Best way to dump someone?

[Guest]

Lets say some girl got your number and you aren't interested and she keeps bothering you.

Or lets say that you went on a day 2 or 3 or whatever and it just doesn't click. Like she is crazy or damaged or whatever. Do you just tell her, ignore her, make some kind of excuse up? What's the best way to get rid of em?

I think the bottom line is I am too nice and need to change that.

[Guest]

i hear that just/us... i just tell them but i don't tell them all the fucked up reasons i don't want to see them. ignoring them is the worst way to go it's rude at best and at worst if the girl's needy lets her delude herself that you are still interested and she'll keep after you... some will get the hint and leave you be but not near all ;)

it's f'in hard sometimes especially if you know the girl is really into you but you just gotta do it. doesn't mean you are too nice just that you care about people and how your actions affect them -- i'd be more worried about a person who feels nothing and doesn't give a shit about hurting someone they've been seeing than someone who feels a bit too much concern

[Guest]

Say exactly what you just said. Tell her "It didn't click."

[Guest]

[quote1228362057=Just/Us]
Like she is crazy or damaged or whatever.
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Welcome to the world of women my friend.

[Guest]

[quote1228362324=Skepsis]
Say exactly what you just said. Tell her "It didn't click."
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Exactly... it didn't click, and I don't want to waste either of our time pursuing something that isn't going to work in the long run. That is what I told my last... 'I just don't see it having a long term future and don't want to waste your or my time.'

[Guest]

well, is she hot enough to fuck? Maybe you should just give her my #.

[Guest]

In the end it is always easier...and nicer to be honest.

Get the load off your shoulders.

[Guest]

you haven't seen adamaged girl until you've dated one who's mom and dad died withing a few month of each other and was molested by her older brother and lives with her aunt who steals her social security and has cousins who steal everything she buys and grew up fat and a total outcast to society.

yeah...my day 2 with her, she bit me...without any warning whatsoever.

I told her she was batshit insane.

[Guest]

Agree with everyone on the honest approach. Unless she's manifesting make believe fairy tale land shit in her head about you and her, it won't come as much of a surprise...

PS
It's totally plausible that she is manifesting make believe fairy tale shit in her head, fyi. : )

[Guest]

[quote1228442601=Smirks]
Agree with everyone on the honest approach.
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Just make up some really funny lies about why you can't see her anymore. She'll think it's adorable!!!