by Guest » Thu Nov 13, 2008 6:42 pm
I've tried the audio recorder bit and it's really tough to hear what was said in a loud bar. It does however work well during Day game, assuming of course you can put the mic someplace close enough to hear your target WITHOUT it being obvious that you have a mic. Very, very tough. Usually you just end up with the sound of fabric rubbing against the mic. But, hey give it a shot anyway.
As for the blog with responses and conversations. I think conceptually it's a good idea, but in practice I think it would do nothing but create a bunch of guys saying the same lines to chicks.
No way would I ever post a routine, story, or line that was original to me on a public forum. No way. Which is a shame for you guys because I'm funny as hell...
The fact is that you would be better served by altering your delivery versus your message. I'm sure your message, as a person, is fine it's just the way you package said message that doesn't get you to where you want.
All too often we all seem to be seeking lines, phrases, comebacks, etc. that can help us to bust through shit tests or build attraction or hook or whatever. In reality, one should never worry about what you're going to say. Don't spend a lot of time thinking about what to say or worrying about what to say, instead just focus on going out and approaching.
I guess the long and short of it is that what you say isn't as important as how you say it.
Think about it in terms of the recent general election. Whether or not you like Obama or McCain isn't important. The fact is that Obama won the election because he delivered his 'message' in a much better fashion than did McCain. Not only that, but I'll take it a step further. Obama didn't really have a concrete 'message.' He was a walking buzz word: hope, change, hope, change. McCain on the other hand talked about issues, he just presented them in a less articulate fashion. The delivery won the election, the delivery will help you hook a girl. Focus on the delivery, not the words.