by Guest » Fri Oct 30, 2009 3:40 pm
[QUOTE=Dead Poet;33466]Ok, so I hate to admit this, but the first night I was with a girl in years, I came after like one thrust before condom (I know, no lecture needed. I pulled out first though), then put on a condom and went to town. Last night, I put on the condom first, and couldn't cum. :( would this be caused by masterbation or is it anxeity (it was my first ever "booty call" and I was a bit nervous about it)?[/QUOTE]
When you say first time in years that means you did have other girls right? What was it like with them, did you cum fast or slow, and did the condom have any effect then?
It could be anxiety, but being that anxiety is a state of arousal it's more then likely you would cum to quick from it. There is really so many factors that one time of that happening is just not enough evidence to say anything for sure. If I was a dr I would now write you a prescription for more sex :p
On pulling out it doesn't work that well if you trying not to get a girl pregnant.
Planned parenthood says:
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[*]Of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawal, 4 will become pregnant each year if they [B]always[/B] do it correctly.
[*]Of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawal, 27 will become pregnant each year if they [B]don't always[/B] do it correctly.
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Even if a man pulls out in time, pregnancy can still happen. Some experts believe that [URL="http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/glossary-4338.htm#p"]pre-ejaculate[/URL], or pre-cum, can pick up enough sperm left in the urethra from a previous ejaculation to cause pregnancy. If a man urinates between ejaculations before having sex again, it will help clear the urethra of sperm and may increase the effectiveness of withdrawal.
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