Taking too long??

[Clueless1]

I fear i've taken too long with a target of mine. about ehhh....4 months too long, all sorts of issues drew this out longer than i'd like. And at any moment all the interest and ect... will be gone.

I think i've built enough attraction, comfort and put out intent to her, and she reciprocates when we actually do hang out. But it's hard to plan something to end up where i can try n seduce her. We were supposed to go on a camping trip together but work interferes again. So she suggested something else. I was planning on trying to seduce her and go into "do or die" mode, and get clear answer. Which I know isn't the best plan, because it puts her on the spot.

Is there any advice, tips, and or routines I can use to put the odds in my favor? Maybe something AFC-ish would work???

[Scoundrel]

Have you kissed her yet? If not, I'll bet you have fallen into the "friend zone."

Next time you see her tell her you want to ask her something and move her someplace where you'r alone and go for a kiss.

I think you've waited too long and let this one get away.

[MagicBalls]

Friend zone SUCKS.

Women complain that we treat them like shit and that we're detached and emotionally unavailable, but you know, they do this to themselves.

[Finesse]

It doesnt matter if they have boyfriends or husbands even, if you play the game right. In my past experience those girls have been the ones who will *close or fclose sooner since there is that lingering "problem" of have a different guy while they still have another man.

They are testing the waters, if you will.

Half the time if they do, then you wont find out until AFTER you have already done something with her.

If she has a boyfriend and you haven't done anything with her yet, and it's been 4 months? Just move on.

EDIT
Oh yeah, don't put her on the spot. If she is put on the spot her anti slut shield will go up and since youre in the friend zone it will be that much easier for her to smack you down. What I would do is fly in under the radar with like a running of the cube, strawberry fields mix, once you have her isolated of course. I emphasize the cube AND strawberry fields because it switches things to a sexual stance. THEN (NOTE: Be standing up for this, and stand sorta close to her. Have her use your hand to draw the things out on) When it comes time to start explaining who she is, then have her put her hands in yours as you face each other and leave the hands down to the side. Then start explaining things about her.

When it gets to the horse part and strawberry fields, you will be telling her about her sexual side. Pull her hands up about mid-chest high, and start explaing how sexual she is. It doesnt really matter what you say as long as you put this part in there "You have a freaky side, like you have these thoughts every once in a while that would make a sailor blush." and then laugh and say "Thats cool, your secret is safe with me *wink* Continue to explain her sexul side, then slow the conversation down and look into her eyes (really you should be looking into her eyes the entire time) but this time look into her eyes with your "I'd like to slip my egg roll in you" look, mix that with the kiss-triangle look (eye, lips, eye, repeat).

If she is feeling your vibe and wants to you should then be able to pull her closer to you without resistance, you'll be able to tell at this point.

Before you start you should have a serious frame.

Hope this helps.

[MagicBalls]

Yeah, It's hard, though, when you have their email and they're on your myspace list. But you know, writing about it helps. Good therapy.