Online Girl can't meetup till she is "comfortable" in her school

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Well... I pursued the stupid hooker AND...


DA DA DA DAAAA!!!!!
Lesson learned! :p

One good thing did come from this though... her friend "with the phone" has been texting me ever since I stopped texting the original girl and now she is obsessed with texting me and getting all needy and shit. Too bad she is not hot(I saw on her myspace). You guys never seem to be wrong lol.

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[QUOTE=Urban Legend;32864]Well... I pursued the stupid hooker AND...


DA DA DA DAAAA!!!!!
Lesson learned! :p

One good thing did come from this though... her friend "with the phone" has been texting me ever since I stopped texting the original girl and now she is obsessed with texting me and getting all needy and shit. Too bad she is not hot(I saw on her myspace). You guys never seem to be wrong lol.[/QUOTE]

The only way to get good is to make mistakes and learn from them. Hopefully you can take at least one thing from this and use it with the next girl.

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[QUOTE=Urban Legend;32864]
One good thing did come from this though... her friend "with the phone" has been texting me ever since I stopped texting the original girl and now she is obsessed with texting me and getting all needy and shit. Too bad she is not hot(I saw on her myspace). [/QUOTE]

In what alternate universe is that a good thing?

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[QUOTE=Urban Legend;32864]Well... I pursued the stupid hooker AND...


DA DA DA DAAAA!!!!!
Lesson learned! :p

One good thing did come from this though... her friend "with the phone" has been texting me ever since I stopped texting the original girl and now she is obsessed with texting me and getting all needy and shit. Too bad she is not hot(I saw on her myspace). You guys never seem to be wrong lol.[/QUOTE]

are you going to provide details as to what happened?

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[QUOTE=Lion;32867]In what alternate universe is that a good thing?[/QUOTE]


I know it is nothing to shoot fireworks off about by any means, but what can I say, I am an attention whore and am loving the attention!

Prodigy, here is what happened:
Basically I continued texting her, she was on her friends phone still, and everything was going great. Then it was time for her to leave her friend. I get her email and she says she is going to make another myspace within the next couple of days. I tell her I will email her my myspace info. I wait a day. I email her. Her friend starts to text me to get to know me, so I play nice and text back. I try and milk her friend for information on my target and her friend ends up telling me that my target "likes to play guys". She says that my target is definitely a player and that she thinks that my target was just playing me. After I hear this I am thinking "...hmmm...this is ringing a bell..." lol.

That's pretty much it. I wait a couple of days... still no email back from her and then her friend tells me that my target says that she is not going to create a myspace after all. I continue talking to her friend and it seems that I have major attraction built with her because I am not interested. Isn't it funny how girls work that way? :rolleyes:

Girls are SO damn complicated!!!

[Guest]

[QUOTE=Urban Legend;32876]I know it is nothing to shoot fireworks off about by any means, but what can I say, I am an attention whore and am loving the attention!

Prodigy, here is what happened:
Basically I continued texting her, she was on her friends phone still, and everything was going great. Then it was time for her to leave her friend. I get her email and she says she is going to make another myspace within the next couple of days. I tell her I will email her my myspace info. I wait a day. I email her. Her friend starts to text me to get to know me, so I play nice and text back. I try and milk her friend for information on my target and her friend ends up telling me that my target "likes to play guys". She says that my target is definitely a player and that she thinks that my target was just playing me. After I hear this I am thinking "...hmmm...this is ringing a bell..." lol.

That's pretty much it. I wait a couple of days... still no email back from her and then her friend tells me that my target says that she is not going to create a myspace after all. I continue talking to her friend and it seems that I have major attraction built with her because I am not interested. Isn't it funny how girls work that way? :rolleyes:

Girls are SO damn complicated!!![/QUOTE]


No man, women are easy. They truly are simple creatures once you understand how they think...err...think is a bad word here. They don't really *think* in a rational way a man does, instead, women feel. They make decisions based off of their emotions...rational thought is always superceded by emtional connections.

The reason the other girl is attracted to you, besides the fact that she's probably one of those women that latch onto men because they are unattractive, fat, have low value, or all of the above, is because she senses that you are not attracted to her. By playing along with the ug, what you should be able to learn is how to interact with a woman within the confines of being indifferent. IMO, I think she is attracted to you precisely because you have created an aura of unattainability. You need to realize that people, all people, typically want what they don't have.

The first girl had you, so therefore she didn't want you. The second girl does not have you, therefore she wants you.

It seems to defy all logic that women are this way, but the way I think about it is like this: how does girl number 2 make you feel? What do you think of her as a person? I would guess that she makes you feel awesome because she's dumping tons of attention on you...all humans love attention. So, you're willing to play along as long as you get said attention. But, you lack respect for her because she is dumping all of this attention on you before you have earned it from her. So, you think of her as sad and pathetic for having given so much of herself to a stranger.

Now, turn the tables and this is exactly what girl number one was thinking about you.

UL, I'm going to give you some golden advice from a man that has been through this shit. Stop reading. Understand that PU is simple. I'm not active any longer but I understand exactly the kind of game I run. And, you know what? I only utilize a handful of our glorious tactics. Shit, most good PUAs that I've sarged with do the same. What you need to do is whittle down your game to include only a handful of things that make you feel comfortable doing, that you're good at, and that are congruent to your personality. I understand that all of the above is easier said than done, but I promise that if you stop studying and focus 100% on just doing then you're going to figure it out over time.

