Question

[Guest]

I know there are plenty of great PUA's on the board.
So far I have only met one that I have seen do some amazing things(to the other people I have met, you are either just staring out and learning too or I just didn't see you do much, I am not saying you aren't amazing at PU I am just saying that we need to sarge more :) )


I know most of you prefer night game.
I am working on getting the money to buy a fake so I can do night game with you guys, but there is also the issue of me being 18 but looking young for my age(it is not because of the way I dress, I dress mature enough, it's genetics).


I know it is probably a lot easier to approach girls after having a few drinks and it is probably a lot easier(in some cases) to close girls after they have had a few drinks.
And unless your game is very tight you most likely won't get a sameday lay doing day game, but here are my questions:
Why do the majority of you refrain from doing day game?

In my case, if I was 21, I would be hitting the bars every night I could, and hitting the malls every day possible.
I know one other person that shares this drive, and he is 21+, yet he just recently joined the community also.

Is this just a fire that only "noobs" have?

Or maybe I just don't have a life outside of the community.

Or is everyone truly too busy to day game once a week?


I understand that for some of you schedules might not permit you to be able to day game, but there is 1412 members on the board.
If one hundred of them are active sarging PUA's I don't see it possible for them all to be busy to sarge during the day.


I am truly just wondering and want an honest answer.
No hard feelings about this post.

[Guest]

I handle business and big boy responsibilities during the day, and get to play at night.

What do you think is on the mind of every single woman who goes out on any given night? She is wanting to have fun, be seen, see others (even if its merely window shopping) and to be social. During the day, there could be a whole laundry list of reasons for a woman to not want to converse with a stranger. Not only does it fit my schedule better, but it's more efficient. Night game grants a high success rate per set in my experience and opinion, and just makes more sense to me.

[Guest]

[quote1232918316=Smirks]
I handle business and big boy responsibilities during the day, and get to play at night.

What do you think is on the mind of every single woman who goes out on any given night? She is wanting to have fun, be seen, see others (even if its merely window shopping) and to be social. During the day, there could be a whole laundry list of reasons for a woman to not want to converse with a stranger. Not only does it fit my schedule better, but it's more efficient. Night game grants a high success rate per set in my experience and opinion, and just makes more sense to me.
[/quote1232918316]


I have a few things to say about this:
1. I completely understand if your schedule does not permit.
2. Women might not go out in the day to be social, but one of the main things every guy knows is that women are social beings. Everywhere they go they can be social.
3. As for being seen, everyone wants to be seen, especially girls and girls in particular know that wherever they go they will be seen.
As guys it is not of upmost importance that we look our best wherever we go.
I can wake up and go to Wal Mart or something like that without taking a shower or anything and practically be in the clothes I slept in and be ok with it.
A female would never be caught dead doing that.
Whether they are going to a dance club or a grocery store, they want to look cute, obviously they want to look cuter at the dance club, but they still do not want to be stereotyped as a slob when they go run errands.
4. Having fun. Imagine you are out running your errands, let's say you are picking up some groceries in the dairy section of Wal Mart. Do I want skim or whole milk...hmmm... I guess I will go with whole. Pretty damn boring huh?
Now imagine the same situation but just as you get to deciding on your type of milk a nice, clean, attractive female approaches you and says "hey I was just walking by and I saw you and thought 'woah he is really cute!' amd I could not continue my day without saying hi" all with a big smile. That sounds fun to me.
5. They may have reasons not to talk to a stranger, but what she does not know and what makes you different than everyone else in the store is that you are a pick up artist.
You know just how to attract a woman.
At the end of the day she could be thinking "man I sure had a boring day. but at least I got all my things done" or "I forgot to stop by target and get that shirt I have been wanting for a long time, but I am sooo happy Insertyournamehere talked to me while I was getting milk at Wal Mart! He's such an interesting man; I hope he texts soon!".
6. Next time you are running errands, what do you feel exactly?
Just doing the same boring roiutine you do every day/week/month.
99% of the time girls are feeling the same exact thing.
They are bored.
Brighten her day, and yours by getting her number and an instant date if possible.

