The Power of Anchoring

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[b]Anchors are stimuli that call forth states of mind - thoughts and emotions.[/b]


To get this started I want to state that I do not know how to anchor... yet.

When I am in a social setting, such as school, work (but not so much work), eating at the mall, library, or even at home, and nothing particular has my attention, I try to observe the things around me and see how people are reacting and how I am reacting and relate that to pick up. I just find it fun, and it could come to benefit me one day. Who knows.
Today I was in class and sitting next to this girl I always sit next to, Hb8 I would never have had the balls to sit next to her w/o the community, and I smelled something familiar coming from her direction.
Warm Vanilla Sugar from Bath and Body Works.
The reason I know this scent is because my ex, and oneitis, used to wear this crap all the time.
The reason I am telling you this is because I was just sitting in class and this one scent reminded me of my ex and brought back lots of memories of the times I spent with her.
I was not thinking of her previously, nor have I for a while.
It was this scent, this anchor that brought her into my mind.
After I had these thoughts of my ex I realised that this is anchoring.
Then I realised the power of it.
I thought if I could get a girl to get this thoughts of me when she is admitted(not the right word, but I cannot think of the right word) to a certain stimuli then it would be money.
Like my ex owned my thoughts when I smelled this scent.
I even tried staring at my neighboring class mates tits for a couple of seconds and that didn't get my ex out of my mind.
I think this form of anchoring is definitely a more natural way of anchoring because it is applied through repetition of seeing the person and associating them with this stimuli.
I am no expert on NLP, but I do believe if you limit using it it is not a bad thing.
I don't want to be or suggest you be like Ross Jeffries, but you can take some of his material such as anchoring and use it.
I just thought I would share this experience with you all.
What are your thoughts on anchoring?

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yea the ability to anchor is amazing. you can literally take a girl on a rollercoaster of emostions with scent(s) and taste. i feel that this is best used for day 2 and beyond. you can set the anchor and bring out that emotion at a future date...

heres a good example of anchoring, though i have never field tested it.

compliment her 2 times and each time you compliment her, touch her forearm. "you have a beautiful smile" touch her on the forearm. "youre amazing" touch her on the forearm.

the third time, you ask for her number or to dance (or any other hoop) and you touch her on the forearm. she associates this touch to something positive (the compliments youve been feeding her) and she is more likely to comply to your hoop...

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yea the ability to anchor is amazing. you can literally take a girl on a rollercoaster of emostions with scent(s) and taste. i feel that this is best used for day 2 and beyond. you can set the anchor and bring out that emotion at a future date...

heres a good example of anchoring, though i have never field tested it.

compliment her 2 times and each time you compliment her, touch her forearm. "you have a beautiful smile" touch her on the forearm. "youre amazing" touch her on the forearm.

the third time, you ask for her number or to dance (or any other hoop) and you touch her on the forearm. she associates this touch to something positive (the compliments youve been feeding her) and she is more likely to comply to your hoop...


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never heard of that.
Sounds like a really easy one to try in day game. I will try it tomorrow.

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please use paragraphs and group your thoughts. i beg of you. Even before the OT post, half the time i skip over your posts because of your writing style, i'm sure i'm not the only one.

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please use paragraphs and group your thoughts. i beg of you. Even before the OT post, half the time i skip over your posts because of your writing style, i'm sure i'm not the only one.
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Yes sir. Will do.

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Now go clean your room

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This is actually a VERY interesting topic, because there is much more to anchoring than a little kino. You can anchor with ideas as well.

For instance, you can, by telling a proper story, create an anchor to an action she performs every day, or an object that she'll see every day, so that when she performs this action, or sees this object, her mind instantly goes back to how she felt while you were telling the story, and thus, she thinks about you all the time. Think brushing teeth, stopped at a red light, opening a locked door...

"You know, sometimes when I get stressed out driving, like when I'm stuck at a red light when I'm late for work or something, I use this kind of zen meditation exercise, I take a deep breath, and as I exhale, I just focus all my mental attention on the first pleasant thing that pops into my head. It sounds funny, but it kind of breaks my mood and helps me calm down. I'm fascinated by meditation and things like that. Do you meditate or do yoga?"

Now, hopefully, that "pleasant thing" will be YOU most of the time! But, even if it isn't, she can't try this little exercise herself with out at least thinking about you a little bit. It also leads you into a conversation about zen stuff, which is always a chic pleasing topic. it's also a dhv. I mean, how many guys really practice zen?

Oh, and that relaxation exercise is real btw, I actually use it, and it works.