I am currently seeing this girl that wants to be in charge of our relationship. I will not stand for the submissive role in a relationship so I'm trying to get as much power as possible.
The girl tells me that her mom nags her dad all the time and that her father is really passive. So I figure she wants the same thing with a boyfriend and this is why she wants a dominant role. Furthermore, her fantasy is to tie down the guy and be ultra dominant. Scary right? haha I'm not down for this at all. I like to be in charge and I love submissive girls. And I don't just mean in the bedroom. If I can't get a substantual amount of power over her then I have to bail.
I figure that the reason she is doing controlling things is because she thinks that she has me already(not true). She is no longer trying to please me. So one way to solve this problem is to act uninterested in her and blow her off a bit. right? comments please....
Another way to possibly solve this problem is to up the negs. thoughts?
Banging the hell out of her might do the trick as well. I just started sleeping with her and she still hasn't adjusted to my size so we haven't been able to really go at it.
This girl obviously wants a passive guy like her father so maybe I should just let this girl go. This option is a last resort and I really want to know how to get more power so I can salvage this relationship.
