unique date ideas

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[QUOTE=zine;33718]dam finals...

I remember I brought a girl to like the 3rd lair meetup I ever went to probly like 4 years ago. A couple of the guys decided it would be cool to be basically total douches to my girl and try to amog me. I'm down for trying it again though. I think the guys in the lair these days are generally much cooler then a long time ago. I don't care if people try and pick up the girl just don't treat her like a peace of shit lol.. Ram and bull run I didn't see anyone treat your girls badly so I'm going to assume that maybe I made to much of that one time.

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I don't know what it was like 4 years ago. I've only been a card carrying member since about august. All the guys I've met have been pretty cool. Not it like it really even has to be said but we should be trying our hardest to raise eachother's value in public especially in front of ladies. A guy that doesn't know anything about game can have a pass if he really doesn't know what he's doing, but if you know what's up and you pull shit like that on someone cause you think it's funny... Not that cool, not cool at all actually.

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[QUOTE=zine;33718]I remember I brought a girl to like the 3rd lair meetup I ever went to probly like 4 years ago. A couple of the guys decided it would be cool to be basically total douches to my girl and try to amog me. I'm down for trying it again though. I think the guys in the lair these days are generally much cooler then a long time ago. I don't care if people try and pick up the girl just don't treat her like a peace of shit lol.. Ram and bull run I didn't see anyone treat your girls badly so I'm going to assume that maybe I made to much of that one time.[/QUOTE]



There has only been one person that ever really treated my LTR poorly and I nipped that in the bud right away. It wasn't personal, I don't think, just how he acts.

However, I know for a FACT, that guys have routinely hit on her even in my presence. Sometimes, they were covert, sometimes overt. She's NEVER, EVER told me of any one from the Community hitting on her, but I have eyes and I understand these interactions so I saw a lot more of it than I would have preferred or expected. It was a little disappointing to see guys that are so lacking in respect for themselves, and you, as to try to steal another 'brother's' girl from them. That's just plain tacky.

The way I think of it though, is that it's a great test for you and her. If you bring her into the lion's den (don't get a big head here Lion ;)) then you're going to see how 'in to' you she really is and you'll be able to show her that you're confident enough to be unfazed by advances that other men make towards her. Also, I always hedged my friendships with a lot of the more 'underhanded' Community guys by saying that I didn't really know xyz person all that well. Basically denying our friendship and preventing me from looking as if I keep bad company.

Finally, you'll also see who your real friends in the Community are. The guys that treat your lady well and are protective of her just because she's Bull Run's girl are truly the guys that you want in your life.

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What if the guy is acting like he knows you and is being a douche? Should I just put him in his place or just act like I don't know him? Btw for those of you I regularly hang out with this is probably not you.

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[QUOTE=zine;33805]What if the guy is acting like he knows you and is being a douche? Should I just put him in his place or just act like I don't know him? Btw for those of you I regularly hang out with this is probably not you.[/QUOTE]



I've always dealt with situations by being sarcastic and witty towards him. Basically giving them the finger while smiling in their face, just using words to do it. I don't ever directly confront them unless he and I are friends or know each other well enough to be candidate.

Of course, you can always laugh it off by saying that you have a familiar face and people tend to mistake you for someone famous...usually, it's a porn star which is why it's weird he would recognize me with my clothes on.

Then walk away.

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Finally, you'll also see who your real friends in the Community are. The guys that treat your lady well and are protective of her just because she's Bull Run's girl are truly the guys that you want in your life.[/QUOTE]


LOL I think a few of us had this one covered for you walking back from the river trip... Next time we bring shoping carts to put you guys in to wheel back down the street

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[QUOTE=Thaddeus;33921]LOL I think a few of us had this one covered for you walking back from the river trip... Next time we bring shoping carts to put you guys in to wheel back down the street[/QUOTE]

Ha I'm sure some guys in the community would consider that needy. Thad you needy :p NewbBBB! I agree bull run those the type of people that everyone should have in their life. There is def a certain group of guys that I see that way in this lair.

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Something that I do for a second day or a first date sometimes, that I got from another friend in the community is to tell her that we are going to do something mysterious but it is going to be a surprise for both for us. When she comes over or I pick her up I have three sealed envelopes and tell her whatever she picks is what we are going to do. Whats she doesn't know is that all three envelopes have the same thing in it that way you can still control where you go and have a plan for time constraints and change of venues for distortion. However for her it seems totally spontaneuos and when two people share something "new and random" together it brings them together faster. Not to mention the unique factor, I'm sure no other guy has done that, and she will love telling the story to her friends. In addition it starts the night off with a strong frame of excitement and adventure which always raises her buying temperature and your value. It also leaves endless loops for you to neg her that night for picking "the worst one" or if she asks you what the other choices were to tell her she doesn't "have clearance for that" etc. etc. I know it's kinda stupid but I have field tested it several times and everytime it has worked and definitely gives the evening more of a jump start then just picking her up.

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[QUOTE=Frenchy;34007]Something that I do for a second day or a first date sometimes, that I got from another friend in the community is to tell her that we are going to do something mysterious but it is going to be a surprise for both for us. When she comes over or I pick her up I have three sealed envelopes and tell her whatever she picks is what we are going to do. Whats she doesn't know is that all three envelopes have the same thing in it that way you can still control where you go and have a plan for time constraints and change of venues for distortion. However for her it seems totally spontaneuos and when two people share something "new and random" together it brings them together faster. Not to mention the unique factor, I'm sure no other guy has done that, and she will love telling the story to her friends. In addition it starts the night off with a strong frame of excitement and adventure which always raises her buying temperature and your value. It also leaves endless loops for you to neg her that night for picking "the worst one" or if she asks you what the other choices were to tell her she doesn't "have clearance for that" etc. etc. I know it's kinda stupid but I have field tested it several times and everytime it has worked and definitely gives the evening more of a jump start then just picking her up.[/QUOTE]



That's pure gold right there...I'm going to have to give that a try.

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[QUOTE=Frenchy;34007]Something that I do for a second day or a first date sometimes, that I got from another friend in the community is to tell her that we are going to do something mysterious but it is going to be a surprise for both for us. When she comes over or I pick her up I have three sealed envelopes and tell her whatever she picks is what we are going to do. Whats she doesn't know is that all three envelopes have the same thing in it that way you can still control where you go and have a plan for time constraints and change of venues for distortion. However for her it seems totally spontaneuos and when two people share something "new and random" together it brings them together faster. Not to mention the unique factor, I'm sure no other guy has done that, and she will love telling the story to her friends. In addition it starts the night off with a strong frame of excitement and adventure which always raises her buying temperature and your value. It also leaves endless loops for you to neg her that night for picking "the worst one" or if she asks you what the other choices were to tell her she doesn't "have clearance for that" etc. etc. I know it's kinda stupid but I have field tested it several times and everytime it has worked and definitely gives the evening more of a jump start then just picking her up.[/QUOTE]

That's basically the same as my 1st date game thing I do...except I actually have many different options/activities and just plan time constraints etc. for each. A little more work, but I like the surprise too.

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Damn Frenchy I too like that idea.

Girls like gimmicky shit.

She is going to tell all her friends about the envelope thing. This is gonna win you points.

The built in negs is awesome. You picked the worst one. Way to go. Blah Blah.

Might set up a wee bit of a BF frame but I think it is marginal.