too many IOIs???

[Guest]

Last night I was out with lesbian friend who brought a few straight friends with her. About 5 other girls to be in fact (gotta love lesbians).

Well, she brought this HB9 with her who I knew from last time me and the lesbian hung out. she was the bartender at another bar. I had shot a couple of canned routines at her a couple of months ago when I was barely beginning my pickup journey.

Immediately this HB9 starts shooting IOIs and escalating kino with me. I think she even fucking negged me in the span of like 5 minutes. Most of the shit was straight out of the mystery method, it seemed. When I told her a certain song sucked, she even told me "oh, this marriage is over!"

Now, I know some of you are gonna say I'm thinking to hard into this, but I guarentee you im not. She started all this within 5 minutes.

So I tested a little bit, I had my bro come over, and she started sending IOIs his way in front of me, but he didn't know what to do with it. (He doesn't know anything about pickup).

Well, we all bounced to another bar, and I tried to keep the kino going, but she gave me the cold shoulder. I even opened another HB3 at this other bar, and the HB9 walked over and was like who the fuck is this? And playfully acted like she was gonna hit the HB3 in the head.

So we all my bounced back to my casa, me, my bro, the lesbian, the HB9, an HB4, and another HB4.

The HB9 goes straight into my cupboard, and starts eating my canned goods. I neg her a little bit, but she really doesn't try to escalate anything else. And then her and the lesbian leave.


I'm a little bit uneasy. I feel like I tried everything I could, or maybe I just handled the situation all wrong. But really it felt like she was gaming me, and I kind of backed up. For one, I didn't want her to think I was her bitch. From the things she said, she loved having guys buy her shit, and I got that out of the way quickly. I even saw her face drop when I told the lesbian to pay for my tab.

So what do you think dallas lair? I need thoughts, questions or comments. I ended up getting way to drunk and tryin to caveman one of the HB4s, but I passed out. I need to quit getting fucked up while I'm out too.

[Guest]

Perhaps the negs she threw your way were intended to test your level of confidence/humor? I'm not sure how you responded but I'm thinking it wasn't to her liking and thats possibly why you got the cold shoulder.

Did you create enough comfort/attraction/rapport with this girl to the point where she's thinking "i could be interested in this guy"?