link:[/QUOTE]
Here's a text exchange I had today with the girl I met on Saturday night in Chicago above. If you saw the vid, you'll get the inside jokes. All responses were instant, no wait time.
Grimm: Hey Sonya Blade, what's up?
Sonya: Sorry who is this?
Grimm: Hmm let's see if you get it... In Spanish, I'd be "el situation"
Sonya: Lol I have no clue
Grimm: And I'm unforgettable
Sonya: Omg Now I feel bad. I have no idea
Grimm: You tried to make out with me, and then you said my name was biblical.
Sonya: Lol was this recent?
Sonya: Wait are u my good friend?
Sonya: Obviously I suck at guessing.
Sonya: Are u a girl or guy?
Grimm: Lol I'll text you again tomorrow, you can try to remember, you player
Sonya: I'm guessing I just met u...so can u just tell me...and I'm not a player. or give me more clues...
(no answer from me. 5 min later...)
Sonya: Hahahahahahaha omg. Sorry. The situation. And a little bird.
Grimm: Good job!
Grimm: What was the little bird?
Sonya: Idk a bird.
Sonya: That was hungry.
(no answer from me. 5 min later...)
Sonya: So what's up...
Grimm: Just sitting in my hot tub with some aromatic candles, listening to Mozart.
Grimm: Nah I'm in minnesota working. We should get together after labor day.
Sonya: Minnesota has some hot guys.
Grimm: It does now.
Sonya: Lol What are u doing out there?
(no answer from me. 5 min later...)
Sonya: U need to see the expendibles. Soooo good
Grimm: My friends say that too. We're doing something after labor day
Sonya: Remember my friend? She said she text u and u were married? She had my phone the whole weekend cuz she lost hers and I used my blackberry. So she said she text u from this number? I'm confused. I have no texts on here unless she deleted?
Grimm: Huh?
Grimm: I'm confused too, she must have been thinking of the married guy you told me about
Sonya: Alright. No idea. But don't be mad cuz I don't remeber ur name what is it?
Grimm: Fine I'll tell you if you agree to meeting up after labor day for not coffee, and then I have to go run an errand .
(this is true. I was getting sick of texting.)
Sonya: Ok.
Grimm: OK I'm Peter.
Sonya: Oh and for the record I did not try to make out with u. Other way around
Sonya: And I thought you were just visiting Chicago??
(no answer from me.)
Before you look at the video, know that the camera was mounted on my body, so you are not seeing what I saw. It's pointed in the direction my shoulders were facing, which most of the time is away from my girl. However, you do get to see Bull Run (with his prior permission) do the wingman thing for a while. You also get to see some of the kino, especially when I start facing her a bit more.
The talking is me and the girl Sonya. The audio is what it is for a loud bar, but at least it's audible.
So what are you looking at here?
At first, BR and I walk up to a bouncer to try to get up to some room that's an extra $5 to get in to. You can see BR's girl there looking at us, but I didn't catch this in person, only saw it later on the video. We were talking, and then BR opened her with the gay dancing move.
The rest is there for you to see. It takes about 10 minutes to start getting good. A lot of the beginning sucks and is AFC (I suck when I'm not the one who opened. Can never get the wheels going).
If I ever ask a girl where a fun place to go or what there is to do again is, and I mean ever in history ever... please shoot me. It's the merciful thing to do. Good God it makes me cringe. And apparently, when I get drunk I repeat myself A LOT.
After a while, I get warmed up, dance in to qualification, and there is some good material there. I try to make out with her at some point, like right away. I qualify her for not being slutty and letting me make out with her since it didn't work. Obviously, since you've seen the texts, I ended up with a number. The girl is a shit test machine.
My favorite parts....
"I have a chin that can cut butter."
"You should feel honored you're talking to me. I'm amazing. No, I'm Captain Amazing. Actually, you gotta call me 'the situation'..."
Girl - "I already told you way back at the beginning that I live in Chicago."
Grimm - "I didn't think you were that cool then, so I wasn't paying attention. But now I know." - @ 18:25
I forgot her name, but I got it in a pretty slick way. "What's MY name?" She didn't remember, so we re-introduced each other.
13:57 "I think you could do playboy"
15:30 "What's your number. We won't show them." - got it
21:02 "If you're gonna go out with me, we're gonna take it up another notch. So you better not answer the phone when I call if you don't want it to be."
Actually - just watch from 9:25 to 11:20 for the fun banter stuff. After that, I flip in to qualification, and try to build some rapport.
