i can't believe it

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Interesting point Prodigy... In our relationship, I was the one that dumped her ULTIMATELY, but she had tried to end the relationship several times beforehand, but somehow I always managed to get her to stay...

Idk. I am just going to "game" her normally, but without the seduction. I guess I'll just get her to hang out and throw a shit load of comfort at her and show her what an awesome guy I am now and how much I have improved as a man

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UL- that should work out well for you. I did the same thing with my exwife and after a few times of hanging out she was saying "wow, I wish you were like this when we were married!"

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well guys i was just Texting her trying to get her to hang out with me tomorrow and telling her how much better i could make her life if we were friends. she said no to everything and finally told me why she does not want to see me again and its cause she still feels pain for me breaking her heart two years ago(unintentionally of course). well actually she worded it as so: because you ruined my life sophomore year and i can never forgive you for that

this chick carries a lot of pain with her. i really want to help her. is there anything i can say to her tomorrow that would get her to spend time with me tomorrow?

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I don't understand why you want to hang out with her so badly...

If you want to be her friend, respect her decision. she obviously does not want to be friends at the moment, yet you keep pressing her, which is really just pushing her away and making things worse.

If you truly cared for her (in a platonic way), you would just leave her alone until she gets over the fact that you "ruined" her life. You can be a friend by apologizing for hurting her and then not contacting her again until she reaches out to you (then you would at least know she's ready to be friends, or whatever).

The best thing for you to do is LEAVE HER ALONE!

Like UH said, give her time to heal, as it definitely sounds like she still needs it...

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[QUOTE=Urban Legend;34859]well guys i was just Texting her trying to get her to hang out with me tomorrow and telling her how much better i could make her life if we were friends. she said no to everything[/QUOTE]

UL it sounds like you were begging her. Quit being needy if you ever want to see her again. Like Prodigy says, leave her alone if you really care about her. Text her one last time and move on.

"I'm sorry I hurt you. If you ever want to be friends again I'd like to. I will go ahead and delete your number now to give you some time. Fair enough?"

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UL- exactly what these guys above said! That is some needy ass shit right there that is doing you absolutely no good. You aren't following the advice I laid out for you! Don't make me bitch slap you. :eek: I didn't post that stuff for my own benefit.

Go out and find some new girl or better yet lots of girls this weekend so you can get mind off your ex. I want to read a field report on Monday of your endeavor! :rolleyes:

Something that stands out with me about this girl is:

1. This girl still isn't over this breakup which occurred [B]2 YEARS AGO[/B]!

2. You never had a sexual bond(intercourse) with her and she is having a hard time getting over the failed relationship. Thank god you didn't have sex with her.

You can draw your own conclusion!

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My own conclusion is it still hurts her to see me... Except I think when you said "you can draw your own conclusion" it was a rhetorical statement lol. I texted her telling her I am sorry I hurt her like Lion said. I'm done with her completely.

Prodigy, the reason for me trying so hard to be friends with her was because although I do not love her anymore as a lover, I love her as a person and just want her to be happy. You were right all along man. Thanks for your advice :)

It sucks to know she carries so much pain with her, but at least it's her and not me.

I do need to sarge. BADLY. Unfortunately all of the people that I used to sarge with have stopped sarging. Guess I'll hit the events section up right after I post this.

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Good job UL, I wasn't sure you had it in you. I hope you texted the whole thing, not just the "I'm sorry" part.

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I texted her the whole thing :)

Okay so I didn't post this part but there was this one time she texted me and she sent me the bitchiest text i have ever read. I was like "Wow this chick is such a bitch lol"
Reminded me of why we didn't work out together. She was SUCH A BITCH! and still is lol

I'd be lying if I said I am not sad that she doesn't want to be friends. She would be great social proof for me(especially this summer, if she starts working out, as she is getting breast implants this summer, but I honestly think she does not have the body type for breast implants. She has a big ass and thick thighs and just thick all around. Not fat but thick. I think breast implants will just make her look really fat lol)

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[QUOTE=Urban Legend;34902]I texted her the whole thing :)

Okay so I didn't post this part but there was this one time she texted me and she sent me the bitchiest text i have ever read. I was like "Wow this chick is such a bitch lol"
Reminded me of why we didn't work out together. She was SUCH A BITCH! and still is lol

I'd be lying if I said I am not sad that she doesn't want to be friends. She would be great social proof for me(especially this summer, if she starts working out, as she is getting breast implants this summer, but I honestly think she does not have the body type for breast implants. She has a big ass and thick thighs and just thick all around. Not fat but thick. I think breast implants will just make her look really fat lol)[/QUOTE]


If she was such a bitch, then why do you give two shits about her not wanting to be friends? Sounds to me like she's just not worth the trouble. This is something you'll learn as you gain experience. I remember many, many times I'd be with a chick and know that if I wanted to I could tap her but, also knew, from experience that she was going to end up being one of those pain in the ass types. For a while there, I would tap them regardless. But, after I had to deal with endless drama and bullshit situation on top of bullshit situation, I decided to think more about the repercussions of tapping them and less about tapping them. Sometimes, frankly a larger number than most are willing to admit, the pussy just isn't worth the bullshit.

As for the breast implants...yes, breast implants are nice. BUT, if she isn't working out now, she's certainly not going to when she gets implants. Why? Well, she'll be showered with so much attention that she won't feel the need to be more fit. Fake titties + new attention from men because she has fake titties = complacency.