Dilemma Advice...

[Pr0wler]

Now I want to preface this dilemma with the fact that i've handled just about all of the other situations i've been through. This particular one has gotten me all thrown into almost afc territory. I could really use the help...



A new girl at my job has been showing increasing interest in me. We would hang out and really started to dig each other. I got her number and sent her a cute little text after she left work that day. She responds as most girls would and e-giggles or whatever and asks a random question. Soon after that text she sends me another stating she has a boyfriend and that it probably wouldn't matter to me or anything. I sent a rather playful, yet well crafted little message stating that if I liked her, she would know it. Her reply to it threw me off. She sends another message saying that its not me falling for her... (implying the other way around). I wasn't quite sure how to respond to this, but ended up calling and discussing... Its clear she wants to be really really good friends, and that it wont be wierd. That all happened yesterday; today rolls around and shes as playful as ever. She hangs on every word and stares deeply into my eyes when we talk. Its the craziest looking thing. I obviously know she likes me and I find myself liking her a lot. We've not hung out together outside of work, but she really wants to from what she tells me...

Any ideas or advice or anything regarding this problem would really be appreciated?

[Sage]

date her?

[quipster]

I do not understand the problem. It is okay to show interest in a women. You need to show that if something happens you can pick up another chick whenever you want. Just dont be needy and clingy.

-quip

[Twitchy]

She is showing interest....she has mentioned the boyfriend which is an excuse to take away responsibility from her, shy has implied interest in you...

This is simple, she is wanting you to lead. She is obvious not happy in her relationship and attracted to you. So lead her to you.

Move slowly but continue to progress. Turn text messages into IMing. Turn IMing into phone calls. Turn phone calls into happy hours or lunch. This will then progress to what you want.

Trust me, it works. I have now had relationships with 9 different coworkers. It is a great place to build on attraction.

She has put herself out there. Use her invitation and take the lead.

[BluesCluesPUA]

And hurry, the longer you wait the harder it's gonna get. She's obviously interested, so just go for it.

[Pr0wler]

I don't really know whats psychin me out... I think a much needed night of sleep has cleared me of the doubt that i had last night. Thanks for all the advice...