inconsistency

[Guest]

Hey guys what is goin on?
I have been wrestling with this issue: INCONSISTENCY. One night I go out and it is all glory and lording of the venue. Next night I go out and it is like I cant seem to do anything.
Last week, I went out last wednesday and had a bad ass night, I was approaching and talking to girls and getting very good results. I went out last friday and had an okay night, I felt good but I could not hook the girls. I still made approaches but nothing came out of it. I go out last saturday and I AM ON! I just lorde the hell out of the club that I was in. I felt great and my sets were hooking effortlessly. I go out this wednesday and I bomb great time.

Now I love my bad nights just as much as good nights. My AA is almost completely gone and I have made a tonn of progress lately. But this inconsistent performance is not making things easy for me.My AVERAGE performance is improving but I want to speed things up! How do I go about improving this?

[Guest]

I have the same thing happen to me sometimes. Here's what works for me:

Breathe. If you listen to David Deida (and you should), you know what I mean when I say take a DEEP breath. Do this for a minute or so, and it'll clear your mind, so you get out of your head and into the moment.

Imagine the last time you rocked at something. Whether it was in the club, or doing well at work, or whatever, just relive the last time you were totally the shit. You should get a nice, big, confident grin on your face.

Lastly, remember to go out to have fun, not to get any results. If you go out trying to get 10 kisses or something, you'll have too much pressure on yourself, where if you go out to try something new, or just see what's out there, and it's just about the fun, people will read that and will be much more receptive

I hope that helps!.

[Guest]

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I have the same thing happen to me sometimes. Here's what works for me:

Breathe. If you listen to David Deida (and you should), you know what I mean when I say take a DEEP breath. Do this for a minute or so, and it'll clear your mind, so you get out of your head and into the moment.

Imagine the last time you rocked at something. Whether it was in the club, or doing well at work, or whatever, just relive the last time you were totally the shit. You should get a nice, big, confident grin on your face.

Lastly, remember to go out to have fun, not to get any results. If you go out trying to get 10 kisses or something, you'll have too much pressure on yourself, where if you go out to try something new, or just see what's out there, and it's just about the fun, people will read that and will be much more receptive

I hope that helps!.
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