Cool. I'll leave you with that. Here's the link:[/QUOTE]
Here's a text exchange I had today with the girl I met on Saturday night in Chicago above. If you saw the vid, you'll get the inside jokes. All responses were instant, no wait time.
Grimm: Hey Sonya Blade, what's up?
Sonya: Sorry who is this?
Grimm: Hmm let's see if you get it... In Spanish, I'd be "el situation"
Sonya: Lol I have no clue
Grimm: And I'm unforgettable
Sonya: Omg Now I feel bad. I have no idea
Grimm: You tried to make out with me, and then you said my name was biblical.
Sonya: Lol was this recent?
Sonya: Wait are u my good friend?
Sonya: Obviously I suck at guessing.
Sonya: Are u a girl or guy?
Grimm: Lol I'll text you again tomorrow, you can try to remember, you player
Sonya: I'm guessing I just met u...so can u just tell me...and I'm not a player. or give me more clues...
(no answer from me. 5 min later...)
Sonya: Hahahahahahaha omg. Sorry. The situation. And a little bird.
Grimm: Good job!
Grimm: What was the little bird?
Sonya: Idk a bird.
Sonya: That was hungry.
(no answer from me. 5 min later...)
Sonya: So what's up...
Grimm: Just sitting in my hot tub with some aromatic candles, listening to Mozart.
Grimm: Nah I'm in minnesota working. We should get together after labor day.
Sonya: Minnesota has some hot guys.
Grimm: It does now.
Sonya: Lol What are u doing out there?
(no answer from me. 5 min later...)
Sonya: U need to see the expendibles. Soooo good
Grimm: My friends say that too. We're doing something after labor day
Sonya: Remember my friend? She said she text u and u were married? She had my phone the whole weekend cuz she lost hers and I used my blackberry. So she said she text u from this number? I'm confused. I have no texts on here unless she deleted?
Grimm: Huh?
Grimm: I'm confused too, she must have been thinking of the married guy you told me about
Sonya: Alright. No idea. But don't be mad cuz I don't remeber ur name what is it?
Grimm: Fine I'll tell you if you agree to meeting up after labor day for not coffee, and then I have to go run an errand .
(this is true. I was getting sick of texting.)
Sonya: Ok.
Grimm: OK I'm Peter.
Sonya: Oh and for the record I did not try to make out with u. Other way around
Sonya: And I thought you were just visiting Chicago??
(no answer from me.)
- Guest
by Guest » Wed Sep 01, 2010 12:33 am
Nah, we're not Playercool and Lion ;)
But when we do tandem SNL, it'll be so much cooler because it will be on tape forever and you'll have to see to believe.
So what happened was Bull Run's girl bolted and then mine left to go get her. Bastard. That's why toward the end of the video my girl's like...
"go get my friend"
And I didn't (but should have) due to being drunk and unaware of shit. I'm like "no, YOU go get her"... and she paid out and did just that.
So the text messages above were to that same girl today, to make sure I can take her out for a D2 when I come back to Chicago.
I'm fairly confident about this one though, I'll get her. Even though the actual pickup was only about a "B," that texting is an "A+"
And the cool thing is, with video, I can already see some things I didn't know that I did that I can work on. I'm pretty stoked about this camera already.
But when we do tandem SNL, it'll be so much cooler because it will be on tape forever and you'll have to see to believe.
So what happened was Bull Run's girl bolted and then mine left to go get her. Bastard. That's why toward the end of the video my girl's like...
"go get my friend"
And I didn't (but should have) due to being drunk and unaware of shit. I'm like "no, YOU go get her"... and she paid out and did just that.
So the text messages above were to that same girl today, to make sure I can take her out for a D2 when I come back to Chicago.
I'm fairly confident about this one though, I'll get her. Even though the actual pickup was only about a "B," that texting is an "A+"
And the cool thing is, with video, I can already see some things I didn't know that I did that I can work on. I'm pretty stoked about this camera already.
- Guest
by Guest » Wed Sep 01, 2010 8:28 am
[QUOTE=playercool;37405]That video quality is pretty good.
I was cracking up at this.
Did you guys double SNL those girls?[/QUOTE]
Nope. I thought my target was interested, but in hindsight I'm thinking she was just nervous about the whole interaction. Sure, she was laughing, playing with her hair, and re-engaged me in conversation when the thread dropped. But, she clearly wanted to check on her friend. Obviously, I did my best to stop this from happening because Grimm was running the other girl. If my target went over to Grimm and her friend, the chances were super high that she would blow him out. So, I just tried to rely on getting her comfortable with me.
