What's been going on with me lately..

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I guess quite a bit happened. I don't want to describe all that happened. Particularly, I want to write about what has been goin on with me and pick up. I have given up all my "prospects." What you call it don't matter. Prospects, talents, girls, broads, dimes, bitches, hoes, blah blah. I have stopped communicating with all the girls in denton, austin, and dallas area. Why? I don't know. I don't feel motivated anymore because I am tired of chasing little hoes around. Why can't I find a girl who is just fun, awesome, great personality with looks, caring, crazy about me, loyal. I want a woman who feel that I'm the only man for her. Nevermind, the question should be why isn't there a girl like that? A girl like this doesn't seem to exist in this world. My hatred towards women seem to be gettin dull. I guess it'z a good thang.

I just don't see any meaning of messing around these girls any longer. Pick up has allowed me to see the importance of HER value and personality. Her value and personality is probably the 2 biggest factors determine who she is. Values declares her priority and what's important in her life. I don't mean to encourage anyone to go for girls who are ugly with great personality. It seem like there isn't any physically high quality girl who are mentally high quality.

It seems like pick up just trains you to become more emotionless. I feel like it's impossible to become emotional with a girl when you don't put her on pedastal. I became hardened, and my mind all closed to women. It's not the same anymore. I don't emotionally invest in girls anymore. I feel as though pick up is only good for getting laid when you are horny. I know that it really isn't. Pick up can be used to self improve and used in many other areas.

Oh well. I got an interview with a firm in Dallas downtown area related to some real estate finance analyst/consulting position... wish me luck blah.
Really lots things can happen all at once.

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Hotter they are, the more fucked up they are

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every PUA goes through cycles or stages of which more experienced PUAs have felt at some point and time in their carrer as a pua. Typically things that happen in our lives effect all aspects of our lives. Im just gonna say that you havnt disclosed the entire story and I have been in the boat u are in and im pretty sure its caused by the issues you care not to discuss.

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I feel like this a lot too, man.

I think it's important to not hate women for what they are. Now that we all know it's in woman's nature to sometimes be fucked up cheating emotionally unstable bitches, why not step past that? Many of them are still amazing people. I think most people are basically good inside and don't intentionally try to hurt anyone.

Good luck on your position dude, hope you get it.

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I still don't see women as any worse than guys... so either you can hate everyone or accept everyone's human and hate no one. Or at least reserve the hate for those especially deserving ;)

Sleek I think you just need to sit down and figure out what it is you REALLY want, and set goals. A lot of it seems to be coming out of the transitional nature of where you are at just having graduated and still working on establishing a career and new social network here in Dallas. It's a journey :) Figure out what is most important, set goals, and then work on achieving the goals and you'll be fine.

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hey thanks all carmel, acuity, justice.
my interview went well but still got more to come lol.
I believe there will be more interviews blah.

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[quote1226018209=Sleek]Why can't I find a girl who is just fun, awesome, great personality with looks, caring, crazy about me, loyal. I want a woman who feel that I'm the only man for her. Nevermind, the question should be why isn't there a girl like that? A girl like this doesn't seem to exist in this world.[/quote]
The fun, awesome, great personality with looks, caring girls exist but surprisingly rare. For me, I would add smart as a requirement. The other two qualities (crazy about me, loyal) you never find. They are 100% up to you to earn.

Previously you've said you don't want to game anything less than a '10', and now you're saying you want personality too? Not to be too negative, but I think for the level of woman you describe, you need to have a lot more to offer than you currently have. I hope it doesn't sound harsh. Do you excite women with your passion and your brilliant future? Do you have the depth of thought and background to stimulate a smart woman? Are you attractive physically? Can you make her feel feminine and sexy? Can you provide for her financially as well as her other options? Can you blow her away in the sack?

The community is partly about marketing, but also about improving the quality of the product. The quality of the product matters, the marketing just earns you the opportunity for an introduction. For long term I would say the quality of the product is all that matters.

I think what would be good for you right now is to make some female friends. You don't have to lower your standards for sex. Meet as many 6's and 7's and 8's as you can, just for hanging out or whatever.

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The community is partly about marketing, but also about improving the quality of the product. The quality of the product matters, the marketing just earns you the opportunity for an introduction. For long term I would say the quality of the product is all that matters.

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Everyone should read that a hundred times.

Internalize that, take it seriously and improve yourself.

Watch the results.

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enough said

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The fun, awesome, great personality with looks, caring girls exist but surprisingly rare. For me, I would add smart as a requirement. The other two qualities (crazy about me, loyal) you never find. They are 100% up to you to earn.

Previously you've said you don't want to game anything less than a '10', and now you're saying you want personality too? Not to be too negative, but I think for the level of woman you describe, you need to have a lot more to offer than you currently have. I hope it doesn't sound harsh. Do you excite women with your passion and your brilliant future? Do you have the depth of thought and background to stimulate a smart woman? Are you attractive physically? Can you make her feel feminine and sexy? Can you provide for her financially as well as her other options? Can you blow her away in the sack?

The community is partly about marketing, but also about improving the quality of the product. The quality of the product matters, the marketing just earns you the opportunity for an introduction. For long term I would say the quality of the product is all that matters.

I think what would be good for you right now is to make some female friends. You don't have to lower your standards for sex. Meet as many 6's and 7's and 8's as you can, just for hanging out or whatever.
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I don't think I ever said anything about me not wanting to game any girls less than '10.' I recall saying something along the line like "I don't know about you guys, but physical attractiveness is pretty important to me." To be honest, I don't think I am that bad in many aspects. Comparing to many guys I know, I don't feel inferior to any of 'em in ANY aspects. I admit that I am not making much money as some of you guys around 30s. I do feel I deserve a high quality girl. That is why all of you guys are here. You guys aren't happy with low quality girls. You want hotter girls and more options. You guys feel that you deserve better and want high quality girl.

Those are good questions to ask ourselves. I for sure know none of you guys have all that since you are still here.

Vector, I don't think it's harsh what you said man. It's just funny that you said, "I think for the level of woman you describe, you need to have a lot more to offer than you currently have." Vector, I think you are a cool guy. We went sarging few times and even took a trip to Austin. However, you don't really know me at all. We never took time to get to know each other. You have no idea what I have going on outside pickup life. I reveal and admit my weaknesses on this board. That might have given you an impression that I have not much going on. Not that it really matters. I think this is one of very few places where you can talk about your problems and reveal your weaknesses. I am not on this board to create some fake image of myself. If any of you are perfect and have nothing to talk about on this board, it's all good. Keep your perfection to yourself.

We all desire higher quality girl than ourselves. I don't understand this whole measurement standards. It wants to tell you if you are good enough for her or not..
My best friend once told me this. "Do not EVER let ANY girl think you're not good enough for her." I used to have this measurement problem in my AFC days and always thought I was never good enough for any girls. Of course, this worked negative towards me.

I want to tell you all not to let any girl think you're not worth it. I'm sick and tired of measurement and such thinking. I deserve a high quality girl. So do you.