This entire ordeal should have taught you a ton of lessons. Go back through this thread, re-read every single post. And write down the places where you went wrong and how you could have either made a better decision OR fixed your error. It's time for you to study yourself, not someone else's bullshit tactics.

Good day sir.

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[QUOTE=Bull Run;32878]No man, women are easy. They truly are simple creatures once you understand how they think...err...think is a bad word here. They don't really *think* in a rational way a man does, instead, women feel. They make decisions based off of their emotions...rational thought is always superceded by emtional connections.

The reason the other girl is attracted to you, besides the fact that she's probably one of those women that latch onto men because they are unattractive, fat, have low value, or all of the above, is because she senses that you are not attracted to her. By playing along with the ug, what you should be able to learn is how to interact with a woman within the confines of being indifferent. IMO, I think she is attracted to you precisely because you have created an aura of unattainability. You need to realize that people, all people, typically want what they don't have.

The first girl had you, so therefore she didn't want you. The second girl does not have you, therefore she wants you.

It seems to defy all logic that women are this way, but the way I think about it is like this: how does girl number 2 make you feel? What do you think of her as a person? I would guess that she makes you feel awesome because she's dumping tons of attention on you...all humans love attention. So, you're willing to play along as long as you get said attention. But, you lack respect for her because she is dumping all of this attention on you before you have earned it from her. So, you think of her as sad and pathetic for having given so much of herself to a stranger.

Now, turn the tables and this is exactly what girl number one was thinking about you.

UL, I'm going to give you some golden advice from a man that has been through this shit. Stop reading. Understand that PU is simple. I'm not active any longer but I understand exactly the kind of game I run. And, you know what? I only utilize a handful of our glorious tactics. Shit, most good PUAs that I've sarged with do the same. What you need to do is whittle down your game to include only a handful of things that make you feel comfortable doing, that you're good at, and that are congruent to your personality. I understand that all of the above is easier said than done, but I promise that if you stop studying and focus 100% on just doing then you're going to figure it out over time.

This entire ordeal should have taught you a ton of lessons. Go back through this thread, re-read every single post. And write down the places where you went wrong and how you could have either made a better decision OR fixed your error. It's time for you to study yourself, not someone else's bullshit tactics.

Good day sir.[/QUOTE]

solid post.

definitely true about how women make decisions...and that having a foundation of several effective tactics is better than a garbage full of "tricks"

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[QUOTE=Bull Run;32878]No man, women are easy. They truly are simple creatures once you understand how they think...err...think is a bad word here. They don't really *think* in a rational way a man does, instead, women feel. They make decisions based off of their emotions...rational thought is always superceded by emtional connections.

The reason the other girl is attracted to you, besides the fact that she's probably one of those women that latch onto men because they are unattractive, fat, have low value, or all of the above, is because she senses that you are not attracted to her. By playing along with the ug, what you should be able to learn is how to interact with a woman within the confines of being indifferent. IMO, I think she is attracted to you precisely because you have created an aura of unattainability. You need to realize that people, all people, typically want what they don't have.

The first girl had you, so therefore she didn't want you. The second girl does not have you, therefore she wants you.

It seems to defy all logic that women are this way, but the way I think about it is like this: how does girl number 2 make you feel? What do you think of her as a person? I would guess that she makes you feel awesome because she's dumping tons of attention on you...all humans love attention. So, you're willing to play along as long as you get said attention. But, you lack respect for her because she is dumping all of this attention on you before you have earned it from her. So, you think of her as sad and pathetic for having given so much of herself to a stranger.

Now, turn the tables and this is exactly what girl number one was thinking about you.

UL, I'm going to give you some golden advice from a man that has been through this shit. Stop reading. Understand that PU is simple. I'm not active any longer but I understand exactly the kind of game I run. And, you know what? I only utilize a handful of our glorious tactics. Shit, most good PUAs that I've sarged with do the same. What you need to do is whittle down your game to include only a handful of things that make you feel comfortable doing, that you're good at, and that are congruent to your personality. I understand that all of the above is easier said than done, but I promise that if you stop studying and focus 100% on just doing then you're going to figure it out over time.

This entire ordeal should have taught you a ton of lessons. Go back through this thread, re-read every single post. And write down the places where you went wrong and how you could have either made a better decision OR fixed your error. It's time for you to study yourself, not someone else's bullshit tactics.

Good day sir.[/QUOTE]





Great post BR. I appreciate your advice.

Sweet Pure told me months ago that you told him to stop reading and everything, and I followed the advice. I stopped reading like half a yr ago. I have not been actively sarging though(SHAME!).

The main thing I don't understand is how do I show disinterest in a hb the same way I am with this ug and still show enough interest at the same time to get her? Like if I act completely disinterested won't it push her away?

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I agree with lion. At this point you should only be saying things that raise your value not things that make you look like you have nothing but free time and you wait around for her to be ready to meet you. The next time you text her tell her you will be hanging out with some friends near where she lives and DON'T INVITE HER. Make her qualify and invest in you a little more. Truth is you might already be in the friend zone.