yeah, so I was chatting on Okcupid and get this random msg "Hey, do you have a big, black cock?" this is not the first time I got this question (and similar questions) and because of the stereotype, It's not going to be the last time. I find myself not really knowing what my response should be, I'd think to say "HELL YES! it's a 9-footer~" but that's kind of a generic answer...ask any guy that, and that's the most likely response. this last time went the other way with it and said: "Nope sorry, it's only a 2 incher" I'm sure you guys get hit with it a lot too...one time a chick actually grabbed for it...
Advice??
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by Guest » Fri Mar 13, 2009 10:19 pm
Usually I say something like:
"I'm part black...guess which part..."
Obviously this won't work for you.
Try something like:
"Forget big and black...it tastes like chocolate."
"It is black, it is big, but it's not yours without the proper donation...btw, I work for booze."
"Hmmm...let's see if you can say that with your mouth full :O"
"I'm part black...guess which part..."
Obviously this won't work for you.
Try something like:
"Forget big and black...it tastes like chocolate."
"It is black, it is big, but it's not yours without the proper donation...btw, I work for booze."
"Hmmm...let's see if you can say that with your mouth full :O"
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by Guest » Sat Mar 14, 2009 8:02 pm
"Who are you"
Or something equally screening.
Don't buy into their frame, you should be the one to introduce the sexual frame OR the female can but only after initial contact has already been made.
For god's sake be selective man, just because the first thing a woman says to you is sexual, doesn't mean you have to jump on it like a monkey on a banana. Just keep in mind that she is already down to get down and start with qualifying.
Later throw some sexual innuendos into the conversation to get it flowing again. You may lose the whores that just wanna get laid and don't care by who, but then again are you really that desperate? When you re-introduce the sexual theme back in, that would be a good time to address her original question, not only is it built in multi-threading but you are also showing pre-selection by indicating that you don't have to jump on her offer to go sexual, you are showing dominance and control over your sexual desires which is supremely attractive to women as it allows them to be all over the map sexual and you'll still be ok with it so they can feel sexual around you AND be sexual. So while you're screening you are demonstrating that you are no scmuck and know you're way around the bedroom, AND that you're safe and stable as well as sexual when the time comes.
Just my 2-cents. You do what you want though.
Or something equally screening.
Don't buy into their frame, you should be the one to introduce the sexual frame OR the female can but only after initial contact has already been made.
For god's sake be selective man, just because the first thing a woman says to you is sexual, doesn't mean you have to jump on it like a monkey on a banana. Just keep in mind that she is already down to get down and start with qualifying.
Later throw some sexual innuendos into the conversation to get it flowing again. You may lose the whores that just wanna get laid and don't care by who, but then again are you really that desperate? When you re-introduce the sexual theme back in, that would be a good time to address her original question, not only is it built in multi-threading but you are also showing pre-selection by indicating that you don't have to jump on her offer to go sexual, you are showing dominance and control over your sexual desires which is supremely attractive to women as it allows them to be all over the map sexual and you'll still be ok with it so they can feel sexual around you AND be sexual. So while you're screening you are demonstrating that you are no scmuck and know you're way around the bedroom, AND that you're safe and stable as well as sexual when the time comes.
Just my 2-cents. You do what you want though.
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