concerns

[Guest]

If girls are so easily persuaded to cheat on their boy friends, or even husbands, once you find a girl suitable for an LTR and one that you want to commit to whats to stop her from cheating on you, or can you stop it? I know you cannot be there to stop other guys from picking her up.
It's just my goal is to find someone that meets my expectations for an LTR and though I just recently joined the community this question has been on my mind for some time.
Maybe the answer is as long as your relationship isn't having problems she will stay interested.
I have no idea.

[Guest]

If you stick with this game you will realize that learning this stuff just isn't so you can meet girls.

You will start to realize that this is about so much more than meeting girls.

It is about making yourself a highly desirable individual in all aspects of your life.

Some girls are just destined to cheat. It is who they are. If you continue down this path long enough though you will make yourself someone who is very hard to cheat on.

[Guest]

You can never,ever eliminate chances of her cheating on you, but you can decrease them. Quite frankly I think that there are a lot of answers to this question. Psychologists, sociologists and other professions that are concerned with social dynamics have been wrestling with this question for decades now. I think that if you are a man of high value then she is more likely to stay. I think that there is some general truth to the answer to this question: be fun, be honest, be present in the moment and be a leader. But I think that there is also another part of an answer that each person needs to figure out for him or her self. One thing that I will tell you with confidence is that people are more affected more by their emotions than logic. If you can affect how people feel when they are around you then you are a true player. If will be able to stimulate her emotionally for year and years to come then she will stay with you. It sounds easy on paper though, in reality its a harder to maintain LTR.

[Guest]

For one, wipe the fear out of your mind. Don't make it some kind of self-fulfilling prophecy. If you want a girl to not cheat on you, find yourself one who you can talk to like a best friend and who cares about your feelings.

It's about a 50/50 mix of having the right attitude and finding the right girl.

[Guest]

Well, these guys here have a lot more knowledge than I do. But my thoughts are this. I kinda think its just luck. Women are highly emotional. If they meet someone that makes em feel a certain way, they will dismiss all logic away and will probably cheat. This is called chick logic. She will say it wasn't her fault and rationalize away why she did it. [link=http://www.dallaslair.org/p/forum/forum_viewtopic.php?3018]Check out this link in the cross posted section. [/link] It give one persons perspective on it, and how women kinda cant help but to cheat. It goes to the whole alpha vs beta male thing. If she is with an alpha, she probably won't cheat. But women are always trying to betasize you (subconsciously) and if they manage to do that, they will go find an alpha to cheat with. The reasoning behind this is that if the girl can trap a beta male in a relationship, and get impregnated by the alpha, she gets the good genes from the alpha and makes the beta raise and pay for the child with his money. Its a win win for her in the evolution sense. I seen a study somewhere that like 30% of guys are raising kids that they think are theirs, but really are not because the woman cheated. Now as far as the relationship thing, I think if you are cool and alpha, you shouldn't have a problem. You also have a sort of drive to be emotionally attached to someone. You know how it is, when you have a girlfriend and you are crazy about her and you just love being around her and you get all wrapped up in her and want to be with her. I don't think this ever goes away, even in the book the game, mystery got one-itis for his then girlfriend when she left him. Hmmm, its all so complicated isn't it? Well, that is my thoughts on things. It could be total b.s., but thats the way I see things.

[Guest]

Sounds like monogamy has become some sort of a myth. I mean 60 percent of our personality is determined by our genes. So it would make sense that women base their qualification of our genes based on their emotions. I guess the only thing you can do is just have paternity test when your kids are born. Man Just/Us, you definitely know how to cheer me up.

[Guest]

you'll see comments from the more experienced guys occasionally posted about how the game doesn't end soon as you get in an LTR ...it just begins/changes, it's exactly because of this.

It's your role to always remain alpha, under continual beta-izing attempts during a LTR, so this doesn't happen.

As a side note, that's why it's more important when learning the game to focus on the self improvement aspects that make you more alpha and attractive, so this stuff becomes ingrained, and not worrying about bullshit openers,routines, magic panty dropper openers, magic tricks, and all this tangential bullshit in the community.

None of that does you a bit of good 6 months into the relationship and you find yourself in some beta-izing situation.

[Guest]

I just want to find a girl that [b]i know[/b] for a fact no matter what will not cheat on me.
I've been cheated on before and it sucked gorrila nuts.
I want to know even if the biggest player on Earth or the hottest Hollywood celeb came up and ran some game on my LTR she would know that cheating is a horrible thing and not cheat on me.
I mean if I was in an LTR with her in the first place, obviously she is good enough for me to not cheat on because I selected her to be in a relationship with why cant she respect me enough to not cheat no matter who it is with.

[Guest]

What's so Horrble about cheating anyways? what is it about cheating that rips at your heart? what's so wrong with following through with what feels right? is it because of the preset rule that if one were to cheat it *could* end the relationship and by cheating it's some symbolism that you don't care about the relationship? (that's my best guess) but when you make rules like this doesn't it feel restrictive? like you can't do what you want to do because it's "The Rules". Personally, I'd love to have the relationship with someone that I really connect with. someone who always has my back, and all that jazz, but I'm not sure this exclusivity thing has to be part of the deal. I want to live my life doing whatever I want to do and not following anyone's rules. I would think more people would also like that freedom.

[Guest]

If a girl respects you, she'll never cheat.

To get that respect, you have to have traits of a strong, confident, man that happens to choose to be with her.