by Guest » Thu Nov 27, 2008 4:19 pm
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i like your interpretation Finesse! i would say spot on! im interested to hear more about that rule of CJ's
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thanks, his rule simply states that the pua should only do just enough to escalate to the next step. it helps explain the problem of why guys stay in comfort to long, become the dancing monkey, are creepy because they try and seduce to soon.
the idea being that you only need X amount of attraction before you can seduce, X amount of comfort likewise. if you stay in comfort to long, sets stale and/or you become a friend.
you need X amount of attraction and comfort before you can touch, X amount before you can kiss, etc..
sadly this rule is only truely effective when the pua has the callibration to go behind it.