Need help in showing attainability

[Ca$h]

Demonstrating attainability has been my sticking point lately. I have tried to calibrate my interactions with HBs and UGs and the result has been the same albeit in different forms. What am i missing?

[TheAwakened]

You're going to have to give us some examples of your interactions.

[Vector]

What do you mean by demonstrating attainability? Demonstrating that you are attainable? In other words, not too good for them?

[quipster]

why do others think you are unattainable? Are you a different race? higher value person?

[Ca$h]

I am getting the vibe am "too good for them" they feel that they dont measure up

[Tribulus1000]

If you feel that you are too "high value" (Example: you're good looking and you intimidate them) then go for rapport.

Rapport is the goal of all of this. The goal is not to run attraction game all night and get tons of social proof only to go home alone.

Can I get an amen, brothers?

[quipster]

Give them compliments.. I would give complements on their physical features ie. eyes,hair,smile,nails, etc...

[Ca$h]

Amen Amen. I will give it a try and let you know. i like the rapport idea. Thanks