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by Guest » Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:12 am
unrtunately i have to admit that ter are somethings cant fix with a bootcamp. evrything visual can b helped, but innergame can ake months to years to correct. Botcamps allow you to see how everything should look and feel. they also allow you to anchor the feelings of and associated with success you will experience in that amount of time.
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by Guest » Sun Feb 22, 2009 5:13 pm
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Im the kinda guy who will just stand around watchin his social value drop as time passes unless some1 really pushes me to open a set.
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I no longer believe that standing around not opening sets lowers your value. Last night, I went out, and didn't open a single set. Later, I talked to some girls I already knew, but for like 3 hours I just walked around the club. I caught a fashion show and watched a band, but most of my time I was just walking around looking for some intersting girls. I found none so I opened none, and I didn't build much social proof, as I didn't talk to anyone.
I think what lowers your value is walking around, wanting to talk to girls but not doing it--this is revealed in your body language and subcommunicates lack of confidence. You can stand around all night and not open a single girl, then when one does something that interests you, you an open her without worrying that you've lowered your value by just standing around.
After I spent about 2 hours walking around not talking to anyone, 3 girls walked by, one of which checked me out and made some comment about how hott I was (note: I'm not even hot!)...but I am attractive because I'm unique, confident, and interesting, and that doesn't change if I don't open a girl right away. I didn't even bother talking to her. Looking back on it, I wish I would have, building social proof is always good, and I could have thrown her at the girl I met up with later, to help me build more attraction.
WF
Im the kinda guy who will just stand around watchin his social value drop as time passes unless some1 really pushes me to open a set.
[/quote1235340368]
I no longer believe that standing around not opening sets lowers your value. Last night, I went out, and didn't open a single set. Later, I talked to some girls I already knew, but for like 3 hours I just walked around the club. I caught a fashion show and watched a band, but most of my time I was just walking around looking for some intersting girls. I found none so I opened none, and I didn't build much social proof, as I didn't talk to anyone.
I think what lowers your value is walking around, wanting to talk to girls but not doing it--this is revealed in your body language and subcommunicates lack of confidence. You can stand around all night and not open a single girl, then when one does something that interests you, you an open her without worrying that you've lowered your value by just standing around.
After I spent about 2 hours walking around not talking to anyone, 3 girls walked by, one of which checked me out and made some comment about how hott I was (note: I'm not even hot!)...but I am attractive because I'm unique, confident, and interesting, and that doesn't change if I don't open a girl right away. I didn't even bother talking to her. Looking back on it, I wish I would have, building social proof is always good, and I could have thrown her at the girl I met up with later, to help me build more attraction.
WF
- Guest
by Guest » Sun Feb 22, 2009 11:53 pm
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Im the kinda guy who will just stand around watchin his social value drop as time passes unless some1 really pushes me to open a set.
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I know what you mean! I went to the mall several times by myself and it was tough at first not having anyone motivate me, but I was able to eventually open on my own.
Night game, that is a different issue for me. I went out last Thursday with some friends at Home Bar/Green Elephant, but I didn't open any sets because I didn't get the positive energy I usually get from PUA guys. I am working on that though, trying to be less dependent on PUA guys whenever I do go out for motivation. Just/Us told me I should go to some bar during the week when it is less crowded and talk to people next to me. I hope to eventually have the high energy I usually get when I am with PUA folks on my own. I want to start dancing at whatever venue I am at on my own without having to depend on someone else's motivation.
Im the kinda guy who will just stand around watchin his social value drop as time passes unless some1 really pushes me to open a set.
[/quote1235364310]
I know what you mean! I went to the mall several times by myself and it was tough at first not having anyone motivate me, but I was able to eventually open on my own.
Night game, that is a different issue for me. I went out last Thursday with some friends at Home Bar/Green Elephant, but I didn't open any sets because I didn't get the positive energy I usually get from PUA guys. I am working on that though, trying to be less dependent on PUA guys whenever I do go out for motivation. Just/Us told me I should go to some bar during the week when it is less crowded and talk to people next to me. I hope to eventually have the high energy I usually get when I am with PUA folks on my own. I want to start dancing at whatever venue I am at on my own without having to depend on someone else's motivation.
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