by Guest » Wed Oct 22, 2008 12:10 am
so far i've found with online its best to hook'em hard and convert to in person asap. the quality chicks who are talking to you are probably talking to other dudes as well and the one who gets them live without blowing it usually wins :) game rules still apply.. if you can convey how badass you are to them, you can hook'em but everybody online pretends to be badass ;)
as far as whether to keep it up if they are not taking up too much of your time no reason not to! biggest problem with online is it's easy to waste a shitload of time compared to just going to a venue and opening sets... well that and the chicks who post fake pics ;)
Also one thing I have found valuable that I learned through some material about online is that the verbal play of pumping their emotions is just as important... if you can make them visualize and connect with their past emotions to get them to that state in the present you're golden. I rejoined plenty of fish the other day cuz it's free and took my old profile and added this to the top... i've had more girls email me unsolicited in the last couple days then in the couple months i was a member before - not saying this is anything great or really even appropriate for IM just using it as an example of shit you can do:
headline: Remember that night you were so happy?
starting text: You went out with someone special -- the stars were aligned, the night was fantastic, your heart almost burst out of your chest and you went to sleep in a state of total euphoria?
Let's make that happen -- if you can't feel your heart beating, what's the point?