[Guest]

First I love your enthusiasm. If you really have this much drive you will do well.

I can pretty much say I never do day game. During the day my mindset is on making money and I rarely even think about approaching.

If I was younger maybe around your age I would do the mall scene all the time. You are have so many girls around your age to game.

So that is where I am coming from personally. I have a feeling when you are my age you will be some successful person in your field of work and see why others don't day game.

[Guest]

[quote1232923208=playercool]
First I love your enthusiasm. If you really have this much drive you will do well.
[/quote1232923208]



You should see how enthusiastic I am in the field
:)
and maybe I am overthinking it
maybe it is just an age thing...

[Guest]

Everything you said in response to me is basically running day game while you're out doing your daily stuff...which is great and it does happen...but my response to you was in regards to doing like scheduled day game...calling up guys and hiking around a mall, amusement park, playground, school yard...whatever you kids do! I just don't have time for it.

[Guest]

[quote1232924577=Smirks]
Everything you said in response to me is basically running day game while you're out doing your daily stuff...which is great and it does happen...but my response to you was in regards to doing like scheduled day game...calling up guys and hiking around a mall, amusement park, playground, school yard...whatever you kids do! I just don't have time for it.
[/quote1232924577]



Actually we game at the local chuck e cheese
lol
kidding of course
I understand you don't have time for scheduled stuff
is that why the other great puas on the board don't day game also?

[Guest]

[quote1232927755=jjdog18]




Actually we game at the local chuck e cheese
lol
kidding of course
I understand you don't have time for scheduled stuff
is that why the other great puas on the board don't day game also?

[/quote1232927755]

Let me start off by saying I prefer daygame myself too. There are more girls around my age and I think the quality is higher, that could just be me though. Anyway, School is the best place I think for girls. Just walk around a college campus and you have hit the jackpot. I also like to go out to malls and hit up random coffee shops and such. I think the reason most guys do night game is that alcohol makes it easier and you can get further in a night. For example, it would be next to impossible to get a snl or something from a day game approach. But the bar/club type of girl will be more inclined for a snl and that sort of thing. My goal is to be efficient in all areas though. So I want to be good in day game and night. I think a lot of people just stick to what they are used to or what works for them and not try and expand their horizons. Of course I need a lot of work myself in all areas, so I can't really be one to talk. After I turned 21 I didn't day game for like a month or so, I loved drinking at the bar and I was just too damn lazy to go out in the day.

And I know solace will disagree with me on this, but I think club game is a uphill battle thats a pain in the ass.

[Guest]

the reason i dont day game is because during the day, i work; its not that im opposed to it. by the time i come home, eat and hit the gym, day turns to night..

not to mention, the mall near where i live is usually dead, or if there are girls present, theyre usually 14-18, sorry but thats not really the age range im after...

[Guest]

[quote1232934861=Smirks]
Everything you said in response to me is basically running day game while you're out doing your daily stuff...which is great and it does happen...but my response to you was in regards to doing like scheduled day game...calling up guys and hiking around a mall, amusement park, playground, school yard...whatever you kids do! I just don't have time for it.
[/quote1232934861]

I agree with smirks, myself, jjdog etc being noobs have more of enthusiasm and need to plan out meets just to be out there and get some hands on...I too work mon-fri (and sometimes weekends), so weekends is the only time I can do this kinda stuff...

As for the seasoned PUA, they dont need to do this shit, its a way of life for them. so lets say they find a girl at the store cute, they would go ahead n approach them....which counts as day game!
Thanks to Matrix for taking out the time to hang out with us and giving us pointers....you the man!

PS: was at NorthPark mall today...actually went there to shop n not sarge...but I did open a hot blonde at the apple store....;)