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Postby Guest » Sun Mar 29, 2009 4:03 pm

you might as well have just texted, "want some dick?"
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Postby Guest » Sun Mar 29, 2009 5:42 pm

lol
well she ended up texting me earlier today
just at like 430
I told her I was out shopping and asked her to go to starbucks with me
she said "Lol. I look really bad today"
then I said "Its ok, I look good enough for the both of us :)"
She said "You're too cocky"
I said "Sorry. I just feel really good about myself today. It's such a beautiful day out. Are you having a good day?"
No response
So I think from now on, if she doesnt respond, I will not respond but could someone tell me what this means in girl talk:
"Lol. I look bad today."
and
"You're too cocky"
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Postby Guest » Sun Mar 29, 2009 5:50 pm

She was fishing for a compliment and you complimented yourself instead.
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Postby Guest » Sun Mar 29, 2009 6:26 pm

damn
i am more lost then i thought lol
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Postby Guest » Sun Mar 29, 2009 6:55 pm

lol I like the response he gave.

He wussed out on the test though, but I thought it was good.

"You're too cocky"

and in the words of Kid Rock, "It ain't braggin mothafucka if you back it up."

I would have replied to her with "It ain't braggin if you back it up." (send sexy pic) (ignore)

It's supposed to be funny, if she doesn't understand then fuck her.
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Postby Guest » Mon Mar 30, 2009 1:00 am

Alright. I am just going to assume this girl is interested.
She is still texting me, it just takes a long time for her to text back, but she's hot so that makes sense.
I need to stop being so needy.
I am going to try and day 2 (or day 1) her as quick as possible.
I appreciate you guys helping me even tho I am helpless lol
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Postby Guest » Mon Mar 30, 2009 1:13 am

Mirror the time it takes her to respond when you respond. Everything you send doesn't have to be out of the cocky/funny playbook. You're wanting to take her on an emotional roller coaster, not beat her over the head with your self-flattering statements (especially when they aren't congruent with your actions...read: needy texting habits.) Slow down and take some time. You don't need to rush in to pushing for the Day 2. She's gonna feel the pressure this "cocky" guy is putting on her to meet and either run away, or put up more resistance than you can handle.
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Postby Guest » Mon Mar 30, 2009 1:23 am

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Mirror the time it takes her to respond when you respond. Everything you send doesn't have to be out of the cocky/funny playbook. You're wanting to take her on an emotional roller coaster, not beat her over the head with your self-flattering statements (especially when they aren't congruent with your actions...read: needy texting habits.) Slow down and take some time. You don't need to rush in to pushing for the Day 2. She's gonna feel the pressure this "cocky" guy is putting on her to meet and either run away, or put up more resistance than you can handle.
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chyes
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Postby Guest » Mon Mar 30, 2009 9:20 pm

Alright.
So I am pretty sure I owned our texting convo today.
About 430 I text her "Hey cutie :) How are you doing today?"
She texts "Lol im good. You?"
I text "I feel like a million bucks today! Except I hate that analogy but its all I could think of! lol. What's up? :)"
She texts "I'm not gonna lie you're weird lol"
I was just making a joke, I didnt think it was weird lol
I text " Then don't lie, it's one of my pet peeves! You like that I'm weird, it interests you!"
She texts "Yep. You're definitely strange"
I dont know why she is calling me weird but w/e
I text "I prefer unique in an awesome way, so let's call it that ok? :) So what's up? :)"
She texts "How old are you??"
I text "Nineteen...why?"
She texts "You don't act it"
This kinda pissed me off momentarily. I don't know where I was acting like a child, but w/e.
I text and I am very proud of this text, I was going to call her out and imply that she is being a bitch, but that wouldnt help me. So yeah ;)
Anyways I text "You're right. I'm much too fun and exciting :) but here ya go: I have so much humanities homework to do tonight it's ridiculous. Lol. There that sounds like a 19 yr old to me. What's up? :)"
She texts "Lol. That sounds a little more like one. Lol. I'm driving home, you?"
BAM!
GOT EM COACH!
:)
I text "I'm at work! We're really dead up here! Did I mention I love my job? :) what exciting things are you doing tonight?"
I kinda messed up on the last text
but w/e
She didnt text back
its cool
I didnt text her either
I feel if I continue like this for all of my texting convos I will do good
:)
what do you guys think?
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Postby Guest » Mon Mar 30, 2009 9:58 pm

I think you should stop asking her, "what she's doing" "where shes at" "what are you up too" "whats up" "how are you doing"

It's boring and mundane. Like someone else said previously, people look for better things than what they are already doing or about to do.


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