Field Report(if thats what you could call this...)

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Do this:

Sit back and chill for one second.

You sent her a text and she responded...this is good.

She said she was feeling bad. Sounds like she started her period. Some girls cramp super bad their first day. She felt like shit you are lucky she texted back at all.

Make sure you never get needy. If you think you are feeling needy turn your phone off. The worst thing you can do is continually text the girl over and over. Yes she could be busy. She could be sleeping. She could be watching a movie. She could be doing a million things that keep her from texting back right away. She might even just not be inclined to answer. I unfortunately do it all the time with people who don't have enough value built up with me. I feel bad about it but I get busy and then bam a day went by and I forgot about the text. I can't just all the sudden respond to that text a day later. Most of the time that would be odd.

I say just wait a while and do nothing.

She might send you a text.

She might not.

Just wait a day or two and send her something. I am no text genius but I would try to keep things playful.

I can't tell you how many times I have simply used: HI as my text opener. Even with girls I have not slept with or even taken out yet.

Most importantly chill.

And second go meet some more girls. It helps big time when you have many options. Neediness pretty much dissapears.

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[quote1238251470=Urban Legend]

BTW, lesson learned on the picture thing.
Sorry I was just excited.

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pic is still available dude.

keep texts fun and just banter. Launching into conversational topics via text is painful for people that have other stuff going on in their life and you are much less likely to get a response.

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i dont mind pics, pics are cool i think just maybe not so good an idea in the general area of course on the off chance this broad actually does check this forum, she would have to probably do a search for "random text" or search for something you said to her, and quite frankly most women just dont care to go that far for someone they dont know or dont really care to know. only happens when they are head over heels for you, and/or stalking you. it does a man good to "brag" every once in a while, be proud of your accomplishments. especially now in your primary pua growth phase.

matter of fact do this, post 3 pictures of you with at least 3 different women. its an awesome goal that gets you social, and youll have something else on you mind besides fucking them, baby steps. do this first.

when they say their stomach hurts i like to say something like "like preggers hurt or im having a woman moment hurt" and then no matter what they say tie it back to being pregnant. (but not fat) the cute kind of pregnant where they have the glow and they feel all warm and fuzzy, then take it away. woman+babies=sexy time

i used to get like that where i would want to keep texting and texting, regardless or worse, call, what helped was leaving my phone at the house, or in the car a couple of days throughout the week, i found it was easier to control the urge to be "needy". sometimes now i check the message and dont respond, mostly because im lazy, but somewhat because, to an extent, thats an attractive quality to women, non-neediness. let me know how it works for you. /frame

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[quote1238258055=Finesse]
i dont mind pics, pics are cool i think just maybe not so good an idea in the general area of course on the off chance this broad actually does check this forum, she would have to probably do a search for "random text" or search for something you said to her, and quite frankly most women just dont care to go that far for someone they dont know or dont really care to know. only happens when they are head over heels for you, and/or stalking you. it does a man good to "brag" every once in a while, be proud of your accomplishments. especially now in your primary pua growth phase.

matter of fact do this, post 3 pictures of you with at least 3 different women. its an awesome goal that gets you social, and youll have something else on you mind besides fucking them, baby steps. do this first.[/quote1238258055]


This is forum for picking up chicks, not posting their pics.

Finesse has outlined a great goal. But, leave the pics on FB or MySpace where they belong.

As much as we hate to admit it, women are people too you know.

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so
i think ill text her tomorrow afternoon
def not tonight cause shes a hot girl and its saturday and hbs are busy on saturdays
im wondering wat i should reopen with ttho
i want to open with something thatll make her smile and respond...
any ideas dallaslair?

[Guest]

lol except when they dont act like people...

so we can show off on myspace and fb but its against our morals when we do it on a forum the gets less traffic?

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[quote1238289028=Finesse]
lol except when they dont act like people...

so we can show off on myspace and fb but its against our morals when we do it on a forum the gets less traffic?
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Nice try to reframe the thread. But, traffic has nothing to do with it. Myspace and FB exist for the sole reason to market yourself as an awesome person. Our lair exists so that we can work to become that awesome person.

Keep the pics out of our lair. I will not back down from this...

And, Finesse, I agree that women rarely act human...but, that does not give us license to pass judgement.

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[quote1238290820=Bull Run]

Nice try to reframe the thread. But, traffic has nothing to do with it. Myspace and FB exist for the sole reason to market yourself as an awesome person. Our lair exists so that we can work to become that awesome person.

Keep the pics out of our lair. I will not back down from this...

And, Finesse, I agree that women rarely act human...but, that does not give us license to pass judgement.

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So judging people when they post pictures is ok? Or is this a "do as I say, not as I do" moment?

No framing, just trying to get answers to my questions.

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could ya'll please help me instead of fighting about stupid Crap?
honestly if me or anyone else wants to post pics they'll do it
but it was just a one time thing for me cause i was excited

[Guest]

Ok
So good news and bad news/
Good news is: she texted me tonight.
Bad news is: I am angry at all girls right now

I kept the freeze out going today and then at 8 tonight she texts "Heyy!"
I take this as a big IOI
I text her "Omg so a bunch of girls just came in work and wanted to take a picture with me. Were you one of them?"
Thats a true story.
She texts "Hahahaha no"
I text "Oh. Well they were all wearing Rockwall Heath shirts so I thought maybe you were."
She doesn't text.
Here I wonder if she is just into the normal [i]hello. how are you.[/i] bull shit I text "What's up?"
She texts "About to get off work"
I text "Where do you work?"
She texts "^&$&$&$&#*#"
I text "Thats awesome! What do you do up there?"
She texts "Host. What are you doing tonight?"
I consider this another BIG IOI.
I text "Work right now. Then nothing. You?"
She doesnt text.
I text "What do heath kids do on saturday nights after they get off work? lol"
She doesn't text.
Her last text was at 955.
Here it is 1126 and still no response.
WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU ASK ME WHAT I AM DOING TONIGHT THEN STOP TALKING TO ME?
WTF.
Girls piss me off.
I do not like to get played and it feels as if I am.
I hate it.

Heres my prospective game plan for tomorrow:
Wake up.
Wait a while.
Text her at noon "Hey did I just see you at insertcoolplacehere?"
Here it could go two ways:
1) She texts back the obvious answer "No"
I text her "Oh. Well I just saw this girl that I could have sworn was you. What's up?"
She will text back something.
Then I want to try to day 2 her tomorrow but do not know what to say.
And I really need someones help on this.
2) She doesn't text back. I get pissed off again. I stop texting her for good tomorrow. Wait a week or so and text her again.


Good game plan? Bad game plan?
I kinda want to call her right now and ask her whats up...but idk.
I really need help guys.
I really appreciate it.