Rant

[Guest]

ok here i am wannna be PUA

Two weeks ago I met this chic I had laid game on (years before I knew about the game, about three years ago). She insisted on exchanging numbers (she's an 8) she dials her number on my phone and calls her phone.....

Later on she sends me a text "It was a real surprise meeting. I never thought we would ever meet again."
my response "yeah, it was something bumping into you.why do you say that?"

She responds"Well, rumor had it that you graduated and left for Africa..."
Me "True, I did go back home"
Me "Because I missed my parents and all I the things I grew up with"....stacking somebody's technic on this board.(Btw thanks)
Her "Thats really cool!"
me"whetever"
Me "What have you been upto lately?"
Her "nothing exciting"
Me "I will be the judge of that"
Her "Well, nothing much"
Me "You suck"
Her "LoL I know"
Me "You cant handle me"
Her "Why do you say that?
Me "because you SUCK"
Her "Am hurt"
Me "Poor thing, come for a hug!"
Her "I might do that"
Me "is that a promise or a threat?".....btw favorite line of mine
Her "Promise"
Me "Promise is a debt"
Her "I know...:P"

Fast foward tonight.
We hook up.
Do the mandatory fluff...my job that my job this, my life this my life that....you know what am getting at.
All the while am looking at this 7 who was having a hell of a good time. (We were at a spot in lower Greenvile)...btw mods if a place is mentioned in our post is it a key tag name like, say Lazarus, or whatever will the search engines pick it up? i dont want to advertise spots and stuff...

I digress

HB7 having a good time dancing and stuff.
I am thinking wtf, i like to dance, why am I sitting down?
I stand up and approach HB7 and start dancing. Shes feeling it (I can dance)
We dance about three songs. Then I feel a tap on my shoulders, its HB8, she motions me to dance with her...I act damn and whisper in her ear "i dont understand sign language and proceed to dance with her.

I suggest we change Venues. shes like ok, whatever you say. i say lets go to venue x (once again mods let me know if i state a spot it wont be a key tag)

We walk to venue x, she gets really edgy.
Me "You've changed. Whats up?"
Her "Well, this is the spot where i frequent with the guy i am kinda talking to"
Me "So?" ...though it felt like a spear through my heart
Her " I dont want to do this"
I laid my hand infront of me palms open and told her to place her palms on mine.
Me "It dont matter, me and you are going to have a good time tonight"
Her "ok"

So we go in to venue x and she orders a round of our favorite drinks. Suddenly all this guys start coming to say hi to her and "meet me"
I play it cool and be "the bigger man" and say hi whats up...play nice

at some point i decide i have had it and tell her that shes full of shit because she's allowing "these losers" dictate her moment.

She gets fired up and says "fuck no!"....she as US Army Senior Sergent
Me"prove it"....i realize that this is going on the wrong direction
Me "lets get a drink and enjoy the music. This DJ is freaking awesome!"
Her "I know, cool" and she orders the drink on her.

Long story short. Tonight I had to deal with all this guys who wanted to take me on....like get really physical because I was getting more play from "their girl"...Wtf?

here ends my rant.....For those who stuck with me all through, much love.

As always, I give credit to everybody who takes time to post their thoughts and escapades. I used techniques and lines I have picked up on posts. Keep posting

My rant.....

[Guest]

You kind of projected a "dick-ish" personna! Take that as a compliment. ;-) Its refreshing to see somebody who doesn't put bitches on pedestals.

[Guest]

Yeah, seconded on the dickish tone!

I'm curious. When these guys kept coming over what was the tone of the interaction?

Were they being territorial or friendly? Friends of the guys that she's talking with currently maybe?

[Guest]

Dick-ish....I am flirtered :p

We were posted at the bar and the guys would approach behind her, making sure i saw them and what they were upto.

The tone was more like dont start no shit there wont be no shit.

She sent me a text today...."had fun on friday, sorry about the drama.let me make it up to you"

My reply "yeah you'll get a chance to do that, someday"

My take - I am done. Next.

[Guest]

Damn dude. At least let her make it up to you...

A little fellatio never hurt anyone...unless they used their teeth too much or they yakked in your crotch (both of which happened to me)...

[Guest]

[QUOTE=Cash;33296]
at some point i decide i have had it and tell her that shes full of shit because she's allowing "these losers" dictate her moment.
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here is where you got reactive and let the situation control you. I've been in this kind of situation(posted about it a long time back) as well and didn't play it right, but learned from it and grew.

There will always be other dudes in one form or another to deal with if you are with an attractive women. Need to analyze how you could have better controlled the frame through all of this.

don't understand why you next-ed her especially when she was reopening you....??

[Guest]

[QUOTE=UncleHOwie;33304]You kind of projected a "dick-ish" personna! Take that as a compliment. ;-) Its refreshing to see somebody who doesn't put bitches on pedestals.[/QUOTE]

word. word. word.
i think less pedastol placing may be the key to pu