I just realized...

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that I seem to not get any oneitis anymore.
Before pick up, when I pick up a feeling that there is a potential to be more than just a friend with one certain girl (I have mild attraction at the beginning then soon it develops into something wayy deeper than just mild attraction), I close all my options for the other girls. I only pursue that girl because I create an exterior and interior image of this ideal girl in her that made me even more attracted to her. I used to imagine and create images of her personality even before I really got to know her. Of course, all the good ones like she is docile, good heart, and etc. Haha how silly. Back then, I did not know a THING about girls. I didn't even know how to handle them. I couldn't even talk to them and look straight to their eyes. This "old me" was not so distant from now. I have became closer toward "alpha." I learned that you can actually train yourself to become more confident. It's amazing the changes I have gone thru since this April... I always took girls' shits. Now, bitches can't grab my throat and shake me around. If they try any sort of those stunts, I punish them. oops sorry the top got off road a bit.

Important thing is that I no longer have oneitis to any girls I am attracted whether mildly or extremely. Is it because I have learned the truth about women? How fucked up and cold they could become. I used to have this thinking that all women were like angels. They needed to be treated like princesses. (at least the hot ones haha)... I'm starting to think that it may be because my hatred I developed towards women overcame the affections I seek from them. Whatever it is, it's a great thing for me. Won't you agree?

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Oh not to mention I was a strong believer of "monogamy" because of my culture and religious belief for the loooongest time... haha they ain't stoppin me now.

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You post a lot. I think you're trying to buff your numbers : P lol

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no idea sleek i know how fucked up women are and I still get oneitis on occasion ;)

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LOL I'm trying to get more stars lol lol.
I only got 7 stars, but you have 9!! :(

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Fuck 7 stars, I want Porn stars!

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hahahahahahaha!!

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Not to spoil the mood, but try not to focus your paradigm around negativity. I ran into this mindset not too long ago, then i began to question everything...

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I agree with Solace that you shouldn't focus on the negative. [b]Misogyny is not a good remedy for oneitis[/b], or for anything else. You shouldn't have any more "hatred" toward women than you do toward the human race. Especially since I somehow doubt anything really bad has happened to you, except for not getting the attention you thought you deserved.

For me, a lot of the negative feelings were abated by learning and understanding [i]why[/i] they do the things they do. And knowing how to deal within the world as it is, instead of how I wish it would be. Women are attracted to things that I think make no sense, and that I put little value in. Meanwhile, there are things I think should be very valuable, which women fail to recognize, or recognize very slowly. News flash, the world does not work the way I wish it did.

Don't hate the world because the laws of physics are not to your liking.

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Vector's right on here.

As easy as it is to think otherwise, we all need to be aware that women are people too. Sure, they make weird decisions that we all have a hard time understanding. And, yes they appear to make very poor decisions. But, we have to keep in mind that when you stop respecting women it becomes a poison. It'll spill over into your life and girls that are high-value, high self esteem, and catches will spot you coming from a mile away.

If you want quality women, learn to understand why they make the decisions they do. Learn to use their decision making processes for your advantage. But, always be sure to grant them the same respect you would anyone else.

I've been in my misogynistic stage and I can tell you that it fucks up your Game like you wouldn't believe. It feels liberating to feel as if you've got the upper hand on those 'hookers,' but really they still have a hold on you because you continue to be impacted by them. You still allow them to govern the rules of your life.

It sounds like you're starting to achieve the coveted skill of indifference. Which, by the way, I've always said that "the difference is indifference." But, there is a difference between being indifferent because you don't respect and 'hate' women versus being indifferent because you're secure in who you are and don't really care who does and doesn't like you.

Misogynists aren't free the way they would like to believe. Instead, they're still allowing women to impact their attitudes, actions, thoughts, and life. The key is to get to the point where you simply don't allow them to impact your life. You are who you are...always.