Anyone used social dancing to get women?

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I like Salsa the best (Mambo) because girls find it soooo sexy. I joined the Ballroom Dance Club at my school and learned different dance moves like salsa, disco, some other moves and just incorporated them all when I go out.

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i wanna lrn hip hop dancing
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sorry, but i cant picture you hip hop dancing...AHAHA! thatd be so awesome if you could though.

i would love to learn how to salsa/ballroom dance as well...ladies love a man who can dance (or has the balls to at least try).

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I thought you guys would be interested in an update on what I've been up to with the social dance game : This is more like a FR, though.

Through trial and error, I've now identified the best venues/events around town. Got a dance partner (better to have a dance partner if you want to practice outside classes and accelerate your learning). Soon after becoming partners, we started having sex (dancing is pure kino!!). Hopefully one of many MLTRs to come. Usually I'd be making classical AFC mistakes at this point - being needy, etc - but not this time. I just be with her when I want to and tell her I won't see her tonight when I don't. Women seem to really dig an aloof man who just doesn't give a fuck and nothing is a big deal. In my AFC days I wouldn't be able to contain my enthusiasm, which eventually would lower my value and I 'd end up losing the chick. This time she is eating out of my hand.

I was a bit concerned that she might have more in her mind about "us" than just being sex/dance partners. So I had to ignore her when she addressed me as "sweetie" one time. She only made this mistake once and seems to have understood that I wasn't gonna reciprocate, and didn't really bring it up again. It worked so far.

Here's the twist... Just when I'm having these thoughts about what I need to do to keep her without any kind of commitment and add other women to my harem, this past weekend she hits me with this shocker. Basically she asked if I'd be okay if she brought random chicks to have 3somes with. She added that her only rule is that I can't fuck 'em 'cuz "I'd be too jealous". Apparently, she is a lez-turned-straight-turned-bi. So she is more bad-ass than I gave her credit for. Needless to say I am more than okay with this but I contained my enthusiasm and acted like it's no big deal. Asked her if she had some girls in mind. She said she did know some girls who'd be interested but she'd rather find someone anonymous.

Anyways, I guess sometimes instead of the PUA adding the girl to his harem, she turns the tables on him and basically makes him her man-bitch. Go figure...
-FP

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Good to hear from you! I'm glad everything is going well for you.

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[quote1242744961=frogprince]Here's the twist... Just when I'm having these thoughts about what I need to do to keep her without any kind of commitment and add other women to my harem, this past weekend she hits me with this shocker. Basically she asked if I'd be okay if she brought random chicks to have 3somes with. She added that her only rule is that I can't fuck 'em 'cuz "I'd be too jealous". Apparently, she is a lez-turned-straight-turned-bi. So she is more bad-ass than I gave her credit for. Needless to say I am more than okay with this but I contained my enthusiasm and acted like it's no big deal. Asked her if she had some girls in mind. She said she did know some girls who'd be interested but she'd rather find someone anonymous.[/quote1242744961]


This is awesome! Congrats! Being with a girl that likes other girls is so much fun. I've found that when they like other girls they're more like a dude in a lot aspects which basically means that they are less of a pain in the ass than most other women. Let's face it, ALL women are a pain and MOST aren't worth the trouble.

Anyway, be careful about this though:

"I'd be too jealous"

On the one hand, I think that if she didn't have feelings for you, she wouldn't have ever said this. On the other, it could simply be a normal girl thing to say...you know, they say you can't fuck them so that when you do (in a threesome it's pretty well inevitable) it's not her fault, it's your fault because she told you that you couldn't.

This is a fine line. One could argue that the entire introduction of the threesome thing is her way of trying to lure you in. I am not in a place to comment on what she's really after, just remember that women (even the cool ones) are manipulative...just because you're no longer an AFC doesn't mean that they stop trying to trick men into things.

Good to hear you're doing well.

[Guest]

Good to hear man...you living the dream....would like to learn more bout these dance venues you've narrowed down...

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nice post FP!! ive always assumed that knowing how to dance is a BIG key with success with women...i mean sure theres obvious ways to get attraction from women without dancing but there is NOTHING like dancing salsa with a girl sprinkled with some push-pull/banter....think about all that pure kino that is involved...in 2007 when i was in Dubai, I was at this hotel that had this little salsa club in there, so the people i was with and I went to go check it out...and it was POPPIN!!! and guess who was dancing salsa with acouple of HB11s???...........old-ugly muslim and Indian guys!! these girls were ALLL OVER these guys when salsa dancing!! but once the music stopped they just stood there and ran NO game whatsoever and blew it with them..so if you can fucking dance GOOD and you are alittle bit compitent when it comes to game..you WILL succeed with women for sure....also learning an instrument is an amazing trait as well..both skills i wanna start learning soon so ill definitely hit you up one day FP to start learning some salsa!!

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awesome job FP!! its good to hear bout success stories thanks to the game...

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Thanks guys... I view the dance game as pretty much untapped so far. It's also something that works well after pick-up stage. When you run out of things to say, you pull her on the dance floor. Basically dancing involves a lot of the attributes you want to communicate to the girl - kino, social-value, alpha qualities, fun, entertaining... If the girl doesn't know how to dance, it's even better. In that case, it could even be considered as a form of neg as the girl - not matter how hot - will not be able to help but feel a bit inadequate/inferior and slightly ignored when you're dancing with other chicks (which is completely acceptable because this is social dancing).

Anyways I'll report back soon. I don't mind winging anyone if you want to get started. Send me a PM.

FP