Some POOR Representation from a Few Lair Guys

[Guest]

Hi Guys this is Matrix , hope you all had a wonderful Holiday, just a general beef with this community , 99% of you are so cool and chill when we go out .But 2 weeks ago I will leave this persons name anonymous but my Wing JERSEY and I were out and about , and a few lair folks joined us.

We started off at Black Friar , BAM two # closes so no call backs, still started the night off right.

Next ON to Aura,, place was lightly packed as it was early, A few SPIN and Ins with an HB some DHV Dance Moves ( Love Me some MJ) however what killed the evening was THIS COMMUNITY guy pulling a drunk 5 and saying HEY MATRIX the girls are over here. Hhahha Nice

If I werent COOL in MY SKIN it would have really POed me .. but thanks to some new found skills ( not where I want to be YET) water off a ducks back.

HOWEVER and this is HUGE.. Please watch how you act to new guys as we are all at different places in our process and a rude comment from a PUA MIGHT forever harm someones enthusiasm with this LIFE Skill.

Thanks to all and END OF RANT.

Your friendly neighborhood MATRIX

[Guest]

I understand where you're coming from, but if you can't handle a harsh comment from a fellow PUA then you're not going to be able to handle rejection from the HB 5 that you can't figure out why she has an issue.

Say what you want to people. Try not to be too cruel, but the way people interpret what you say is THEIR problem, not yours.

[Guest]

maybe i'm missing the back story/pieces to this story or some other tension there, but that's not sounding real harsh. almost sounds as if it was said in jest maybe?

Even if it was NOT said it jest, doesn't sound like it was slamming you??

[Guest]

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but seriously, its important to see how fucked up some people are.

[Guest]

Simple solution: Say your description of this certain PUA is true, DON'T hang out with HIM. Don't go sarging out with him. Judging by your story, I say he is a cock block.

Hang out with fellow PUAs who truely wishes to improve with you. Stay away from the ones that has ulterior motives.

[Guest]

I thought everyone was pretty nice when I first met them. Then again I din't really sarge with them. In any case you can't expect someone to be nice to you just because you're new. if you're gonna be discouraged by a drunk guy talking shit then reexamine your motivation.