pointers needed

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So im going to the Matisyahu concert tongiht and i texted this girl that i met at the mall to go because my cousin is bringing his ex that i am annoyed by so we can even it out kinda and she replies by text,
'Its not a date right?" WTF!? WHY DO GIRLS GOTTA TURN THINGS INTO OBSTACLES WITH THEIR WORDDS!!! so i negged her big time by replying with
"a date? DAMN GIRL U WANNA GET IN MY PANTS ALREADY?! CALM YO ASS DOWN!! ;)"
hB "haha ok ok..."
hb: "I hope i can get up there, i dont know where it is"
me: "see...thats why u should roll with me...oh wait...you think its a date so...NEVERMIND! lol"
hb: hehe ur crazy
me: :)

so my plan is to run some jealously plot line shit while there...either hit on some girls in front of her and/or flirt big time with a HB8 that i know from school that said she wants to go...holy shit i sound like i should be on FUCKING SEX IN THE CITY!! LOL

[Guest]

Just keep with the mentality that you're a bit above her standard...which is why it's not a date. I make it known that I do 'do' dates...some times that question can be a shit test to see if you'll back down or an actual reservation of moving towards the dating thing...hard to gauge which w/o knowing more.

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yea i have a feelings it might be a shit test cause i know shes into me enough to where my chances of successfullly escalating will be much higher...so we'll see how she acts there expecailly when im hitting on ther girls in front of her :)

[Guest]

Just roll with it, let her think whatever the hell she wants. Run some push and pull on her and definitely be friendly with some other girls that you accidentally run into while at the concert. ;-)

I had a girl I met off myspace and I knew she was into me but would never go out on a date. So finally I just told her to meet me at the bar for drinks as "just friends"! She jumped on that offer. The next week we were having sex.

I don't know why they do this, perhaps it makes them feel more comfortable??? I see all the time on dating sites where these girls are just looking to be "friends"! hahaha b.s. Just let them think what they want and escalate to where you want it.

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I agree with UncleHOwie. It's funny but I don't think I've been on a "date" in a LONG ASS TME!!! nd yet there is never a shortage. I think he was right in stating that it might make them feel more comfortable kind of like when approaching with women instead of several guys. 1. they feel intimidated. 2. they feel like prey thats about to get ravaged by a bunch of heyennas.

I just give off the vibe that I am a guy of value that wants to go have a good time. 3 shots and 4 drinks later my finger is in their butt. Lol

I think your original reply to her text was great. It was funny and probably made her laugh. I think the second reply "Thats why you should ride w/ me" seemed a little too needy. Never give off the vibe of neediness as it will always push a girl away physically or emotionally and you will undoubtedly sabotage yourself in every respect. I think a better reply would have been something funny again along the lines of maybe...

HB:"I hope I can get up there. I don't even know where it is!"
You: "That me reminds me of this company that went from nothing to a multi billion dollar machine. It's called Google. Get yo ass on the computer and google that shit girl.. Lol Seriously if you need directios I got em"

Maybe even end it with, "I would offer you a ride but I think my BMW's already full.. :( .... ;) "

BTW. Whats up Gunner. Havent seen you since Mystery's talk..

[Guest]

hey bro...yea i have been away from the community due to several personal reasons which has all been resolved...and i feel during this semester of school...i have been pretty good for a beginner in the school game...but im ready to take it full swing here pretty soon...i feel that my ONLY..MY ONLY problem right now is my inner game...its really pissing me off that AA has been successful at ruling my social life...im ready to take over, but i feel that the only thing setting me back is the social circle i have already around me...and im not liking it...and to ACTUALLY get good at PU...i need to surround myself with ACTUAL PUAs and i know the number one rule to winging is to actually help the person get the girl...NOT FUCKING COMPETING OVER HER!!!! so i know you all are really cool with that...and i know you all are cool as people...so...you all should be seeing me pretty soon :)

[Guest]

Good to hear. You can tell from the number of posts I have that I have been away too. Took about 4 or 5 months off. I'm getting back into the reading and learing again, which I think everone needs no matter how good or successful they are.

Keep at it. Surround yourself with positive, helpful people. Get that negative self-talk shit outta your head. It will NEVER do you good, only harm. Read up on Matador. He is very much into innergame. Wish you all the luck...

[Guest]

hell yea man...thats awesome that your getting back into it...let me know whever you go out to field test some shit...im down to learn from the pros

[Guest]

Lol... Not a pro... I'm a mother fucking Natural!!! lolol. No for real. I need your number again b/c I dont have that phone anymore from when you last gave it to me.