Can Facebook closing replace number closing?

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Can Facebook closing replace number closing?

Postby Guest » Sat Feb 13, 2010 3:12 pm

Hey guys. I have been recently wondering if Facebook closing could replace number closing completely. Nearly everyone has a Facebook.

My reasoning for this is cause my online game/text game is above average. Once i get to talking to a chick on myspace or Facebook number closing and getting a day 2 is easy as hell.

I also think girls will be significantly more likely, in most all situations, to give me there full name as opposed to their number


What do you guys think about this?
Would you guys say i should capitalize on this strength of mine?
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Postby Guest » Sat Feb 13, 2010 4:13 pm

facebook closing will never replace number closing -- what i mean is that you will always need a way to communicate with women, and facebook will never be a better form of communication than the phone. sure people use facebook to keep in touch, but when you're dating or gaming, its best to have a phone number to text, talk; to set up or confirm a day two.

you are correct that girls are more likely to give you their full name/facebook than their number. i think this is because facebook is not as personal as a number. a girl may have 1000 friends on her facebook, but how many of those actually people actually have her number that she talks to (or texts)?

i think you should definitely capitalize on your online gaming ability; its just another avenue of gaming and why not be good at all aspects of game? more importantly, utilize your strengths to get your desired result (and in this case, sex with women).
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Postby Guest » Sat Feb 13, 2010 4:25 pm

[QUOTE=Prodigy;34914]facebook closing will never replace number closing -- what i mean is that you will always need a way to communicate with women, and facebook will never be a better form of communication than the phone. sure people use facebook to keep in touch, but when you're dating or gaming, its best to have a phone number to text, talk; to set up or confirm a day two.

you are correct that girls are more likely to give you their full name/facebook than their number. i think this is because facebook is not as personal as a number. a girl may have 1000 friends on her facebook, but how many of those actually people actually have her number that she talks to (or texts)?

i think you should definitely capitalize on your online gaming ability. its just another avenue of gaming. why not be good at all aspects of game?[/QUOTE]

I know it won't fully replace number closing. Maybe i could use Facebook closing as a step ladder to number closing. Once i master it i can then get practice number closing.

A set could go like this:
I open, false time constraint, run a couple of routines(2 or 3) then When i am ready to eject i could say "you're pretty fun to talk to ya know. i'd like to see if there's more to you than just good first impressions. lets be Facebook buddies. what's your Facebook?"

ya know something like that...

Oh and prodigy, me and Skepsis are going day gaming tomorrow at northpark at 1230. actually this goes for anyone. last vday northpark was swarming with hotties. if anyone's interested in coming hit me up. 9727546594. text me
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Postby Guest » Sat Feb 13, 2010 4:31 pm

[QUOTE=Urban Legend;34916]I know it won't fully replace number closing. Maybe i could use Facebook closing as a step ladder to number closing. Once i master it i can then get practice number closing.

A set could go like this:
I open, false time constraint, run a couple of routines(2 or 3) then When i am ready to eject i could say "you're pretty fun to talk to ya know. i'd like to see if there's more to you than just good first impressions. lets be Facebook buddies. what's your Facebook?"

ya know something like that...

Oh and prodigy, me and Skepsis are going day gaming tomorrow at northpark at 1230. actually this goes for anyone. last vday northpark was swarming with hotties. if anyone's interested in coming hit me up. 9727546594. text me[/QUOTE]

using FB as a ladder is a great idea.

also, i wont be able to do day game tomorrow. its chinese new year (im not chinese, but viets share the same day) and i have to go to my parents place...

maybe some other time though...
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Postby Guest » Mon Feb 15, 2010 2:10 pm

UL online game is important, but using Facebook to ladder to a phone number seems like a lot of additional work. You just added another step in the process that really doesn't have much of a purpose. All you've done is given a girl another 'out.' It seems to me that you've just added extra work to get to your final destination. You should be thinking of things to cut out of your Game to tighten it up, not add pieces that lengthen the process.

As far as giving someone your name over your phone number. I would 100% of the time give my phone number before I'd ever consider giving a stranger my first and last name. Phone numbers are more confidential and provide you with a little some level of anynomity.
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Postby Guest » Mon Feb 15, 2010 3:26 pm

If you meet in the real world, getting just a Facebook add is worse than her giving your her "modeling" promo pack...at least that would have a phone # in it...

In online game, as in you converse with this chick on a dating site or whatever, then it's perfectly okay to progress from there to Facebook...
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Postby Guest » Mon Feb 15, 2010 5:01 pm

If you're ultimate goal is to get the # then do not go for the facebook. Go for the digits.

If you're goal is to get her out and you want to use facebook instead of a number then get the facebook. After you get the facebook, don't worry about the digits. Concentrate on messaging her to try and get her out. When she accepts she will just send you her number.

I have found that bouncing from person to website to phone doesn't do much good. When I start talking to a girl on facebook and I get the digits it usually dies after a day or so, whereas if I had kept her on facebook we could have made a date. Keep her in one field and stay in that field. If you get her facebook stay in the facebook zone. If you get her digits stay in the phone zone. Etc.
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Postby Guest » Wed Feb 17, 2010 11:36 am

[QUOTE=Bull Run;34939]
As far as giving someone your name over your phone number. I would 100% of the time give my phone number before I'd ever consider giving a stranger my first and last name. Phone numbers are more confidential and provide you with a little some level of anynomity.[/QUOTE]



Wouldn't it be the other way around with girls? I mean I think most of the girls in my target age range(17-21ish) think about it like "He asked for my Facebook? Hmm. Well I have 3000 other people on Facebook so why not? And at least if he is a creepy guy(which I will not convey that I am a creepy guy cause I am not lol) I can always delete him on Facebook as opposed to giving him my phone number than having him text me every hour on the hour..."

I understand I am giving her another "out" but I was just thinking about using Facebook as a tool to keep more sets around whilst I am growing the skill set and balls to ask for a number IRL.
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Postby Guest » Wed Feb 17, 2010 4:21 pm

[B]Great Moments in AFC History:[/B]

I remember a time before social networking sites when you'd ask a girl for her phone number, and instead she'd say, "Eh....how about we exchange e-mails instead?" Pretty much this was a sign that she was not into you, and trying to put polite distance between the two of you. Phone access is more intimate than e-mail by far. Facebook is a little better than e-mail obviously, but still it's still just another buffer between you and her.
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Postby Guest » Sun Feb 21, 2010 4:47 pm

Facebook doesnt replace number closing for sure. I use facebook as a talking point during the conversation. I usually have her log onto her facebook and show cheezy pictures or whatever that she has posted. We fluff about it and that kinda stuff. At the end the number close is still key.
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