She was a struggle. She was so fidgity and nervous. Part of the reason why is because Grimm and I split the set so quickly. Another reason was because I'm so fucking BIG. I was TWICE that girls size. My body language was probably way too strong for her, too often I squared up to her on the balls of my feet (which is a highly aggressive position). I also pecked a little bit, not as much as I could have given how loud it was in there, I should have just said I can't hear you and made her lean in (I'll be more aware of that in the future). I put my fucking hand over my face a few times...WTF?!?!?! What is that shit? That's got to fucking stop, that's creepy serial killer body language right there. And, I routinely pinned her between me (a guy TWICE her size) and the bar. She was small, she was cornered, she was obviously uncomfortable when I did that. Eventually, she just left...no goodbye, no fuck you...just left. Oh well, it's not my fault she's not in to guys with huge dicks ;)
I'm not used to running game with my more muscular physique. I need to recalibrate a lot of things. Ugh. And, I used to have such great body language.
Although, I will say that I had exceptional body language the night before with the hired gun that invited us to an after party. After we left her bar, later in the night we just happened to be walking by the bar she worked at and she called me over to her. I bummed a cigarette off of her, which her and her friend bitched about because I didn't buy shots from them earlier, she kissed me on the check, and got the bouncer to stamp mine and Grimm's hand so we could get in. That chick was most likely good to go. And, she was a whore...
Earlier Saturday night, at dinner, I gamed our waitress and she mentioned that she goes to a certain bar after hours that was across the street from where she worked. She could have been validating the bar, it's cool because I go there OR she should have been inviting me to come over and talk to her some more. In Dallas, I would say the former...but, in Chicago I'm leaning towards the latter. The women there are just amazing. They're all attractive, not super Uptown snobby hot (although those do exist), but still hot. Very few overweight chicks. And, they're all super receptive to guys talking to them. That city is WIDE OPEN my friends, WIDE OPEN...
Shit, I even gathered up the courage to talk to a few of them in the airport before my flight left for home. Again, all receptive and all attractive...I'm in the wrong fucking city. Dallas and it's $30K Millionaires are just not my speed...
I was cracking up at this.
Did you guys double SNL those girls?[/QUOTE]
Nope. I thought my target was interested, but in hindsight I'm thinking she was just nervous about the whole interaction. Sure, she was laughing, playing with her hair, and re-engaged me in conversation when the thread dropped. But, she clearly wanted to check on her friend. Obviously, I did my best to stop this from happening because Grimm was running the other girl. If my target went over to Grimm and her friend, the chances were super high that she would blow him out. So, I just tried to rely on getting her comfortable with me.
She was a struggle. She was so fidgity and nervous. Part of the reason why is because Grimm and I split the set so quickly. Another reason was because I'm so fucking BIG. I was TWICE that girls size. My body language was probably way too strong for her, too often I squared up to her on the balls of my feet (which is a highly aggressive position). I also pecked a little bit, not as much as I could have given how loud it was in there, I should have just said I can't hear you and made her lean in (I'll be more aware of that in the future). I put my fucking hand over my face a few times...WTF?!?!?! What is that shit? That's got to fucking stop, that's creepy serial killer body language right there. And, I routinely pinned her between me (a guy TWICE her size) and the bar. She was small, she was cornered, she was obviously uncomfortable when I did that. Eventually, she just left...no goodbye, no fuck you...just left. Oh well, it's not my fault she's not in to guys with huge dicks ;)
I'm not used to running game with my more muscular physique. I need to recalibrate a lot of things. Ugh. And, I used to have such great body language.
Although, I will say that I had exceptional body language the night before with the hired gun that invited us to an after party. After we left her bar, later in the night we just happened to be walking by the bar she worked at and she called me over to her. I bummed a cigarette off of her, which her and her friend bitched about because I didn't buy shots from them earlier, she kissed me on the check, and got the bouncer to stamp mine and Grimm's hand so we could get in. That chick was most likely good to go. And, she was a whore...
Earlier Saturday night, at dinner, I gamed our waitress and she mentioned that she goes to a certain bar after hours that was across the street from where she worked. She could have been validating the bar, it's cool because I go there OR she should have been inviting me to come over and talk to her some more. In Dallas, I would say the former...but, in Chicago I'm leaning towards the latter. The women there are just amazing. They're all attractive, not super Uptown snobby hot (although those do exist), but still hot. Very few overweight chicks. And, they're all super receptive to guys talking to them. That city is WIDE OPEN my friends, WIDE OPEN...
Shit, I even gathered up the courage to talk to a few of them in the airport before my flight left for home. Again, all receptive and all attractive...I'm in the wrong fucking city. Dallas and it's $30K Millionaires are just not my speed...
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